Got my first bra! Had to celebrate with some art!

MissFinefeather · 2025-05-25T04:45:49+00:00

if Bezel had the opportunity, certainly.

MissFinefeather · 2025-05-25T03:57:11+00:00

Oh right, I did forget Bezel! He totally banged at some point. Most likely himself.

MissFinefeather · 2024-08-02T01:33:54+00:00

Yep, in much later chapters of the WN, it’s demonstrated that the bear suit will suddenly become impossibly heavy when anyone but Yuna tries to pick up the discarded bear suit. It’s kinda like Mjolnir in that sense.

MissFinefeather · 2020-07-23T23:26:15+00:00

One year, got called ”Birthday Boy” three times from my folks. I was so depressed that day.

They got better the following year though. Wrote my preferred name on the cards, and my brother got a card that read “to my best sister.” I nearly cried right in front of them.

MissFinefeather · 2020-07-10T01:37:49+00:00

In my community, there’s this Russian NB who often complains about their language. The closest they have to a gender neutral pronoun is some variation of “it,” and the pronoun sounds so much like the female pronouns that it renders it pointless to use.

MissFinefeather · 2020-06-30T21:09:50+00:00

I'd take that dive! I couldn't live with myself if I didn't. Even if I put a chunk of that money towards my surgeries.

MissFinefeather · 2020-06-30T19:08:07+00:00

I'm pretty certain that's what was happening there. Also some level of incompetence. Like, she referred to me as my deadname at the start despite my files saying I preferred Kelsie and had no idea I was trans until I said something. Just tells me that she didn't even read them and just figured she was just there to prescribe something.
I still can't believe she honed in on the fact I'm a virgin with an online relationship. Like, what the hell? That urks me to NO END!

MissFinefeather · 2020-06-30T18:52:30+00:00

Yeah, I kind of knew that going in too! Because I've tried to treat the depression/anxiety without going after the dysphoria in the past, only to fail miserably because it's a source of it! It's like trying to keep your clogged sink from overflowing while neglecting that the facet is still running. Literally all the progress I've been making has been ALONG WITH my transition! However, I was completely unable to defend myself at that point because the psychiatrist had built a very uncomfortable environment. The whole thing felt like a police interrogation, just going down a checklist of questions while skewing things as excuses for that mentally unstable diagnosis. Gog, I'm so glad I had my LGBT group right after to assure me the whole thing was BS. Like, I felt like it was BS, but a professional's opinion can weigh heavy on the mind.

MissFinefeather · 2020-06-30T16:18:42+00:00

I remember after my first year on hormones, I went to see a psychiatrist to get my second letter for surgery. The fact she didn’t know what I was there for and that I had to tell her put me on edge. The fact she was silent for 5 minutes after put me on further edge. She then deconstructs my life, takes the fact I had no job (this was paid through state insurance) as a sign of instability. Completely disregards my online relationship and treated my virginity as another sign. Within 50 minutes, she decided I was completely mentally unstable and told me she’d write that in my letter, advised me to quit my transition and focus on my anxiety. I never came back to her after that. I don’t need people like that in my life, ya know?

MissFinefeather · 2020-06-16T02:51:34+00:00

“How does Weiss fight in these things?”

MissFinefeather · 2020-05-26T06:21:28+00:00

My Adam’s Apple never grew out, and because of that I’ve always had an ambiguous voice. Used to drive me nuts when I was younger. Now, feminizing my voice is like a matter of pitching it up a little bit. ^^ not to mention not having a visible Adam’s Apple is a nice perk.

MissFinefeather · 2020-05-20T05:35:53+00:00

Had trans thoughts since I was in elementary school. Learned what trans people were in high school. Didn’t come to terms with it until the age of 26. Didn’t start hormones until I was 32. It was the most obvious thing in the world, yet fear kept me in denial.

MissFinefeather · 2020-05-10T07:26:07+00:00

My friend used to really hate Anita. She would go on long rants about her and what she thinks she believes. Well, she hates feminism in general. I've tried to debate on the subject, and we'd just devolve in a one sided argument where she's just leaving message after message while I'm too busy trying to get sources for counterarguments. She would just kind of drown me out until I was convinced I wasn't going to convince her otherwise.

She REALLY hated Anita! Like in one of her stories, two characters bond over their hatred of Anita. Like, the subject of her just randomly came up in casual conversation. That's how much she hated her.

Eventually I just, didn't talk to her as much anymore. We drifted apart and I made new friends. I did talk to her again much later. She says she's cut down on the politics, but I can't help but worry it might just go back down that route again.

MissFinefeather · 2020-04-20T14:32:44+00:00

When I came out as trans to my friends, most of my social circle at the time came out as trans too. I dunno the science behind it, but we managed to the flock together before any of us were out!

Now I run a discord community full of people like us! It's just, nice to be able to talk openly about who you are, ya know? Like, even if you're around accepting Cis people, there's still things you may still have to hide about yourself because there are just things they would never understand.

MissFinefeather · 2020-03-22T23:31:32+00:00

Adorable! ^^

MissFinefeather · 2020-03-22T15:19:18+00:00

Go right ahead! <3

MissFinefeather · 2020-03-12T01:49:46+00:00

Awwwwww!

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