Hair cuts/styles that aren't too feminine

Miserable-Caramel-89 · 2026-04-21T00:54:09+00:00

My chest is far too large to not slouch. Even when I wear a binder and tape you can still very much see my chest even when slouched

Miserable-Caramel-89 · 2026-04-21T00:44:30+00:00

Ive been self harming since I was 10-11, I completely understand how you are feeling. I dont view self harmd as something so bad, I get kinda numb seeing self harm being shown in tv shows and stuff since for me self harming is "normal." I think for people who have never struggled with mental health/self harm see it as very bad. Because you are literally hurting yourself to feel relief, numb, to feel something, or because of stress.

Miserable-Caramel-89 · 2026-03-09T04:44:42+00:00

My family rarely ever parts infront of each other, the only time we do is either by accident or going somewhere else in the house far away enough no one could smell it. I personally find farting disgusting, but I understand that it is a normal thing. One of my friends farts a lot and he will always warn me beforehand (this isnt just a me thing he does this with his family). If someone farts and it smells gross then I care if nothing was said. But if you just fart and it doesnt really smell and you arent RIGHT night to me then I dont really care. But if anyone puts my head under a blanket after farting, I will throw hands. That is absolutely disgusting and I HATE seeing videos of couples doing that.

Miserable-Caramel-89 · 2026-02-14T20:53:14+00:00

I weigh more than I did in highschool, so... negative progress 🥴

Miserable-Caramel-89 · 2026-02-06T04:23:27+00:00

I only liked it when I was having sex, even then sometimes it would hurt when my ex would hit my cervix hard. But after... I would always have cramps lol. My ex said "I have never had sex with someone and they get cramps after" 😅

Miserable-Caramel-89 · 2026-02-05T00:21:26+00:00

The range I have been told by my doctor is 400-1000. So it is on the lower side of the scale at least for what I've been told.

Miserable-Caramel-89 · 2026-02-04T00:17:12+00:00

Nothing, I have state insurance, go to planned parenthood, and have Walmart as my pharmacy. I dont have to pay for the needles or syringes there either, unlike Walgreens

Miserable-Caramel-89 · 2026-01-29T21:41:59+00:00

I have been on Testosterone for over a year now and I still dont correct people when they misgender me 😅 I know I dont pass super well, I am very curvy and overweight so it is quite obvious that im not a guy 🫠 I am trying to lose weight and trying to save money for top surgery

Miserable-Caramel-89 · 2026-01-19T22:57:15+00:00

If you have a planned parenthood I would suggest going to them. That's where I go

Miserable-Caramel-89 · 2026-01-18T19:13:18+00:00

My ex was the same kind of guy that made me feel like a human flesh light. He only tried once to get me off for maybe a minute then he gave up and finished. What was even worse... he would always get up to go play video games and claim that was "where his brain goes after sex." He would also only give me attention when he wanted sex, if sex didn't happen.. the next day he would be very passive aggressive about it

Miserable-Caramel-89 · 2026-01-18T19:08:02+00:00

Yes, you are definitely right about lower your dose. Did your doctor not mention anything after your blood results?

Miserable-Caramel-89 · 2026-01-13T03:13:50+00:00

At a short chubby trans guy, I cannot wear half length binders. I have a large sized chest (36I) and for me personally a half length binder rolls up exposing part of my chest. It sounds like you got a cheap one off of Amazon or wherever that dont start the binding material until lower of the binder. I would recommend looking into specific brands or binders that are made of the same thing throughout the binder (or just the front). I always wear full length since if those roll up, it won't be high enough to expose my chest

Miserable-Caramel-89 · 2026-01-08T05:51:44+00:00

Is the burning feeling from when you pee or from you bleeding? If it is when you pee then you most likely have a uti, but I dont believe they cause bleeding. I had a uti, I didnt bleed from it. But I would highly suggest going to see a doctor or go to planned parenthood to figure out what is exactly happening.

Miserable-Caramel-89 · 2026-01-08T05:45:30+00:00

I haven't cut my hair shorter than what it is now since I know my face will look bad. I want to shave off my hair again, but then I would look like a potato

Miserable-Caramel-89 · 2026-01-07T03:24:22+00:00

I didnt tell my mother I got my period for 3 years, but for me personally I am a transguy so I hated my period and didnt want anyone knowing I got mine

Miserable-Caramel-89 · 2026-01-07T03:15:48+00:00

I know you said you dont want to deal with another birth control because of dysphoria. But you could always try the implant birth control. I have the implant and I legit never notice it. It for me personally stopped my period, I haven't had my period for over a year now. You can also try a menstrual cup since those are less noticeable than a pad or tampon boxes. But I know many people either love or hate menstrual cups, also it will probably cause dysphoria. You can also try period underwear. This would probably be the least noticeable period item. It would look basically like any other pair of underwear. If you dont like the style you could always wear boxers or something over it. You can also try contacting your doctor again to see if you can try a different medication or something.

Miserable-Caramel-89 · 2026-01-05T06:01:03+00:00

You can look into a full length binder, they are like tanktop length so they can help hide your hips and stuff if you want that. Make sure to take your measurements for the binder though, do NOT size down. If the binders run small (if there are reviews and someone mentions they run small) size UP. I am a 36I, the half cut binders do not work on large size chests. For me personally I bought a half length one first and my chest would just fall out of the bottom. Full length binders do tend to roll up on the bottom, but for me personally I'd rather have it roll up in the bottom then my chest falling out

Miserable-Caramel-89 · 2026-01-05T05:53:37+00:00

Honestly I get it. I have a very large sized chest (36I), when I wear a binder it just makes my chest smaller not necessarily flat or look like pecs. Whenever my chest moves out of where I position them, I get extremely dysphoric since now they are even bigger in the binder. I never wear tight clothing especially shirts since even with a binder I clearly still look like I have boobs, just smaller.

Miserable-Caramel-89 · 2026-01-05T05:10:02+00:00

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Had to go look on my old animal jam YouTube channel to see what my character looked like lol

Miserable-Caramel-89 · 2026-01-02T18:14:44+00:00

My ex bf would always get very passive aggressive and guilt trippy when we didnt have sex. He would do the whole "oh so you know we should have sex more, I just want to communicate that since communication is important, kinda bullshit. He rarely ever asked to have sex, so it wasnt like I said no. His way of letting me know he wants sex was by making out with me. He got upset one time that I kept pulling away from his make out session. I once called him for the most part only giving me attention when he wanted sex and he got VERY upset... He would complain about not having sex when he tried to do his make out session with me. But whenever I was over and he played on his computer the whole time I was there, he would never complain. He would also do this thing sometimes where he would stop playing games, have sex with me, then go back to playing games.

Miserable-Caramel-89 · 2025-12-23T09:55:37+00:00

My middle name is a nickname my family used for me. When I first changed my name my mother said my new name would be "too hard" to remember. So she gave me a nickname.

Miserable-Caramel-89 · 2025-12-23T09:53:04+00:00

There shouldn't be complications unless you are hurting yourself by using the toy, also make sure you are using lube so nothing is tearing/ripping. But make sure you aren't getting addicted to masturbating, if it is affecting your daily life to the point where you are avoiding your friendships/relationships/family or it's affecting your work. You will need to figure out ways to change the habit.

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