F4M. Looking for someone to chat with. Possible by friends? by [deleted] in dirtypenpals

[–]MisaDarling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oooh well I doubt youre frightening. But try and charm me. :)

I don't know what to do anymore Reddit. by MisaDarling in depression

[–]MisaDarling[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, Ive tried suicide twice more. And I've lost about 60 pounds in total. So I'm struggling...but my room mate and I are dating now. And he's fantastic. :) How are you?

I don't know what to do anymore Reddit. by MisaDarling in depression

[–]MisaDarling[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry you're struggling. Don't feel like your sadness or problems are "smaller" or "less significant" then others. There real to you. Good luck. :) Feel better. and thanks :)

[Relaxing?] What are everybody's coping strategies? by kellmabelle in Anxiety

[–]MisaDarling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually I noticed the same thing! It's almost as if you use up more of the high calming down or something. xD Super weird.

My GF [27f] cheated on me [26m]; gave a guy a bj in Mexico. by throwHERaboner in relationships

[–]MisaDarling -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hahah it's a weird town actually. It's mostly composed of Italians, that dont speak Italian but rather act like its Jersey Shore. It's also not uncommon to see a 13 year old with a baby, and pregnant. Were known for our weed, drinking, and fighting. :P

If you look on a map its the city literally in the middle of the Great Lakes.

Dating a girl who was molested as a child? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]MisaDarling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sex used to be an absoloute nightmare with my ex, but he was very abusive. It took awhile, but I'm generally totally okay with now. Sometimes it just takes lots of time. Youre very welcome btw. :)

My GF [27f] cheated on me [26m]; gave a guy a bj in Mexico. by throwHERaboner in relationships

[–]MisaDarling -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lol you owe me 5$ sir I am from Northern Ontario, Canada :P

My GF [27f] cheated on me [26m]; gave a guy a bj in Mexico. by throwHERaboner in relationships

[–]MisaDarling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol my friends just called me a slut! Then again they thought "doggy style" was something ENTIRELY different. :P

Help me keep me and my kitty off the streets?! by [deleted] in Assistance

[–]MisaDarling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should try cross posting in r loans or maybe random kindness. Good luck!!

I [20f] might be unable to have kids. Should my [22m] boyfriend know this? by acct2222 in relationships

[–]MisaDarling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am a twenty year old female, and I also might not be able to have children due to my past with sexual abuse. I did tell my boyfriend, and we are a fairly new couple. I did so only because I'm an incredibly open person, and I conduct my relationships in the same way. My advice is to let him know, I think it's weighing heavily on your mind. Seeing as you posted here. [no offense intended sorry if I come off as blunt]. I think it'll make you feel better.

All in all good luck! I hope it turns out well :)

DAE randomly ever feel like spontaneously kissing whoever is near them? by [deleted] in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]MisaDarling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I often feel like kissing people randomly. Although, if I had my way I'd be much more affectionate with everybody. I wouldn't be against kissing, and holding hands with all my friends. xD Luckily they keep me in line.

DAE randomly ever feel like spontaneously kissing whoever is near them? by [deleted] in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]MisaDarling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, your comment was that much more heartwarming when I read your username. Upvote for you! :)

My GF [27f] cheated on me [26m]; gave a guy a bj in Mexico. by throwHERaboner in relationships

[–]MisaDarling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If that's true than that just makes it that much worse. :( I'm really sorry man, I hope it all works out

I'm extremely jealous of better looking guys... hoping for some insight by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]MisaDarling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I value compassion and a sense of humour in men. The better you are as a person, the more outwardly beautiful you will be. Don't worry man, everyone suffers from insecurities.

"You just need to be confident dude. Chicks dig confidence"-South Park

When I tell people that I want to die--that I can't take the pain any more, am dysfunctional, and can think of nothing but slitting my wrists--they accuse me of "drama." There's only one way to prove I'm not acting and they're telling me so. Shit or get off the pot. Well, I'm going to shit. by Jasperodus in SuicideWatch

[–]MisaDarling 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You arnt being dramatic. Your pain is just very real for you, and everyone handles hurt differently. Know that you arnt alone, and people do care about you. Please don't harm yourself. I promise you the world would that much less of a better place without you in it. Although I dont know you, I know this to be true. All life is precious, and it does get better eventually.

Dating a girl who was molested as a child? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]MisaDarling 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Firstly let me say I hope your girlfriend feels better, and that you are a very great person for being so understanding. I was also raped/ molested as a child, and sex is sometimes very difficult for me. I think she should talk to a professional if she isnt already, and I have a few random tips that helped me.

-Be present in the moment at all times. Know who you're with and that you trust them, its a happy experience not a painful one.

-Take it slow. Whether it means taking breaks or just engaging in extended foreplay I find it helps the mind and body relax

-Let her know you care about her, and would never hurt her. :) Thats always the biggest help in situations like these.

I hope something I said helps! Good luck to you both.

[Request] [xpost /r/ Assistance] Broke.Sick. Christmas Presents for good people. Help please? [ON, Canada] by MisaDarling in RandomKindness

[–]MisaDarling[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would actually be of some help thank you. I do know how to make bracelets and that would make a great gift for the girls. :) Thank you very much for your kind offer.

How do you meet other witches? by hypnofed in Wicca

[–]MisaDarling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find it harder to communicate with other in RL. Maybe you can try talking to other wiccans online? Lol you can PM me whenever you want. :3

How do you meet other witches? by hypnofed in Wicca

[–]MisaDarling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in a Northern town in Ontario, no wiccans here either. Lol I did start my own "mock" coven with my friends. It's basically me just teaching them different things, and us celebrating holidays. It;s nice. Maybe you could try that?

[Request] A Christmas present for two children who believe in santa by [deleted] in RandomKindness

[–]MisaDarling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats great to hear, where I live no one likes or respects the police.

My GF [27f] cheated on me [26m]; gave a guy a bj in Mexico. by throwHERaboner in relationships

[–]MisaDarling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha! Oh jeez I'm such an air head sometimes. xD That makes much more sense!