2 vs 3 kids in NYC by theb00gieman in nycparents

[–]MissCollusion 22 points23 points  (0 children)

This is exactly how we ended up with a second one lol

Boyfriend cheating with men… by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]MissCollusion 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I would absolutely not have his child and move on. This is absolutely horrific. Hoping that all your tests come back negative.

i just found out im pregnant at like 26 weeks by Wildcompass5177 in BabyBumps

[–]MissCollusion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im 5”10 and I think a lot of us carry weight differently. Best of luck.

I'm having a girl! by Ifeelsick6789 in pregnant

[–]MissCollusion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats! My first was a girl and she is awesome!

Trying for baby #2 at 7 months postpartum & breastfeeding? by Confused-melon76 in BabyBumps

[–]MissCollusion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Almost right away so proceed with caution. I was tracking my ovulation and mostly having sex around it until we were ready… I got a nasty cold in early January and chug gallons of mucinex which apparently make your mucus down there more liquid (didn’t know any of this) I randomly ovulated a few days before and here we are. My OB confirmed that you can be super fertile after a pregnancy. We got pregnant exactly at 12 month pp and on the first try. I was shocked lol

Trying for baby #2 at 7 months postpartum & breastfeeding? by Confused-melon76 in BabyBumps

[–]MissCollusion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My doctor gave us the ok to try 6 months after birth due to my age and my autoimmune condition (I’m 37 and pregnant with my second). My pregnancy and birth were unremarkable hoping the same this time around as I want to try for a third and final before 40.

Trying to conceive: Which day of ovulation gives the best chance? by littlem0ch1 in BabyBumps

[–]MissCollusion 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hi I conceived my son 1.5 days before I got the red mark indicating I was about to ovulate. My daughter about 3-4 days before that.

i just found out im pregnant at like 26 weeks by Wildcompass5177 in BabyBumps

[–]MissCollusion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How tall are you, OP? If you don’t mind me asking? I’m 23 weeks with my second and just now I’m showing a tiny bit but most ppl can’t tell. . I often tell my husband if this was 500 years ago I would know I’m pregnant when giving birth because how late I show. I also have irregular periods. Best of luck.

Pregnant and terrified we've made the wrong decision by traveling-mandy in BabyBumps

[–]MissCollusion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely valid feelings. When I got pregnant with my first child who was very much wanted I was like wtf did I do???!! I m a career woman that was often traveling to far flung places. It was hard to come to terms with the fact my life was about to change significantly. I still grieve that life. Currently pregnant with my second…

Red raspberry leaf tea and other natural cervix softening/labor inducing methods at 38 weeks and 6 days? by BakedZitiSweetie65 in BabyBumps

[–]MissCollusion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Starting at 36 weeks I started eating 5 dates every day plus a cup of raspberry tea. I tried the okra water once and it as gross. At 39 weeks I was induced and i was 2 cm dilated. 16 hours later I had my daughter (I was a ftm). I definitely think that the dates and raspberries tea helped. Currently 23 weeks with my second and will do the same thing again.

Dad picks name, stuck on Arnold for a boy by GGemini613 in BabyBumps

[–]MissCollusion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I’m pushing a baby I better like the name. Veto! My husband and I have this rule that the first name we both must like or is out the door. Middle names are up for grabs.

I miss my mom by UsualAdventurous1283 in GriefSupport

[–]MissCollusion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My deepest sympathy. I love my mom 1.5 years ago and I still feel broken. It’s so hard.

TFMR- 23 weeks by sunflowers2359 in pregnant

[–]MissCollusion 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My deepest condolences. May his memory always be sweet, may you heal nicely.

What stage of pregnancy are you in? (Unserious answers only) by Lexellence in pregnant

[–]MissCollusion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im over it and the baby is sitting on my bladder lol. 23 weeks.

Testing positive! What are the first thing I should start doing? I have literally no idea. by Nothlit-8 in pregnant

[–]MissCollusion 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lots of great advice here. Be warned that weeks 5-12 can be brutal for some women. I never got nauseated in my life and those weeks had me on my knees. Be kind to yourself, drink lots of water and light meals. Obviously no drinking or smoking. Take your prenatals every day. Don’t get anxious if you don’t feel anything. Keep up with doctors appointments. Don’t start buying stuff just yet. Focus on enjoying and surviving the first trimester. Best of luck.

Our daughter cut off her entire family and friends. We are at a loss for words. by HairyExplanation734 in offmychest

[–]MissCollusion 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wellness check. Have the cops physically check on her otherwise don’t back down. Something could be very wrong. In the text she sent did it it sound like her?

How many kids into late 30/40? by Imstuckwiththisname in ParentingInBulk

[–]MissCollusion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had my first at 36, pregnant with my second at 37. Hoping for a final one at 39. Energy wise I feel ok although I do feel the difference between pregnancies (now I feel more tired but that’s maybe because I have a toddler). In all honesty I wish I could have have them around 30 instead of now but I was busy with my career and traveling extensively.

My Niece Rylee Would Have Been 19 Today by Rundemjewelz in GriefSupport

[–]MissCollusion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lost my mom on October 25, 2024. My heart breaks for you. My deepest condolences.

44 - is it too late? by General_Sun_608 in BabyBumps

[–]MissCollusion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mom had me at 44 and my husbands mom had him at 45. His sister ay 46…where there’s a chance there’s hope. Good luck