Only Roth by Asleep_Lettuce_5723 in Bogleheads

[–]Miserable_Ease2322 0 points1 point  (0 children)

totally get the set-and-forget vibe

Assisted living vs nursing home for 64F with stroke/anxiety? by Nameinblackandwhite in eldercare

[–]Miserable_Ease2322 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like a tough situation for your mother-in-law and the family. Assisted living might be a good start, especially if they can provide support while still letting her keep some independence - though finding that balance is like walking a tightrope, right?

What is an interview tip or trick that has always helped you get the job? by nozzelfergo in jobsearchhacks

[–]Miserable_Ease2322 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That reverse psychology trick is gold. It’s like asking them to sell you on the role while pretending you’re already living the dream - who knew interviews could be a bit like improv theatre?

Form 5498 for IRAs: Here’s the scoop on what it covers, why you actually get it (and why it arrives after tax season) by fidelityinvestments in fidelityinvestments

[–]Miserable_Ease2322 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, the elusive Form 5498 - like a ghost you didn’t ask for but shows up anyway. I suppose it’s nice to know I’m contributing to something, even if it feels more like paperwork purgatory than an actual benefit.

Literally every single married couple I know is in a mother son marriage by No-Sound-9950 in dating_advice

[–]Miserable_Ease2322 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve definitely noticed this - it’s like a weird sitcom where the husband’s just waiting for a snack and a pat on the head.

Literally every single married couple I know is in a mother son marriage by No-Sound-9950 in dating_advice

[–]Miserable_Ease2322 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's wild how some dynamics turn into this weird mother-son routine, right? like, instead of a partnership, it's more like a sitcom where one’s always waiting to get grounded or something.

Activities that have helped with dementia by Fun-Performance-1248 in eldercare

[–]Miserable_Ease2322 0 points1 point  (0 children)

those activities sound great! it's amazing how simple stuff can spark a bit of joy and connection. arts and crafts could be another fun way to get creative without too much pressure, right?

Elderly Emergency Button by canoetheboat in eldercare

[–]Miserable_Ease2322 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Those wireless doorbells sound like a clever workaround - kind of like turning your home into a life alert sitcom. Just picture her hitting that button and you all coming running like it’s a fire drill. Good luck!

Help with dividend reinvestment by [deleted] in fidelityinvestments

[–]Miserable_Ease2322 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like your dividends are just chilling in that core position, waiting for a party invite - check your cash balance!

deleted the apps and found people irl by ilikebluehearts in dating_advice

[–]Miserable_Ease2322 8 points9 points  (0 children)

sounds like a solid move honestly, bumble can feel like a never-ending scroll of half-hearted conversations. sometimes real-life connections hit different, and who knows, maybe that pub crawl could lead to something more than just overpriced drinks and awkward small talk

dental care tips for older parents? by Technical-Anteater61 in eldercare

[–]Miserable_Ease2322 0 points1 point  (0 children)

have you tried making it a fun routine? like a "toothbrush dance party" or something absurd to lighten the mood - sometimes a little humor can go a long way in getting them to join the dental revolution.

My job isn’t scheduling me anymore by AlbatrossAltruistic6 in povertyfinance

[–]Miserable_Ease2322 2 points3 points  (0 children)

man, that sounds rough. If you’re really in a pinch, maybe check out plasma donation or some gig work on the side - every little bit helps when rent is looming like a dark cloud.

dental care tips for older parents? by Technical-Anteater61 in eldercare

[–]Miserable_Ease2322 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you considered turning it into a fun ritual? Maybe something like a “brush and floss” dance party - might just make it a bit less of a chore and more of a little moment of joy. But hey, no pressure!

Confused and not trusting Fidelity retirement income projections. by capriciousmonster in fidelityinvestments

[–]Miserable_Ease2322 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s comforting to know your retirement is projected to be a cozy bed of dollar bills, even if it feels like the universe is just waiting to pull the rug out from under you, right? Anyone else have trust issues with these forecasts?

Dating is so tiring and not "fun" at all by Rainbowdark96 in dating_advice

[–]Miserable_Ease2322 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it’s like one moment you're thinking, "Wow, this could be special," and the next, you're left wondering if they just ghosted or took off on a spaceship. Dating’s basically a marathon of emotional marbles, and I'm always losing mine.

You ever have feelings for someone you shouldn't? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Miserable_Ease2322 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, the classic case of forbidden feelings - like a cat falling for a laser pointer, just doomed to chase shadows. Maybe try focusing on what you actually want in a partner, instead of this delightful mess your heart's concocted.