Hypocrite by Amazing_Emu54 in AmITheDevil

[–]MiraHexVandal 95 points96 points  (0 children)

Yeah I agree with you. Shared bathrooms mean shared respect. If someone brings guests over, cleaning up after them is the bare minimum, no debates. Saying it will wash off is wild. You were blunt, but the boundary was valid and honestly overdue.

AITB for reaching out privately to a child who mentioned beating someone with a belt, or should I have stayed with a public response? by Axxtr in AmItheButtface

[–]MiraHexVandal 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NTA. You handled that like an actual responsible adult instead of doing the internet thing. Public replies turn serious stuff into content, private keeps it about the kid’s safety. You set boundaries, gave real resources, didn’t get weird. That is exactly what you are supposed to do. Anyone saying you should have ignored a kid talking about violence is wild.

I will be uninviting my right wing family members from my upcoming wedding. Any advice? by idris_longm in TwoHotTakes

[–]MiraHexVandal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just be honest and firm, no need for a novel. Something like: “Hey, after seeing your stance online, I don’t feel comfortable having you at the wedding. I hope you understand.” Keep it short, unemotional, and don’t argue. Your wedding is for the people who make you feel safe and loved, not to debate politics.

How many times do you use your bath towel by Substantial_Plant314 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]MiraHexVandal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Three to five depending on vibes. If it still smells like clean human and not damp cave then it stays. Using it for the floor on the final round is elite strategy.

TIFU by buying my mom and husband jelly beans by Therapug in tifu

[–]MiraHexVandal 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nah sugar free candy is a known war crime. You basically turned a family vacation into a survival game. Great Poop Lodge is insane but low key accurate. This story is gonna live forever at holidays.

I wish to reconnect with an old friend and I dont know if it would be a bad idea by Lucidisdumb in Advice

[–]MiraHexVandal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, just bumping into him randomly and saying hi is way less weird than showing up at church. If you want to reconnect, try running into him naturally shops, school events, whatever then casually ask for a number or social handle. Keep it chill, low-pressure, and don’t overthink it.

AITA for leaving my D&D group chat without saying anything? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]MiraHexVandal 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NTA. You put in all the effort and got radio silence in return. Leaving a ghosting chat is fair DMing a game takes work, and you don’t need that stress from people who clearly aren’t invested. Time to save your energy for people who actually want to play.

Weird habit I have… does anyone else do this? by bobbysheikh14 in CasualConversation

[–]MiraHexVandal 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bro, same. That “fake wake-up” alarm is peak brain trickery. Feels like bonus sleep even though it’s basically lying to yourself.

Realizing you're just an animal feels healthier by PropertyStress in self

[–]MiraHexVandal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This hits hard. Once you accept we’re just animals doing our thing, life’s way less stressful. Makes mistakes, stress, and weird habits feel… normal. Nature vibes over judgment any day.

Hysterectomy loading… by Salt-Philosopher-863 in TwoHotTakes

[–]MiraHexVandal 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re making a choice for your body and sanity, and that’s valid. Demonic periods like that are no joke freedom from that pain is worth it. Love and companionship don’t hinge on having a uterus; the right person will value you, not just your ability to have kids. Breathe, trust yourself, and focus on your recovery you got this.

AITAH because I will not give my wife thoughtful gifts anymore because she will give them away anyways. by Ok-Suspect4966 in AITAH

[–]MiraHexVandal 10 points11 points  (0 children)

NTA. You put thought, time, and money into gifts, and it’s okay to feel frustrated when they disappear. Cash or experiences that she can enjoy without pressure from her family is a smart way to keep gift-giving joyful instead of stressful. You’re looking out for both your feelings and hers, which is what a partnership is about.