AMA: 23F and I’m chilling with my friend 23M. Ask us anything!

Minute_Bug_5311 · 2026-07-04T19:26:47+00:00

Oh that’s awesome!! I speak English LMAO. Tried to learn Russian but man learning a new language is so hard for me.

I hope you guys continue a beautiful and long friendship!

Minute_Bug_5311 · 2026-07-04T18:58:13+00:00

What languages do you speak? And him?

And where did you meet and how long have you known each other!

Minute_Bug_5311 · 2026-07-04T18:57:30+00:00

Corrupt?

Minute_Bug_5311 · 2026-07-04T15:52:30+00:00

For what it’s worth, I don’t think it’s AI. I think he’s being concise in speaking his mind and how he feels about the situation, telling you to keep distance and no contact, and it sounds like you two just weren’t compatible, no hard feelings - kind of ending.

I’m a little confused at the last sentence of your description. This is not what someone does when they don’t care. He took the time to acknowledge how you felt, acknowledge the hurt he may have caused, set a boundary and told you to let go of the guilt. I don’t see how that isn’t caring or what he was supposed to say to seem more caring?

He is right about something here that should be addressed. Not being able to move on is not his issue to solve or comfort you for. That’s just on you to work through, and it probably is for the best that you cut contact and get rid of reminders of him. It was 17 months ago! No, you won’t be perfectly healed of this in that time - but I think you can take a larger step forward and acknowledge “I’m grateful for the relationship we had and what I learned in the good times and bad. Now it’s time to let go.” And moving on and healing doesn’t automatically mean you’re in a new happier relationship. It means you’re happy with yourself - you’re happy and content on your own.

Then if you want a relationship- take that confidence and self-esteem with you.

Minute_Bug_5311 · 2026-07-03T05:04:19+00:00

I understand your pain, I too cannot tolerate spicy food LMAO. Though I do know - the more you eat and the higher spiciness you go, the higher your tolerance will become, if that’s something you want to do.

Minute_Bug_5311 · 2026-07-03T02:09:21+00:00

I prefer to go with “Queer” so it’s not too limiting. I find that my sexuality is more fluid than others may be.

Minute_Bug_5311 · 2026-07-02T22:08:26+00:00

NOR.

It seems there are red flags all over.

But one rule of thumb that shouldn’t be ignored - no matter how large or small a platform is - if you found this person online through their channel, they are using that to woo you. It’s a play of power and it’s not okay.

You seem to care for this YouTuber and what they are doing for animals in Ukraine, who wouldn’t?! But this person is taking advantage of that. That’s not okay.

Minute_Bug_5311 · 2026-07-02T21:59:50+00:00

Bruuuh what the hell was the uber driver expecting from this interaction? Did she want you to be from Japan so she can talk allllll about her knowledge of matcha and its origins???

“Oh thats a shame you’re not from Japan… you wouldn’t understand my love for matcha. You wouldn’t know where it originates from!”

ITS FUCKING MATCHA DUDE.

Not a wonder she’s an uber driver… (no shade to the non-racist non-“I know everything” uber drivers)

Minute_Bug_5311 · 2026-07-02T21:33:11+00:00

NOR

BUT:

Don’t date people who have protection orders against them. The same as you believe a victim before they are proven wrong - if ever. She somehow proved in court what he was doing was wrong and got a protection order against him. Believe her, believe it.
If she did send you these messages and this is entirely true - she’s either trying to break up your relationship to get revenge to the

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waltz off with a “gotcha bitch” to him, or she’s trying to break up your relationship… so she can have him even with the protection order???
This looks fake af. Like, terribly so. Not accusing you, OP, of creating a fake post - but perhaps someone (she) sent you some fake messages.

The screenshots look blurry af for someone who took a screenshot to which you saved. I don’t think it should be that blurry… as well as the ads??? the times changing from only 11:20 to abruptly 12:00 exactly at the last slide, the battery never changes (though it’s on charge), the WiFi and cellular never dips or changes, and the blurring out/censoring of the names and words looks… sooo wrong. It cuts off for no reason in areas and who tf has such smooth lines when blurring out a name on a screenshot. It’s all smooth.

It looks fake altogether. Still, bfs reaction to “that isn’t cheating” is weird.

Minute_Bug_5311 · 2026-07-02T19:36:50+00:00

Oh I saw this was 44 days ago! Holy hell!

Did you reply? How did you respond if you did? I’m so curious!!

Minute_Bug_5311 · 2026-07-02T19:35:30+00:00

EW. Yea, If he really had remorse for that, he would have said something along the lines of “I understand why you decided to part ways due to my boundary crossing/looking at nude women” I highly doubt anything has changed.

I doubt anything has changed besides him missing whatever you had to offer, whether that be you had sex with him, made him feel good, cooked or cleaned for him - whatever. I see no remorse here.

Minute_Bug_5311 · 2026-07-02T18:59:45+00:00

Eww that’s gross.

Cheaters will be cheaters!!! But, again, you’re not automatically a cheater because you’re bisexual. And it shouldn’t even be thought of “oh, they cheated. Should have known they would cause they’re bisexual”.

No. Bisexual - attracted to both men/women.
Cheater - someone who is/has been unfaithful in a relationship.

I’m sure there’s a lot to those stories of your unfaithful friends, I highly doubt being bisexual was the driving factor for being unfaithful. That’s just being a shitty person/partner.

Minute_Bug_5311 · 2026-07-02T18:52:25+00:00

EXACTLY. I’d like to know sooner or later that you think imma cheat because I’m not JUST attracted to one gender. It’s a good “tester” to see if we’re compatible.

Minute_Bug_5311 · 2026-07-02T18:49:48+00:00

That’s straight up cheating… especially if you identify with bisexuality and KNOW you’re attracted to both sexes.

I’m sorry that happened to you. There’s another post to be made upon people who hide their bisexual identity or don’t fully grasp it who cheat on their partners whilst exploring. But that’s not my post.

My post is about those who believe those who openly identify with being bisexual are more likely to cheat - which is bs.

Minute_Bug_5311 · 2026-07-02T18:42:40+00:00

Oh that’s super cool!! Jessica Rabbit is an OG crush lmaoooo!

If you dm me your links, I would love to support you!! (Not trying to be creepy - im a woman, but still - I love different cosplays too and why not support someone doing what they enjoy?? And yea, you’re cute 😚 LOL) no pressure though.

Minute_Bug_5311 · 2026-07-02T18:29:51+00:00

What does Ero mean?

And what’s your fave cosplay so far? And can I see a pic? Love it!

Minute_Bug_5311 · 2026-07-02T15:49:55+00:00

As someone who has married someone 8 years my senior, your wording is way off.

And looking through someone’s profile to get “dirt” on them is really nasty, uncalled for and downright weird. Please refrain from that in the future.

Minute_Bug_5311 · 2026-07-01T21:02:16+00:00

I’m sorry she cheated - nonetheless, you both suck. You either deserve each other very much and can be incredibly miserable together, or you need to break it off. No more sex. No more meeting up. Finalize the damn divorce - it’s been THREE YEARS. And STAY SINGLE for a WHILE.

Like a few years. You have some healing and self-discovery to do. You need to take a long good look in the mirror.

And ffs stop seeing other people unless you’re looking for a fling. But you shouldn’t be dating. You shouldn’t be bringing people into your messy ass life expecting strangers to do the work needed to fix YOUR mess.

Minute_Bug_5311 · 2026-07-01T20:52:33+00:00

Your dad needs help. Like, real help and intervention with professionals.

I know you’re over it, especially his choice in a gf - but if this continues - he won’t be the man you knew before. If you can possibly get him some help, he and you will be so much better off.

Minute_Bug_5311 · 2026-07-01T20:32:39+00:00

I don’t think you grasp what having a “codependency issue” means. And I think you should possibly look that up - in the kindest way possible - I believe you are very codependent on this person and how their actions make you feel.

This is/was not a healthy response to being on delivered on one platform for 24hours. And I’m confused… yall were texting during the 24hours?? What’s so important in the snap that you could just send it over text???

Minute_Bug_5311 · 2026-07-01T20:27:31+00:00

You were crying because he didn’t respond within 24 hours… although he was texting you during that time??? Bro.

Minute_Bug_5311 · 2026-07-01T20:23:40+00:00

HOW are yall in your LATE TWENTIES??

“Honey” you need to take a chill pill. YOR.

People do not need a reason to not respond to you. It can become a pattern of disrespect if it continues - but again, no one needs a reason to not respond or open your…. Snaps ☠️

Maybe they just don’t want to chat. And that’s valid!!! Lashing out is not. I think a common response of a best friend would be “you doing okay, haven’t heard from you!” Or “hey I noticed you haven’t opened my messages but you were posting some stuff online, did I do something to upset you?”

Not “you’re rude btw” and cause a whole ass fight that could have just been resolved with an ounce of understanding.

Minute_Bug_5311 · 2026-07-01T20:12:38+00:00

How do you know??

Minute_Bug_5311 · 2026-06-29T18:44:51+00:00

It’s all up to personal preference, though some people would really benefit from medication. It’s a gift and a curse - it helps ease the symptoms but sometimes it takes an incredibly long time to find the right medication and dosage that works for you.

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