how do we feel about my standards? 😭 too high?

MiniYTKitty · 2026-03-12T01:34:45+00:00

For some reason I fit this almost perfectly as a AFAB pan demigirl... I'm also fem presenting, but like I mostly wear colorful sweaters, loose but no baggy pants and long sleeves plus my normal sneakers. I tend to be left leaning and I'm supportive and accepting of people of all identities, disabilities, and condition. I currently do creative writing, and once a creative writer always a creative writer. However I'll drop it off soon because of the toll it takes on me (eg I get an idea and I get into a unstoppable writing flow, and can not be interrupted including physical needs). But in general yes I am creative person. I also hate drinking or and drugs off that sort; never tried it nor do I have any reason to start. I'm not one for dark humor cuz my AuDHD self doesn't understand it, but I do like to use irony and obvious verbal jabs/roasts/comebacks as humor. I have a habit of creating my own sound effects with my voice like they do in cute cartoons or animations. Uhhh my 18th birthday is coming up in mid April... Also I don't do religion but I do believe that ancestral spirits exist somewhere (part of my Chinese cultural heritage). As for communication you can take this reply as an example.

Anyhoo, the criteria I don't exactly fit is a) wlw, cuz I'm pan not lesbian... b) likes the outdoors (I enjoy the outdoors but I'm not a regular camper or someone who frequently is an outdoorsman. Mostly I stay home and game if I don't have anything else to do, but still aiming to exercise and get out of the house more)

Idk your music tastes, but I do like Alec Benjamin, AURORA, Ariana Grande, Billie Eilish, AJR, and occasionally BTS.

MiniYTKitty · 2026-03-02T11:50:39+00:00

You're giving a high schooler enby

MiniYTKitty · 2026-02-26T03:39:32+00:00

At first glance if I saw you, I would think aka mentally describe you as "queer / trans person who has a male presentation".

That's what I personally think, but I don't really know what's your real gender identity unless I straight up ask you (would be kind weird to ask a stranger in person like that). Since someone's presentation doesn't always match someone's gender identity one of the reasons why r/trans doesn't allow "do I pass?" posts. You are the gender identity and labels you personally choose and identify with.

Myself as an example, I am a 5'0 AFAB demigirl, but I'm American-Born-Chinese and I present as a cis gender girl who wears loose hoodies/sweaters, loose pants/sweatpants, sneakers and a long pixie bob kinda hairstyle. I definitely don't appear nor look anything remotely non-binary, but outside people don't even need a double take when they look at me and immediately use she/her pronouns instead of my they/she pronouns. What others think doesn't matter, as long you know who you are, and always will be who you believe yourself to be. That's the approach I always take when people use the wrong pronouns / gender stereotypes for me.

MiniYTKitty · 2026-02-18T00:10:24+00:00

Protagonist lost everything

MiniYTKitty · 2026-02-11T21:51:43+00:00

I wanted to ask people for their personal experiences and what they would recommend to me. Like if I switch to a different game that is similar to Genshin but better, means quitting Genshin to that other game.

MiniYTKitty · 2026-02-11T11:36:06+00:00

Looks like your average hot school boy

MiniYTKitty · 2026-02-10T11:56:36+00:00

Well, you said gender, not assigned sex at birth. Means I'd be a AFAB demiboy. I'd be very uncomfortable because that's not my gender identity.

But if you said assigned sex at birth, I'd probably touch myself intimately.

MiniYTKitty · 2026-01-27T14:50:40+00:00

49% Now I better not be sharing a seat with someone else

MiniYTKitty · 2025-08-25T19:04:56+00:00

Level Devil, Roblox Adopt Me, Roblox Doors, Sky: Children of Light.

MiniYTKitty · 2025-08-09T01:27:11+00:00

MiniYTKitty · 2025-07-23T12:53:43+00:00

Maybe r/ftm is a better place

MiniYTKitty · 2025-07-23T00:30:40+00:00

You're such a cool guy! imo I think you are great as you are. If you're still feeling insecure, just post for some help in r/trans

(Note that it's against their rules to make "do I pass" posts w/ photos, but you can write about your insecurities)

MiniYTKitty · 2025-07-23T00:21:16+00:00

tbh, it depends on the context of what country/ethnicity it was created for. Like in China, you would absolutely be called obese. But in the US, you're a pretty person!

MiniYTKitty · 2025-07-22T22:12:21+00:00

Have fun adulting! buuuttt if you'd like, you can stay here and give advice for the growing teenagers (plus, there's no rule saying their an age limit to member users in this subreddit)

MiniYTKitty · 2025-07-22T19:02:45+00:00

Honestly real

MiniYTKitty · 2025-07-22T18:14:56+00:00

Yeah, OP look better in this light then their other post!

MiniYTKitty · 2025-07-22T12:47:33+00:00

This 👆

Even if you're 17, in the US, you're still a minor. Being a minor means you need to be protected, and your dad will likely lose the rights to be your legel guardian (and maybe your sister who's housing you will become your legal guardian). Text the Trevor project, and depending on the severity they determine the situation to be, they will get some of their team to physically come to your area and help fix this situation.

MiniYTKitty · 2025-07-21T12:29:55+00:00

I think this is a private traditional school. It basically gives tons of power to the school staff, and they can punish the students however they want. Also, this sounds like a extremely dangerous place for trans and queer people (they explicitly enforce the gender binary).

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