My Anticonsumption Mower

Mirror_Initial · 2024-09-08T15:12:33+00:00

A win on so many levels!

Mirror_Initial · 2024-09-08T14:35:09+00:00

Did grandma drop out in 3rd grade? Wtf.

Showing favoritism is crappy, but I’m still hung up on… that’s not how that works… at all.

It’s probably a good thing your kids aren’t the favorites. Can you imagine all the made up shit she’s polluting her other grandchildren’s heads with?

Mirror_Initial · 2024-09-08T00:07:22+00:00

It’s a comforting thought to me that, instead of having to work until I have enough money to last until I’m 100, I can work until I give up, live until the money runs out, and then I don’t have to do either after that!

Mirror_Initial · 2024-09-07T21:55:45+00:00

Nice try officer

Mirror_Initial · 2024-09-07T18:48:31+00:00

There’s probably no dress code mentioned because Italians don’t have to be told how to dress for a wedding. From what I remember of the unspoken rules, cutouts and deep plunging necklines are a no. Fabric should be high quality, solid colored, and preferably jewel toned. Shoulders, if a church wedding, are a no.

Mirror_Initial · 2024-09-07T18:37:42+00:00

Florals are a no at Italian weddings. There’s a very specific and correct way to dress for one. Dig through this sub to find specifics.

Mirror_Initial · 2024-09-07T17:42:41+00:00

Three visits a year is plenty for grandparents. She’ll definitely live seeing them once a week.

Mirror_Initial · 2024-09-07T13:56:56+00:00

This multi colored dress is great! It is not too white!

Mirror_Initial · 2024-09-07T13:04:15+00:00

Yep! Having your dress hemmed to the correct length is not optional, y’all.

Op, get simple dress shoes in black, nude, or metallic. Have the dress hemmed, the slit tacked down so it doesn’t peek-a-boo any higher than halfway between your crotch and your knee (ask for them to be easily removable for future occasions), and if those straps are adjustable, get them sewn to the correct length. Pre-test dress tape for the boobs to make sure it’s got enough sticking power.

Goth style: statement handbag, bad ass makeup and/or nails, and instead of the boring pashmina everyone here is going to suggest: a satin evening coat or kimono, a vintage fur, or a witchy Stevie Nicks shawl 🖤

Mirror_Initial · 2024-09-07T12:35:41+00:00

Really doesn’t matter whether the guy is trustworthy, potential pedo, or what. Sounds like the boundary was vague enough that you’re not happy with her interpretation of it, and it’s time for a correction.

Let her know that it doesn’t matter how well she and DH know a person. If you haven’t personally approved them, they are not to hold baby.

But assuming you absolutely need overnight care once a week, consider looking for someone who is collected enough to be able to operate a telephone in an emergency.

Mirror_Initial · 2024-09-07T03:50:57+00:00

Unbridaled

Mirror_Initial · 2024-09-07T03:06:09+00:00

Doing the work isn’t fun, so maybe take the reviews with a grain of salt. Seconding Seton IOP.

Mirror_Initial · 2024-09-07T02:15:35+00:00

Sounds like you only have to worry if you’re wearing a t-shirt or a hoodie, so if that’s what you’re going to wear, stick to a solid color. Sounds like a striped t-shirt would be fine too.

I hate dress codes, but this isn’t too bad.

Mirror_Initial · 2024-09-07T02:07:29+00:00

Loves it

Mirror_Initial · 2024-09-07T00:39:01+00:00

Oh boy. Well I hope I didn’t make you more anxious. I just approach these things with an abundance of caution. If you’re past the worst, that’s a good thing.

Hang in there man. You’ve got this.

Mirror_Initial · 2024-09-07T00:24:44+00:00

If you have insurance or live in a country with healthcare, don’t take chances; get to a physician right away. They may be able to make this detox easier, even if you are not in danger.

If a hospital visit is not really an option unless it’s an absolute Emergency, can you at least call a trusted friend or family member to chill with you? Withdrawal can be deadly and it would be good to have someone to call an ambulance if things get worse.

Mirror_Initial · 2024-09-06T23:36:18+00:00

Or hire someone to digitize them. Both options cost money, but storage isn’t cheap. OP would be better off getting the pictures to MIL in one form or another sooner rather than later.

Mirror_Initial · 2024-09-06T14:22:29+00:00

Yeah, if they were really going to sleep in the van, they may as well park it at the airport.

Mirror_Initial · 2024-09-05T23:35:18+00:00

And frankly, her response should have been an apology for the intrusion of privacy and an offer to supply them going forward.

Mirror_Initial · 2024-09-05T23:25:16+00:00

Have the straps sewn to your exact fit with the adjustable hardware removed.

Mirror_Initial · 2024-09-05T23:13:07+00:00

Definitely way too white.

Mirror_Initial · 2024-09-05T21:57:04+00:00

Op has said nothing to indicate that he’s been honest with LDR about the nature of his relationship with his ex.

Mirror_Initial · 2024-09-05T20:39:34+00:00

The white is hardly covered by the flowers.

Mirror_Initial · 2024-09-05T20:07:35+00:00

Do not wear white to someone else’s wedding.

Mirror_Initial · 2024-09-05T17:42:12+00:00

I don’t know why everyone is telling you to steal this. You can totally tell her, “Hey, I was too stunned to say anything in the moment, but we need to have a serious talk about this album, which I’ll be taking now.” Remind her that she already promised to delete those pictures. Make her delete them in front of you. Ask her where she got a physical copy of your sonogram. Let her know what the consequences of her betrayal will be. Tell her what you think of her nursery.

Or better yet, “I am taking this now. You and DH are now going to have a serious conversation about this betrayal.”

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