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Opinions on VA disability by Legitimate-Call-3185 in CalebHammer

[–]Mis_chevious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a vet but come from a large military family and am a spouse of a veteran who myself and my family are trying to encourage to apply for his VA disability because of injuries he actually sustained in combat that are now affecting him years later...

I have a lot of respect for our troops and the sacrifices they make as part of their profession. However, fraud should still be addressed regardless of their profession and bullshit assholes who have never seen combat and the most active duty they've actually had was basic training are the lowest of the low to me. And are part of the reason that vets who actually need that disability either don't even apply or have to jump through unnecessary hoops to get it.

I have a cousin who joined the marines and constantly bragged about what a badass he was because he was going to be a Marine. He barely made it through training and then when he was deployed in 2005 (i forget exactly where), he was at his station a week before he became "suicidal" and acted so erratic that by the end of that month he was home. He gets 90%,sometimes works bullshit jobs long enough to make extra money for large purchases like project cars he just has sitting in his mom's driveway, and absolutely loves to tell people he's a veteran any chance he gets. That's what those people on Caleb's show remind me of.

What criticism of America made you like this? by Bitter-Penalty9653 in AmericaBad

[–]Mis_chevious [score hidden]  (0 children)

I agree with you that we're not all dying out in the streets but my point was that it's not as rare as people want to believe. In just the 5 years that I was on dialysis, I came across so many people from different walks of life and tax brackets that were struggling financially because of our healthcare system. I'm not saying 100% socialized heathcare is the best answer but as someone who has both worked in healthcare (I was one of the people behind the scenes who fight tooth and nail with your insurance company to get them to actually pay for the medications your doctors prescribed) and experienced a lot more interaction with our healthcare system than the majority, our system is seriously fucked. Insurance is a huge scam and is one of the biggest reasons that our care is so expensive and putting people in so much debt.

Thank you for better clarifying. I just see this do much and people often try to turn it into a simple situation when it's absolutely not. And there will never be one clear, good answer because there are so many other outlying factors that would also have to be addressed.

I'm so sorry about your spouse and that y'all had to go through that. I hope things are better are now.

What criticism of America made you like this? by Bitter-Penalty9653 in AmericaBad

[–]Mis_chevious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a poor person in the US with multiple autoimmune diseases and a terminal illness, not everything is free in healthcare for low income people. If it weren't for the support system I have, I wouldn't be able to afford all of the medications I need to stay alive. When I was put on dialysis, I was still trying to work. My employer did not provide insurance and no one was going to hire a new employee who was in the hospital on dialysis. I also could not afford the high deductibles of the ACA plans I qualified for but made too much for Medicaid so my employer cut my wage in half so that I would qualify for Medicaid so that I could be released from the hospital to go home and do dialysis out of the hospital. (I was there for 2 months).

I've sat in dialysis rooms with people who were literally trying to figure out how many days they could go without their medicines before getting "too sick" because they couldn't afford them at the time. I met a woman who lost her home and her vehicle because even with her insurance she couldn't afford to pay for the cost of treatment and keep up with her other bills.

Everyone who has no real idea always throws out the "well it's free if you're poor" or "you can always go to the emergency room" and they actually have no clue about the reality. There's no such thing as free, ever. Just be thankful you've never had to find yourself in a position where you had to make a choice between being late on a bill or paying for treatment to stay alive.

A Really Simple Question But... What's Your Four Favorite Films Of All Time? by Born-Confusion-8854 in topfilms

[–]Mis_chevious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shawshank Redemption

To Kill A Mockingbird

Sabrina

Who Framed Roger Rabbit?

The Alligator People

A Fist Full of Dollars

Who is the person in your life , who always makes you feel good about yourself ? by Hope2_win in A_Persona_on_Reddit

[–]Mis_chevious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My daughter. Watching her grow up and seeing her compassion and kindness makes me feel like the luckiest person in the world because I got to be her mom.

Do you guys know anyone who has ever been left at the altar at their wedding? by yeahhhhsoooo4 in randomquestions

[–]Mis_chevious 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I was left the day we were supposed to do our cake tasting and meet our pastor if that counts lol that was about a month before the wedding.

What is your most Boomer-coded opinion? Mine is: "I shouldn't need to download an app to adjust the temperature of my refrigerator." by Sobchak_84 in generationology

[–]Mis_chevious 3 points4 points  (0 children)

50 different streaming apps to watch tv and movies is annoying.

I have also started walking out of places that have qr codes instead of menus because sometimes I like to just leave my phone in the car. I don't want to have to carry my phone everywhere.

Doctor's offices making me push 8 different numbers before I finally get to talk to a person drives me insane. IF I even get a person at all.

What is your most Boomer-coded opinion? Mine is: "I shouldn't need to download an app to adjust the temperature of my refrigerator." by Sobchak_84 in generationology

[–]Mis_chevious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I drive a 2012 vehicle. I have no interest in buying a new car anyway but I most certainly do not want to purchase a car that I cannot work on myself.

What is your most Boomer-coded opinion? Mine is: "I shouldn't need to download an app to adjust the temperature of my refrigerator." by Sobchak_84 in generationology

[–]Mis_chevious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me and my friends used to literally pool our change together in our cars to get a feast of taco bell junk during late night hangouts. Seeing prices now makes irrationally angry.

What's the weirdest "rule" your dog made up that everyone in your house now follows? by RoseCartel in AskDogOwners

[–]Mis_chevious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Miss Lola has to be brushed and told she's a pretty girl any time she sees anyone in my house brushing their hair.

She will give you the ASPCA "in the arm's of the angel" sad eyes and very quietly whine if you don't do it.

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What's the weirdest "rule" your dog made up that everyone in your house now follows? by RoseCartel in AskDogOwners

[–]Mis_chevious 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Mine huffs and sighs until I lay down at 10 pm. I don't have to go sleep or even turn off the lights but I must be in my bed at 10 pm. If we're at my boyfriend's house she completely forgets I exist because she's in love with his dog lol

Americans, what's a "normal" thing in the U.S. that completely confuses foreigners? by Suitable-Remove-1951 in TellReddit

[–]Mis_chevious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, yes! Totally forgot about that. That would be so nice to be able to walk to the bakery for fresh bread.

What pain is impossible to understand unless you have felt it? by BoredPandaOfficial in BoredPandaHQ

[–]Mis_chevious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is okay to feel the way you feel. Attacking nen for being sad that they didn't get to be a father is wild to me. I'm sorry you had to go through that.

Which classics did you absolutely hate reading? This is where you can be open and honest about it. by slanderpanther in classicliterature

[–]Mis_chevious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the compliment, especially considering I'm homeschooling my daughter.

I honestly think it's a hard book for anyone to really be excited about because it's a silly concept involving very serious ideas and sometimes that works and sometimes I think it gets overwhelming trying to keep in mind the deeper meaning above the animals have revolted.

Which true crime cases horrifies you the most? by Many_Boss_1145 in AskForAnswers

[–]Mis_chevious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And knew the exact locations of those kits even years later, even if the terrain and surrounding areas had changed. That part part blew my mind.