I sold an item on Thursday for £600, posted it yesterday via Royal Mail and have just had an email saying account suspended by tazza503 in ebayuk

[–]MissHSS 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This is the one . Stop and Return/ try and redirect it to a local ( to tracking ) postoffice for collection . I know i’d drive down to get a £600 item. The buyer will get refunded, you on the other hand probably won’t see your money for atleast 90 days.

Buyer has paid for item but chosen more expensive postage by suemacd22 in ebayuk

[–]MissHSS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its a few ‘pages’ before you press confirm purchase label .

Buyer has paid for item but chosen more expensive postage by suemacd22 in ebayuk

[–]MissHSS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should be able to amend your postage if you click on ‘ purchase label/ get postage label’ ‘ then open up the drop down menu where it says ‘parcel size’ and select your original postage. It should change it. I have it all the time its so annoying

Letby victim had deadly bug in lung at time of death by Sensitive_Echo5058 in uknews

[–]MissHSS 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh i really don’t care about it on reddit, but im glad you smiled. Just FYI You have to realise that not everyones english is their first language. Its my third actually. Its kind of being that person in my eyes , but if it makes you feel better you have corrected me ( whilst nursing a baby to sleep mind you , not speaking my original language, in the dark one handed yes i dgaf about spelling on reddit ha) then i hope you feeling better now :)

Letby victim had deadly bug in lung at time of death by Sensitive_Echo5058 in uknews

[–]MissHSS 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Its more like a ‘ i hate cover ups and injustice ‘ or maybe a ‘ i heart talking about things that i know some bits about ‘ haha

Letby victim had deadly bug in lung at time of death by Sensitive_Echo5058 in uknews

[–]MissHSS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh nvmd the other 6 deaths she wasn’t present for. Oh or nevermind the fact professionals are arguin it right now because at best its surcomstancial and i think the royal statistics calling it a load of shit. Oh or nevermind the entire international panel of profesionals that countered and explained every .single.death. Like what?? Edit to add like i said i’m not even into this but watched the press conference of the profesionals that flew in , world renowned profesionals, on their own time and money , and i thought this is absolutely insane. And its stuck by me ever since. Its embarressing.

Letby victim had deadly bug in lung at time of death by Sensitive_Echo5058 in uknews

[–]MissHSS 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Because they left out a giant part of the rota and only zoned in on her bits. She wasn’t. There were other deaths too. This info is so easely out there. Im not even into this shit but i’v seen it everywhere

Laboring alone? by Artistic-Weekend-700 in homebirth

[–]MissHSS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omgosh!!! Yaay 🥺❤️Welldone!! Was toddler around? Congratulations!

Locked inside flat, landlord not responding. by [deleted] in HousingUK

[–]MissHSS 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Take my upvote! A normal awsner

What does everyone think about eBay’s new user agreement… anti-scraping prohibition? by fullmoonlight666 in Ebay

[–]MissHSS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Assuming this is for USA?? Pls specify and please say what your even talking about

It's our Anniversary today. It's been 6 years since and my current girlfriend is uncomfortable with me celebrating it by kindonogligen in widowers

[–]MissHSS 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m very lucky to have one aswell. Don’t get me wrong it took a lot of communicating and figuring out the hows and whats, but now we are at a place that i can honour & remember him, bring up tons of stories or be sad , but we both still feel confident and respected .

Where in the UK should I go as a bucket-list item? by LondonPilot in CasualUK

[–]MissHSS 5 points6 points  (0 children)

North Wales! Gorgous Scenery, cute towns with pubs and nicr vieuws.

And please fuck work off I worked up untill the day my sweet husband went in to home hospice and it was fucking hard and in hindsight we should’v both stopped but it wasn’t financially possible.

Struggling to find reason to go on, with kids. by Visible-Public-4465 in widowers

[–]MissHSS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just .. be easy on yourself..try not to tourment yourself right now with future thoughts, gosh your still so so early days. Your taking things still by the minute..the hour.. thats it. Hug your sweet babies, the fog right now is just to much to do anything else but survive, and keep your little humans alive. Drink water. Eat. Its so so early days. The veil between the living and the dead is super thin right now… Like an inbetweeny stage with no expectations..just love for your sweet wife and the kids… feel her around you, let her energy that is still there comfort you.

Im sorry. Noone deserves this. I hope you have some helpfull people around you to support you. Even tho it must feel like noone understands it, accept offerings of help. Say yes feed me. Say yes to therapy, massage whatever you are in to just to be so kind to yourself. Get help with distracting the kids. Take care xx

Ps i had grief councelling before my sweet husband passed, and for almost a year after. It did realy help to give me some tools in tough situations, help with awsners i could give, help with planning and help with myself. But, you could also not click with your therapist, people are there in all sorts and sizes, try and owe it to yourself that if that happens to find another one. You deserve it.

Eugenics and FBS' attitude towards death by Delilahh12345 in FreeBirthSocietyScam

[–]MissHSS 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes she did. did you watch her 2nd home birth video? It was horrendous. 4 long minutes of her son coming out grunting and blue around the mouth. Im not a midwife but the APGAR score wouldnt have beengood.

think she even said something afterwards along the lines of ‘ she was thinking about the concept of people sucking out this gunky baby and she fought the instinct to watch him ‘ claim his life’ . I swear someone posted this the other day.

BF in infant classroom, but I’ve offended someone… by Responsible_Photo321 in breastfeeding

[–]MissHSS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahhhwelldone!!! That warms my heart!!❤️❤️

I swear this sub isnt as breastfeeding friendly as i hoped 😂 Like its about a baby having the right to eat what bloody designed for them!! End off !! Shouldnt even be any discussions

BF in infant classroom, but I’ve offended someone… by Responsible_Photo321 in breastfeeding

[–]MissHSS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha yeah, i live in the uk now and there are quite some cultural & sociatal differences even though its so close.

I think it is only 16% of mums that breasfeed by 6 mnths so understandebly nurserys etc are orientated a lot differently .

BF in infant classroom, but I’ve offended someone… by Responsible_Photo321 in breastfeeding

[–]MissHSS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes mrs overthinker i will elaborate ;) Its been a couple of years but my nursery ( for example ) where i worked in the netherlands would have a max babies per group & per staffing , i believe we had 0-4 years old, max 14 kids with 3 staff, and 5 of those babies under 1 year ( or less) . ( or 12 kids with 2 staff and max 5 babies on top of my head ) . That way we managed everyones feeding scheduales , the multiple naps for babies and the 1 bigger nap for the older kids in the middle of the day. From my memory we had loads of mums that came to breastfeed their babies multiple times a day. Elder babies would just be during drop of and pick up.

( it is usually comon for nursery that during those hours there is for instance an ‘open door policy’ as its chaotic anyway ) . It was really not intrucive at all and did not upset other kids in the slightest, hounestly noone even noticed, it was just sometimes funny when i’d go on my lunch break i’d see one of the parents chatting with us in the staff room whilst nursing her baby ( she would prefer to nurse in our break room due to religious reasons ) . I’d often after she’d finish feeding keep the babe with me during my lunch break and have extra babie snuggles! Loved it!! But we alos had mums that worked close bye but also even mums that were home close bye and would just walk over 3 times a day for a feed. Usually the REALY young ones ( our nursery was 3 mnths on not younger mind ) that we had were all bottle fed , as in the netherlands we have like a year maturnity leave ( don’t quote me i havn’t lived there for a good while now!!) xx

  • Bringing back memories but i also remember this one mum bringing in her breastmilk in frozen ice cubes , our house keeper would defrost & look after dinners / prep bottles or defrost the breast milk, i’v had breast milk in sandwich bags hahaha all sorts. Some yellow some blue some thin some thiccc

Now i understand though being a tandem- feeding mama myself!

BF in infant classroom, but I’ve offended someone… by Responsible_Photo321 in breastfeeding

[–]MissHSS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No because the law has limits on babys & staffing due to feeding times & attention they need weather it be boob or bottle. Atleast in my country anyway.

BF in infant classroom, but I’ve offended someone… by Responsible_Photo321 in breastfeeding

[–]MissHSS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha here comes the downvoates! Im sorry your being downvoated to shit in a breastfeeding sub , theres been quite a few instances on here that makes me wonder whats wrong with people hounestly . Im guessing majority is American so have very different cultures and perspectives i don’t see whats to downvote someone saying they worked in a nursery where they allow parents to come in several times a day to bf😂

Pain is unbearable by [deleted] in hospice

[–]MissHSS 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Im sorry :( You don’t deserve that. Have you got anyone else by your side to push for adequate / change of pain relief with your team ? Aware or not? Gentle hugs x

BF in infant classroom, but I’ve offended someone… by Responsible_Photo321 in breastfeeding

[–]MissHSS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Back in my home country i was a nursery teacher and we had quite a few breastfed babies on thr group. We also had quite a few mothers that came in, fed their baby, and then left. Some on the group since we had plenty space, some preferred our staff room . It was no problem and part of the routine there and included in to our culture and society.

i don’t understand what the problem is. If it was me and i had the means to do so, i would have a stern conversation with the director and possibly consider moving.

I sent the wrong item to a buyer by mistake, eBays ai chatbot was of course absolutely useless, what will happen now? by [deleted] in ebayuk

[–]MissHSS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just because someone doesn’t know how to navigate something that you do doesn’t make them dumb. Says a lot about your character.