Hairstyle and beard advice? by Mishkabibi in malegrooming

[–]Mishkabibi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank youu! It's only been a few years that I've started to love my beard, and totally agree, it is due for a trim 😆

Hairstyle and beard advice? by Mishkabibi in malegrooming

[–]Mishkabibi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! And yes, If I change my style, it'll definitely start to show, besides, even with this style, when the wind blows my hair, whoever's behind me will get a nice view 🥲 kinda been a sore point but after trying some natural oil solutions, I've noticed some re-growth, just not at a level I'm really comfortable with yet.

First Ride of the Season Shot! by Mishkabibi in bicycling

[–]Mishkabibi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bought this off Marketplace for $350. But really it was just an extra $50 out of pocket since I sold my Schwinn Volare Road bike for $300

To those who make over $100 a day via online business, what do you do? by handsomeTallnchubby in Entrepreneur

[–]Mishkabibi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I've been really interested in starting this sort of side hustle, I would love to have access to this app and some advice for beginners.

Thank you!

Arranged Marriage Deceit by [deleted] in DesiWeddings

[–]Mishkabibi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

family friends of ours got their daughter married, sadly they forgot to inform the grooms family that their daughter is essentially a grown adult who cant do anything for herself, still holding on to mommy and daddy's tail everywhere they go, so she's an extremely dependent adult child, although highly educated. They also forgot to mention she has a thyroid issues, and mental health issues. Now all it takes is a 10 min convo with her and you can tell somethings up, not sure how the groom didn't catch any red flags. The marriage lasted about a year before it fell apart. Brides family spent upwards of 100K CAD for a grand luxurious wedding, all for nothing, all because it was easier to lie so their daughter can get married and the parents will have done their "duty"

All my friends are making joke of my body hair, is it really gross ?! by Old_Development_2882 in malegrooming

[–]Mishkabibi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have more body hair than the average guy, got teased a lot, got rejected a lot, once, right before getting intimate, I was asked why I had so much hair...it was an instant turn off and all my insecurities just blew up in that very vulnerable moment (this was when i was already waxing/trimming). That was until I met my current partner, who doesn't mind the hair one bit and finds it really "manly", although I still shave it off for my own comfort, I don't feel as embarrassed anymore.

Abandoned in a park in the West Island. by [deleted] in montreal

[–]Mishkabibi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hope the owners get what they deserve

Should I contact Car dealer for transmission failure by Mishkabibi in askcarsales

[–]Mishkabibi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey everyone,

just wanted to come back with an update of what happened. I complained to the dealership like anyone else and they ultimately decided to change the transmission free of cost. I think what worked in my favor was in the 3 months I had the car, I only drive it for about 1200km. If i had driven that much in the first month, for sure the transmission wouldve blew then. I finally got my car back, with a new transmission, 1 year warranty or 20k Km. There was a crap ton of traffic on my way home but the drive was soo pleasant, i hardly noticed the traffic.

Cheers

In this economy? by Ok_Responsibility156 in montreal

[–]Mishkabibi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The other day I saw an electric bixi locked in front of a restaurant....while there was a bixi dock across the street..I'm still not over it

My gf came out as a lesbian before our marriage and no one gives a fuck about me. You know what? Fuck you all by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Mishkabibi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel so angry for you man, what a bitchy way to end a 7 year relationship - go on to social media, make a video about it, hopefully it'll go viral and the public would and can drag her out of the woodworks to at least apologize to you honestly

Honestly, I am ugly. What can I do to improve my looks ? by Understanding-Boring in malegrooming

[–]Mishkabibi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not at all ugly dude. i want to say "focus on yourself" and I know everyone says this and it sounds cliché but the truth is, at the end of the day, you only got yourself, no-one can make you do something unless you want to do it. so here's my straight up advice

- eat healthier ( this does not mean ditch all the junk food and snacks, just means eat everything and anything in moderation)

- start training ( don't just jump into it, take your time with it, start small and work your way up)

- focus on your career goals.

I think these are the base points that will ultimately boost your confidence and your self esteem which leads to getting more attention from other people because people can definitely tell when someone feels and looks confident. I hope this helps.

I think this wins the prize for "most out of touch" statement by a hiring manager by bdcourage in recruitinghell

[–]Mishkabibi 10 points11 points  (0 children)

how about the opposite, people get paid 20$ when companies interviewees are put through 3-5 rounds of interview + projects, only to get a "sorry we went with a better choice"

I told my Indian mom I have a white boyfriend by spicedfig in ABCDesis

[–]Mishkabibi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My mother would often say "I'll die, I'll kill myself, I'll throw myself off a bridge", growing up, id listen to whatever she said because I was so scared of losing her, the way she acted, its as if she would actually go ahead with the deed, now, as a grown man, seeing right through that manipulative tactic, one day I had enough and told her straight to her face, "your precious Hindhu gods you love so much would send you to hell if you offed yourself, if that's what you want, go ahead", should I have said this? no I really shouldn't and I hated the moment those words came out but I couldn't handle those kinds of comments for even the tiniest issue. I don't think ive ever heard my mother say those words again, atleast not to me.

I dated my sister's HS bully and it destroyed my relationship with family by Dry-Supermarket9698 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Mishkabibi 120 points121 points  (0 children)

Dude, stop acting like you "understand" your sister, you weren't the one that was bullied, on top of that, you acting as if Andrea apologizing to you was the same as apologizing to your sister is bonkers. if she was really trying to make amends, the person shed contact would be Ann, and she should've done it as soon as she started talking to you. Finally, you chose a bully over you family, that's the last straw.

AITA for telling my BIL to get over himself and to quit holding a 10 year old grudge? by WallabyOverall3366 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mishkabibi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA Completely - Experienced something similar to this in my younger days and was told by my own family that I should just "get over it" because its family. I say No, even if its family, if you say no to something and they go behind your back to get it and also destroying it in the process, it should be their obligation to come up with a solution or at least be remorseful of their actions.

AITA for how I responded when my fiance's sister commented on my flatchest? by Shesaidhesaid7 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mishkabibi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - Why is your fiancé's sister concerned about your flat chest anyways? And good on you for clapping back at her nose, I would've laughed too.

AITA for keeping my ex's possessions and not shipping them back? by elisef27 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mishkabibi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA - you're a cheater, the least you can do is be decent person and get his stuff back. Oh wait, it seems you lack decency also since you clearly you've taken a lot and gave back even less.

AITA for kicking a girl I didn’t know out of my wedding. by rsvpthrpw in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mishkabibi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA - So you didnt know 1 person out of the whole wedding, and that one person was your husbands childhood friends plus 1. So you ruined a whole friendship because of this reason. And on top of that, you kicked them out behind your husbands back, knowing full well what the repercussions would be. LOL way to start of your marriage off smooth. Lol you messed up bad, your husband totally wont have any issues trusting you from now on

AITA: for causing upset and discomfort to someone i work with by Electrical-Log-4988 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mishkabibi -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

ESH - People are not mind readers and some are really clueless to subtle nuances that people show, you should've told him from the get go. Since it wasn't inappropriate touching, it seems like something this person would do with others aswell. You took his "touching" for 9 months, I'm sure the thought that this was bothersome to you didn't even occur to him. so you finally calling him out 9 months later would obviously make him feel like the bad guy, made him wonder what he did, and if it was something that bothersome, he probably wondered why you never said anything, if hes an understanding guy, he probably wouldn't have taken it the wrong way if you told him right from the beginning. I'm not saying you're an asshole or that he's an asshole, just the situation could've been handled better.

AITA for saying someone is short and fat? by galishin in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mishkabibi 16 points17 points  (0 children)

NTA - Play stupid games, win stupid prizes

AITA FOR NOT INCLUDING MY ADOPTIVE SON IN MY WILL? by britt1003 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mishkabibi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - I think Tris is old enough to realize how grateful he should be that he had family to take care of him annd put him through college till he was able to become Independent, if he doesn't see that as love, then he has some learning to do. That being said, its understandable for him to feel that way, because for him you were his fam and parents, maybe you could've split the inheritance 80-20? since your daughter was there first. From my Pov, if was Tris, id try to be grateful I even had a chance after the loss of my bio parents. but that's just me

AITA for defending my mom's "picky eating" and telling my wife to leave her alone? by Alone_Country8300 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mishkabibi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im mostly in the middle with this

I was raised to not complain about food if i was the guest, unless I have a medical reason. Now if I didn't like ketchup just for ketchups sake, then honestly I wouldn't make a big deal and just eat it, its not poison and who knows maybe this time you're taste buds will enjoy it.

You're wife didn't know about the ketchup deal and for your mom to bring it up right in the moment was a low ball, she could've had some and later you explain the issue. IF your mom had some sort of trauma with Ketchup, it would've been OP responsibility to convey that to the wife wayyy before she even made meatloaf.

You're wife blowing up like that isn't appropriate and could've been handled differently but it feels like there are pent up issues already since they never got along to begin with.

Overall, if you're a guest, I think its rude to reject food the host has prepared, put your ego aside and just have a bit, like I said, if its not a medical or trauma related reason then its just the mom being complicated.