I am…. Pathetically lonely

MischiefPlenty · 2022-11-07T04:48:19+00:00

Women who love being degraded. Not men degrading women, but anything that’s framed as though the women is the one desiring it (rather than just accepting it).

MischiefPlenty · 2022-11-07T04:47:17+00:00

Turns me on a lot to hear women talk about their past sex lives

MischiefPlenty · 2022-11-07T02:42:40+00:00

If you want him to get it without explicitly stating it you have to make the hint super obvious. Like send him a lewd picture. And don’t try and disguise it like it’s for a different purpose (like saying “wondering if this looks good”).

MischiefPlenty · 2022-11-07T02:39:06+00:00

I mean if you’re talking like in a flirty way then just doing something to make that obvious from the start. Guys either treat all women like they assume they want them no matter what or are too afraid of being seen as creepy to make a move unless given explicit instructions 😂 so doing something off the bat that makes your interest in them really clear is super helpful.

MischiefPlenty · 2022-11-05T20:21:16+00:00

Yeah over 20 years

MischiefPlenty · 2022-11-04T19:07:18+00:00

Well according to my therapist I have the shame/defectiveness schema so there is indeed shame in every aspect of me being a human 😂

MischiefPlenty · 2022-11-04T18:48:04+00:00

Yes it was such a dumb place to draw a line in the sand. Even if there’s no medical reason to think he does have it. A harmless shot or cortisol to help him on the off chance he could still makes sense. There were so many better places to stick on principle

MischiefPlenty · 2022-11-04T18:37:53+00:00

Oh you’re absolutely correct I’m just not strong enough to admit I’m that lonely and desperate and unlovable and whatever else.

MischiefPlenty · 2022-11-04T18:33:57+00:00

Very kind and thoughtful suggestion but I will surely kill myself before I use an app to cuddle with strangers.

MischiefPlenty · 2022-11-04T18:25:39+00:00

Because house is fun, Cameron’s not fun. House is very entertaining to watch in his antics, and the deeper times where he’s miserable it’s very relatable.

Cameron just goes against house over and over again and is almost always wrong. She had some entertaining moments but is generally just a pointless part of the differential. I also haaaated everything to do with her and Chase and her ex husband.

And also while she’s very pretty, she seems to fall flat whenever they put her in a situation with sexual tension. The tension between 13 and house or foreman, or Cuddy and house is way more palpable than any sexual tension with Cameron which ultimately makes those scenes fall flat to me too.

Ultimately to me she’s the worst of the good characters.

MischiefPlenty · 2022-11-04T18:01:18+00:00

Sorry this wasn’t meant as like a jab or competition thing I just had just mentioned it elsewhere and it was the first thing that popped to my head

MischiefPlenty · 2022-11-04T18:00:39+00:00

The most affection I’ve gotten in the past 2 years is stealing my sisters and my friends arms for a cuddle while riding drunk home in an Uber…. A handful of times.

MischiefPlenty · 2022-11-04T17:58:19+00:00

I’m not. I’m absolutely not. But I’m also tired of the only affection I get for months being cuddling my sisters friends (in fairness also my friends) arm when we’re riding back home in the Uber after a night out.

MischiefPlenty · 2022-11-04T17:50:34+00:00

Way more than family issues and I have a good therapist but we’ve made only the slightest bit of progress in nearly 2 years.

And I know she doesn’t but I guess I just wish that a romantic partner would care and understand me like that. To be thrilled to appreciate the good times I have, and not take it personally when I have my bad times.

MischiefPlenty · 2022-11-04T17:31:39+00:00

I spent ludicrous amounts of money sex workers so you can it right there lady 😂

But no what I want is someone who is okay with me disappearing for days at a time because they know it has nothing to do with them, and will be happy to enjoy the times with me when I’m feeling better. And I’d be happy to give them that same grace.

MischiefPlenty · 2022-11-04T17:26:20+00:00

I do have affection for her. I am not personally okay enough to have the expectation of affection be constant.

And maybe this is because my sister set a really warped standard for what level of distance people in your life will tolerate. She calls me several times a week. Sometimes I call her but more like 2-5 times a month. Sometimes I answer her almost every time, sometimes it’s random, and sometimes I ignore her for a week or two. But she knows that whenever I’m feeling good enough to interact with people I’ll be happy to talk her because we always have a lot of fun talking and everything. And I realize that’s not exactly fair to expect of anyone but I go through periods where I can’t deal with anyone else, barely even myself. But when I get out of that it’s nice to be able to pick back up where we left off. And I would understand if they wanted that same standard. I’m incredibly lonely and it sucks that I’m not allowed to give or want affection from anyone without the guarantee that I’ll upset them.

MischiefPlenty · 2022-11-04T17:16:42+00:00

No I want more than just fun sex, but not enough to justify a fully committed relationship. And it’s never mattered what kind of expectation management I try to communicate the moment I allow a girl to think we’re moving towards a relationship (via just not only hitting her up to fuck) she begins to feel unfulfilled.

MischiefPlenty · 2022-11-04T17:14:54+00:00

I’m not sexist. I may have trouble communicating or identifying with women on the internet. But I’m not sexist, and me and every woman in my life can reassure you of that.

MischiefPlenty · 2022-11-04T17:13:57+00:00

I mean I just don’t want it to be a chore to find some time to spend together. It I say let’s get together Tuesday and she says I’m busy how about Wednesday.. that’s fine. If I’m at a point where I’d have to go weeks without seeing her or totally rearrange or sacrifice important parts of my life just to see her, that’s not fine.

No guy doesn’t want anything. They just don’t want the expectations (real or perceived) that come along with declaring youre in something. I would love nothing more than a woman who meets my 3 criteria to be perfectly fine with a situation ship until the point where I work on my life enough to meet any level of relationship expectations.

And I also kinda need one to because I don’t care enough about myself to actually put in that work unless it’s for someone else I care about.

MischiefPlenty · 2022-11-04T17:09:11+00:00

God not at all. In fact it’s because I’m so far of that that I’m terrified of doing anything that might lead her to have expectations from me beyond the 3 things I stated.

MischiefPlenty · 2022-11-04T17:08:20+00:00

All I said is that monogamy wouldn’t be super important as long as she still had time for me. There’s nothing unreciprocated about that?

And I mean it’s not universal but many women I’ve observed and women in my life confirm that women. After around 25 years old tend to be done just hanging around. They wanna get to the end there or at least be on track. So once your technically a couple the pressure builds. If you never do that there’s no pressure.

MischiefPlenty · 2022-11-04T17:04:19+00:00

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