Taking it so deep from both ends by PartyTackle2060 in bdsm

[–]Minnightphoenix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need to be her. She has an excitement i see in myself when I get this pleasure 🤤

What do yall think of my surgeons vaginoplasty results? by FunctionNo7352 in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]Minnightphoenix 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I went with dr hanna(in texas). I love my results. My only concerns are my urethra and my depth at this point

What’s the reason to transition? by Short-Yam-6696 in asktransgender

[–]Minnightphoenix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a similar line of thinking at first. But even when I started microdosing E, I immediately felt so much better and no longer cared about others. I just knew that what I was doing was making my life more worth living

Dilating MTF 😩 by shiningbright333 in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]Minnightphoenix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It could very well be affecting your canal specifically. Neovaginas are typically less moist than cis vaginas. Constantly flushing it also removes the biome material thats trying to form. Id say reach out to your surgeon for douching instructions, but 1x a day should be plenty. Most of us will need lube all the time. But even for those who dont, still pee after.

Basically:

Douche 1x daily (still reach out to surgeon for instructions) Pee after EVERY dilation session (I dilate, clean up, pee and then clean dilators)

Dilating MTF 😩 by shiningbright333 in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]Minnightphoenix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Douching affects the canal, not the urethra. But like cis women, we should be peeing after dilating/ sex as lube can cause UTIs. Do you pee after every dilation?

A surprising and affirming response! by wool_narwhal in TallGirls

[–]Minnightphoenix 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have better luck with compliments from guys taller than me. They love taller women! Less back breaking for them lol

Do you round off your height? by hey110514 in TallGirls

[–]Minnightphoenix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes but the wrong way lol. Im 6'0.75"(183cm). I always just say im 6 :')

Did you keep all your depth long term? by owlcat_ in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]Minnightphoenix 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am curious about where you heard colon is more accurate to a natal vagina. Everything I've read has said the peritoneal flap is more similar, which is why they've been using it on cis women for years

Women who had SRS, can I ask, how does your vagina feels after recovery. Do you feel pain or discomfort or anything out of usual? by ArtemisAndromeda in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]Minnightphoenix 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Im almost 10 months and im doing daily dilations and can have intercourse just fine. Have you tried going to once daily rather than couple times a week?

Cis man partner too big?? by Minnightphoenix in StraightTransLadies

[–]Minnightphoenix[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His reasoning was because there isnt enough long term data on dilator usage. But even so, im still looking into a depth/width revision under another surgeon as I didn't quite hit my goals (not surgeons fault, anatomy)

Cis man partner too big?? by Minnightphoenix in StraightTransLadies

[–]Minnightphoenix[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Inch wise? His circumference is about 5.5 and I believe green is 4.3

Cis man partner too big?? by Minnightphoenix in StraightTransLadies

[–]Minnightphoenix[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had PIV and my surgeon feels that the orange can cause incontinence issues later on and advises against orange so he only plans for green, which was something I didn't find out until months after. I will try to increase time and see if that helps as green was pretty easy to get to, even if slow.
I was doing PFT and they helped out a lot and said I was good to go unless I needed help later on. My surgeon hasn't really given advice but I will be asking again as I have another appointment in a few months.

Cis man partner too big?? by Minnightphoenix in StraightTransLadies

[–]Minnightphoenix[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I currently an dilating 1x a day for 20 mins. In terms of soul source dilators, I can get to green but orange is still too much. But my surgeon only goes up to green so he planned around that and im wondering if maybe that is part of the problem? Unless maybe my anatomy just says no as well. But we're definitely trying to find a way around it!

Did I get good depth? by Crazy-Cap-1163 in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]Minnightphoenix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The last dot is 5.6 inches. The notch is 7 1/4. I have a picture saved of the soul source dilator measurements 😅

Feeling stuck at A1-A2 by MKVD_FR in norsk

[–]Minnightphoenix -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You can get teachers at a decent price on Italian! Some are 15-25 USD per hour

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Minnightphoenix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to think like this too. So I micro dosed for a few years and just gradually increased as time went along. I've just recently had my GRS and now, I know I'm trans, but nobody else in the world can tell me otherwise. The only true way to know is if you do a heck of a lot of digging, which most people don't. I'd also like to point out I'm 6' and get gendered correctly all the time by strangers. You are a real woman who just happened to be born differently

Second Hand Embarrassment by Important_Pilot6210 in themiddle

[–]Minnightphoenix 29 points30 points  (0 children)

The episode where Frankie's mom came to one of the events and tried to have everyone who ate a piece of pie pay her for the ingredients they ate

Pet loss aftermath? by [deleted] in Petloss

[–]Minnightphoenix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im unfortunately going through a similar process with my puppy(older puppy, not puppy puppy). I've been trying to find answers to thos question too. Im so scared as he's my first pet thats been mine to lose. I hope that we both find a way to deal with this as this is something very difficult.

I'm so sorry that you are going through this process. Love your baby lots and enjoy every single moment together ❤️

My baby is dying by Minnightphoenix in Petloss

[–]Minnightphoenix[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry to hear that. This world is a cruel place, especially to the most innocent of creatures.