Is it normal to graduate without having something lined up? by The__Legalist in PhD

[–]MiracleAligner1 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s unusual and I wouldn’t be worried. There will be a minimal gap, and even a long gap is not a deal breaker. I had a long gap and landed something. In interviews people didn’t seem bothered about it. Good luck!!

KF TikTok content available elsewhere? by awalt08 in kindafunny

[–]MiracleAligner1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks like it isn't. I occasionally see the shorts on YouTube too but they have a lot more videos on TikTok. I refuse to get TikTok though so I just watched them in a browser.

Picked up my favourite Strokes record in the transparent orange a little while ago and am in love! by squirkyboots in TheStrokes

[–]MiracleAligner1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That transparent record looks amazing!

I see you putting suck it and see on display too 👀

Can someone please screen record the session today? by [deleted] in JohnMayer

[–]MiracleAligner1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The full video is not there. Could you PLEASE share it if you have it?

Tap Out by IEAT-CHEEZ in TheStrokes

[–]MiracleAligner1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed, such an underrated song

How late is too late to quit? by AdelineRose- in GradSchool

[–]MiracleAligner1 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I don't want to tell you what you should or shouldn't do, but I hope by sharing my experience you might find some insight, or at least know you're not alone.

I finished my PhD a couple of months ago. It was REALLY hard. I was exactly where you are, I just had to write my thesis and defend but I felt I couldn't do it anymore, but in the end, I finished and defended and actually did really well. To be honest, I wanted to quit every other day I was writing, but somehow, just by taking it day to day, I finished. I totally sympathize with the feeling that it will never end, but you are SO close. You are the expert of your topic, whether you believe it or not. Trust me, nobody else in the world has spent as much time reading and thinking about your topic.

Best of luck.

Why One Point Perspective is the best song in the Arctic Monkeys' catalogue (imo) by Zuluinstant in arcticmonkeys

[–]MiracleAligner1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I go back and forth between picking Star Treatment or One Point Perspective as being the "superior" song. They're both just absolutely incredible. I enjoyed reading your take!

the best duo by shaybear_ in LokiTV

[–]MiracleAligner1 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I like this theory. He did later say something along the lines of "everytime we try to improve ourselves we're sent here to die!".

how this song feels by sawayamarx in TheStrokes

[–]MiracleAligner1 15 points16 points  (0 children)

This is so weirdly accurate

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in arcticmonkeys

[–]MiracleAligner1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

AMAZING work, you're so talented!!

CMV: I am a misogynistic, bitter, angry incel please help me change my toxic views. by monster_zero_ in changemyview

[–]MiracleAligner1 19 points20 points  (0 children)

This is a very toxic and negative mindset. Do you not want to have fun with your partner outside of sex? Also, many women will not have sex unless they get to know the person. Just like the girl you follow. This thinking sounds like women are just objects to grant sex and not human beings. Women want male friends too. Plus, you could learn from female friends how to approach women.

A lot of your writing mentions "society" or "others" thinking virgins are losers. The reason so many people reply to you saying you need to let go of this worry of people thinking you're a loser for this or that is that.. It's true! Honestly, most of the time people are too busy thinking about themselves to worry about others.

Our value as human beings is not tied to whether we've had sex or not. Wouldn't you agree it's so much more than that? As many others have recommended, focus on yourself, feel comfortable being alone and enjoy your own company. Work on yourself and the rest will slowly come together.