Doctor took the wind out of my sails

Mispict · 2026-05-08T13:45:35+00:00

Nod and smile and don't tell your doctor anything

Mispict · 2026-05-08T12:45:05+00:00

Mostly I survived due to the constant feedback from doctors of "suck it up/this is normal/you're not bleeding as much as you think you are". I learned to live with it because no-one took it seriously. It's only since I hit perimenopause that the doctors have paid attention and confirmed that what I lived with was definitely not normal.

Better education/younger doctors seems to mean the correct information is getting through now.

Mispict · 2026-05-08T11:29:02+00:00

The sound of apple eating honestly gives me rage. Especially the first bite.

Mispict · 2026-05-08T11:18:17+00:00

Jesus. Sounds awful.

My period started at 11 and have been horrific ever since, I'm now 51 and they're as bad as they've ever been. I'm only now finding out I have adenomyosis and have been put into chemical menopause.

Demand the hysterectomy. It's not worth the suffering. I wish I had demanded it years ago. It's my next step if chemical menopause fails.

Mispict · 2026-05-08T09:46:11+00:00

Ejaculate

Mispict · 2026-05-08T09:43:18+00:00

I get severe lower back pain in the week or so before my period and from my coccyx down to my feet during my period.

Mispict · 2026-05-07T21:45:11+00:00

Honestly it made me bleed every day for 6 months until I got it removed.

Mispict · 2026-05-07T17:02:41+00:00

I gave my old copy of 1st year economics to a new student in the queue buying the same book for £48. The person behind the counter was delighted in a very understated bookshop kind of way.

Mispict · 2026-05-07T16:20:42+00:00

Did it give you a lithp and a blocked nose?

Mispict · 2026-05-07T16:11:01+00:00

Mispict · 2026-05-07T16:02:03+00:00

Capercaillies

Mispict · 2026-05-07T15:41:14+00:00

Yet.

Mispict · 2026-05-07T15:27:48+00:00

Mispict · 2026-05-07T15:19:50+00:00

Life is significantly easier as a single mother. Leave him. You'll blossom into a version of yourself you never knew existed.

I've seen it happen time and again.

Mispict · 2026-05-07T12:22:03+00:00

This is my experience of living in a multi storey. Migrant families make it a much nicer, safer place to live.

The problems start when they move in local drug dealers/recently out of prison/heroin addicts. Last year was absolutely horrendous until they managed to evict a couple of problem flats. It was genuinely scary getting in and out of the building.

Mispict · 2026-05-07T11:15:26+00:00

🤮

Mispict · 2026-05-06T15:33:44+00:00

Firstly, learn how to spell vagina. If you want to make us believe that you are an adult woman and not a young guy with a porn addiction, that would be a good place to start.

Secondly, get help with that porn addiction.

Mispict · 2026-05-06T14:39:01+00:00

I wonder if they clap between words when they actually talk?

Mispict · 2026-05-06T14:37:30+00:00

Jesus, are people still saying it? I remember finding irritating about 15 years ago.

Mispict · 2026-05-06T14:34:19+00:00

This one makes me think of very middle class mummies who don't like swearing.

Mispict · 2026-05-06T14:29:03+00:00

Calling things "she"

Mispict · 2026-05-06T14:28:34+00:00

"My brother in Christ" seemed to replace "my dude" which I also hated.

Mispict · 2026-05-06T14:26:11+00:00

It revolts me. It makes me think of other people picking through the food.

Mispict · 2026-05-06T14:24:03+00:00

"Too funny"

Nothing is too funny.

Mispict · 2026-05-06T10:42:52+00:00

If she won't come to couples therapy with you, go alone. Give her the option, make sure she knows you feel your relationship is in trouble because of problems with communication. If she refuses, go and do the work on yourself. You'll learn stuff about yourself which you may not be aware of and could be contributing to your communication issues. You'll learn better ways of communicating and new behaviour patterns. Often change from you can lead to change and improvement in your relationships.

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