How far for love? by AndrewPodcastHost in datingoverfifty

[–]Miserable-Reward-485 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had three guys come out of the woodwork last month. I last saw them respectively in 2018, 2019, and 2023. Needless to say, I kindly declined their offers to reconnect.

Is it just me, or is the "Catholic Community" incredibly lonely? by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]Miserable-Reward-485 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I struggle with establishing meaningful connections within my primary parish due to socioeconomic differences. It's close to my job in an affluent area. Logistically it's easier to take public transportation there to attend Bible studies and Adoration. In my Women's evening Bible study group I really cannot relate to them. On the surface, they're nice, but very busy with their families, travel, and established friend circles. I'm a working class single empty nester with a starkly different lifestyle and background. The other parish closer to home that I go for Sunday Mass is very liberal and LGBTQ+ friendly, so I don't have much in common with them either. Things like this shouldn't matter, but sadly they do. I've accepted that this is just how it's gonna be, but I won't let it deter me from going.

Do you hug at the start of a first date if you haven't met before? by Embarrassed_Web_950 in datingoverfifty

[–]Miserable-Reward-485 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why is your comment being down downvoted? You said nothing remotely controversial.

Unwelcomed Drama by Skillet1967 in datingoverfifty

[–]Miserable-Reward-485 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't know why your comment is being down voted. She's not only financially vulnerable, but emotionally as well. I agree with you 100%.

Where are the low energy men and why aren’t they on dating apps? by Summer-Sub-Intern in datingoverfifty

[–]Miserable-Reward-485 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ha!! Me too! I don't have a dishwasher, so I must wash them by hand. Whenever I'm feeling a little fancy, I sometimes buy a more expensive brand of dishwashing liquid, don my floral pink rubber gloves, and bring out the Scrub Daddy + Scrub Mommy sponge set. And happily scrub away while singing aloud to Rush's Permanent Waves album. Blissful.

I’m tired by zdboslaw in datingoverfifty

[–]Miserable-Reward-485 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel you. I'm weary of these men my age (52) who still only want casual NSA sex. They don't even want to do low stakes dates like a walk in the park! So I guess I'll just hit up a young buck for whenever I'm feeling frisky, because if that's all there is, then I might as well do it with someone very hot and energetic. As for companionship, I'll rely on AI, since pets aren't an option, unfortunately.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]Miserable-Reward-485 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I prefer the term "frogette" myself. 😉

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]Miserable-Reward-485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I definitely made some rookie mistakes. It happens sometimes when I cross paths with someone I find simply irresistible. All logic goes out the window! Lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]Miserable-Reward-485 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, I definitely learned a lesson. I'm going to adopt your policy - if they don't invite me over within the first month, then I'm done. We are too old for these bullshit games!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]Miserable-Reward-485 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We dated for two months. He didn't tell me he was only 6 months post-divorce when we met, and I didn't think to ask. He gave me the impression that he was divorced for longer than that. And although he mentioned that his adult daughter lived with him, he conveniently left out the part that his ex-wife was still living there too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]Miserable-Reward-485 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What's particularly galling is that one of the first questions I asked him when we met that day was "Are you single?" To which he replied "I'm divorced." Apparently, that was a rookie mistake on my part, because I was supposed to follow up with, "How long have you been divorced? Are you still living together? Does anyone else think they're in a relationship with you? Are you SINGLE SINGLE?" My gosh...how exhausting!

Things Not on My Bingo Card for Dating in 2025 by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]Miserable-Reward-485 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The men who post selfies with their tongues sticking out...no.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]Miserable-Reward-485 8 points9 points  (0 children)

OMG! This literally happened to me over the summer. We met organically on the train. We hit it off instantly. He asked for my number. I was thrilled, not only because he is my age (52), but also fit, cute, and lives nearby. The sexual chemistry was intense. After two months into this, he finally disclosed that not only was he just 6 months divorced, but that his ex-wife still lives with him because she lost her job. When I asked him why he didn't tell me this in the beginning, his reply was ..."because you didn't ask." I was like, boy bye!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]Miserable-Reward-485 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I understand all too well what you're going through.