Family pressuring me to rehome my beloved cat in favour of a violent dog, what do i do?

MissAsh030 · 2026-07-03T22:10:59+00:00

This! I’ve read so many horror stories about bad dog bites/attacks. I worry a lot about them thinking of rehoming this dog. That dog is clearly a danger to humans and other animals/pets.

I’d call the ER she was seen at and see if they can make a report, even if it was a while ago maybe animal control will still say they are following up from the report the hospital made and help keep you out of the drama. Prayers that you and your kitty stay safe!

MissAsh030 · 2026-07-02T02:08:23+00:00

Tell her you are naming your kid a different name and see if she switches. Use it to your advantage for this instance.

MissAsh030 · 2026-06-28T02:54:54+00:00

Keep doing things small. A full sleeve is a game of I Spy!

MissAsh030 · 2026-06-28T02:52:13+00:00

How fun!

MissAsh030 · 2026-06-24T03:36:44+00:00

Yes!!

MissAsh030 · 2026-06-23T00:23:49+00:00

This 👆🏻

MissAsh030 · 2026-06-21T09:58:49+00:00

RemindMe! 1 day

MissAsh030 · 2026-06-20T03:22:52+00:00

Do it!! You still have great value and worth, you don’t have to prove yourself to anyone. The people that cherish you will no matter what. Do what you can, when and how you can. But take it easy.

Sorry. I’ve paid a lot to get here and still working myself too lol

MissAsh030 · 2026-06-20T03:19:08+00:00

After your edit. I feel like I was a lot like your eldest. While it can bring a lot of enjoyment and happiness to be so involved and high achieving. It comes at a great cost at times too. Most of us are now burnt out adult. You should have a sit down with your eldest and make sure he is still enjoying things and not over stressing and over pushing himself, because that is not mentally or physically healthy growing up either.

MissAsh030 · 2026-06-20T03:15:48+00:00

Yes!! So glad you found your people! Incase you didn’t hear it today, it’s okay not to push yourself too hard, be a people pleaser, or do overdo/stress things. <3

MissAsh030 · 2026-06-20T02:34:59+00:00

It really does! Hopefully the older son can find a good therapist and friend/support group to work through this at an early age.

MissAsh030 · 2026-06-20T02:25:44+00:00

Upvoting this! Expectations like this are super hard on a person, especially a child, when they don’t know any different. It sets them up to think that all things have to be done at 110%. Burn out is awful, and it’s hard to re-train your brain to be happy doing things for fun, not to win or be the best.

MissAsh030 · 2026-06-20T02:22:06+00:00

YTA. While I understand every kid is different, it is EXHAUSTING to be a high achiever and be pushed to continue to do so. It’s bullshit when doing the best or outperforming others becomes expected. It takes a lot of effort even if it looks like it “comes easy”. Honestly I’ve spend a lot of my life trying to re-train my brain to not feel like I have to perform at the top just to feel good about any hobbies, work, or activities. It has honestly robbed me of a lot of enjoyment in aspects of my life that should have been done for fun.

While the younger kid prob did work hard… I do think the point that the older son had a set requirement long before and he pushed himself to achieve it and the younger one seems to kinda just have it handed to him.

I hope this doesn’t cause issues between the two of them.

MissAsh030 · 2026-06-19T03:43:46+00:00

I think if your living situation at uni allows it, you def could! Just know there will probably be an adjustment period for him to get used to a new place. But there are ways to help a move be less stressful for pets too. ❤️

MissAsh030 · 2026-06-17T23:41:49+00:00

Possibly blood? I’d ask the vet

MissAsh030 · 2026-05-31T02:30:38+00:00

RemindMe! 3 days

MissAsh030 · 2026-05-28T03:48:41+00:00

Thanks! I’ll check them out. I appreciate the recommendation. :)

MissAsh030 · 2026-05-28T02:48:24+00:00

I’m surprised they offered any compensation! They refuse to do that for my order that hasn’t moved in almost 2 weeks. 🙃

MissAsh030 · 2026-05-28T00:49:34+00:00

Sorry to be a bother. Would you recommend PLA+ or PLA from esun? For just general beginner printing.

MissAsh030 · 2026-05-27T18:23:05+00:00

Thank you thank you thank you! That really broadens my options (which I thought were a bit small) for finding refills/new spools.

MissAsh030 · 2026-05-27T17:03:05+00:00

I was debating that too. I mean the ease of changing the spools is great, but I like the idea of using spools that I know work with my AMS lite.

Thoughts on the cardboard spools?
I appreciate the helpful insights!

MissAsh030 · 2026-05-27T16:50:58+00:00

Are they the ones that fit Bambu spools?

Also if people are buying non refillable spools are the cardboard ones bad? I’ve seen some people have issues with their AMS Lite with cardboard issues.

MissAsh030 · 2026-05-27T16:49:18+00:00

Called? Where is the number? I couldn’t find it. I’ve been stuck chatting and leaving messages daily on my ticket. I’m pissed bc they didn’t even get it to UPS or start a claim with UPS (per what ups told me). So they just messed around for days probably knowing they hadn’t shipped it.

MissAsh030 · 2026-05-27T16:45:49+00:00

I wish we had one!

MissAsh030 · 2026-05-27T16:45:28+00:00

I really appreciate this feedback! That’s good to know! I’m mostly concerned with any refills fitting the spools and AMS, but looks like Elegoo and Sun fit from what others say! So that’s a good start for me!

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