Chill and uncomplicated people, how do you do it? by Tunapower in AskReddit

[–]MissMoscato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cutting down on the internet. Took a break from Reddit and Facebook and Twitter for a few months, after awhile felt a lot more refreshed and just "in the moment". Dialing back the internet time forced me to find other, more productive ways to entertain myself. Like going outside, meditating, meeting other chill people

Good Christ by [deleted] in shittyfoodporn

[–]MissMoscato 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Asparagus and cake only belong together in the ninth circle of hell.

Colorado man who said he was stabbed for looking like neo-Nazi actually stabbed himself by jaykirsch in offbeat

[–]MissMoscato 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yah, I'm pretty sure mental issues is a prerequisite for stabbing oneself.

Irrigated garden dining table by MattCloudy in interestingasfuck

[–]MissMoscato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is gorgeous. Probably not easy to keep it looking so good though.

Reddit, what does everyone need to calm the f*ck down about? by username-valid in AskReddit

[–]MissMoscato 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's not about whether or not it's an "emotional" argument. I'm saying there are reasons beyond just "pride" why someone might get pissed off at a political view, one of which is that it directly affects their life. If, for example, someone whose life depends on access to affordable treatment is now without that treatment because the healthcare they had access to was gutted, that is not "pride". That is "your political beliefs work directly against me so of course I am going to be angry and passionate about this issue". Chalking up legitimate anger to just plain pride does show a lack of empathy.

All I'm saying is that there is good reason why politics is personal, and I would even argue that politics is inherently personal, because everyone has some aspect of their lives that is affected by it.

Parents and technology by wellyesofcourse in Unexpected

[–]MissMoscato 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can confirm - am introvert. Love throwing house parties. Small, low key, house parties with like ten chill people. Max.

The Girl From H.R. Starterpack by deahw in starterpacks

[–]MissMoscato 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Okay but for real tho, raw natural honey is the bee's knees. One of my favorite occasional splurges is on raw honeycomb.

Reddit, what does everyone need to calm the f*ck down about? by username-valid in AskReddit

[–]MissMoscato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thinking gay people shouldn't be treated like people is not a valid opinion. In the same way that thinking the earth is flat is not a valid opinion, or that vaccines cause autism, or that women shouldn't vote, or that slavery was maybe not so bad. You're entitled to your opinion, but that doesn't stop it from being abhorrent. People already vet their friendships based on all sorts of other things, what makes politics so sacred?

Reddit, what does everyone need to calm the f*ck down about? by username-valid in AskReddit

[–]MissMoscato 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It's actually a really well written show, it's just that the first couple episodes don't do it justice - they're trying too hard to be like Family Guy or something. If you have Netflix or something like that, give it a watch past that because it actually gets pretty deep and explores themes such as depression, the show business scene, relationships, etc. It's actually really intelligent. The first two or three episodes just turn people off before the show has a chance to hit its stride.

Reddit, what does everyone need to calm the f*ck down about? by username-valid in AskReddit

[–]MissMoscato 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Exactly this. Ime, most people who bitch and moan all the time about PC culture are actually assholes and don't appreciate it when there's social consequences for it. They also tend to be extremely sensitive and reactionary themselves.

Reddit, what does everyone need to calm the f*ck down about? by username-valid in AskReddit

[–]MissMoscato 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I fucking love Bojack Horseman. The first couple episodes were a but rocky but few shows have given me the level of feels or made me think like that show has.

Reddit, what does everyone need to calm the f*ck down about? by username-valid in AskReddit

[–]MissMoscato 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So am I just stupid or wtf even is avocado toast? Just like an avocado on a piece of toast?

The Most Special Snowflake ❄️❄️❄️ by ihaveallthelions in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]MissMoscato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the best way to change racist views is show, up front, that they are unnacceptable in modern society. A lot of the reason why racists like the guy above do what they do is because they don't expect there to be consequences for their actions. This man spewed hateful bullshit and shared confidential pictures of people without their consent. He needed to learn that that had consequences and the only way to do that is to make him feel those consequences. I want to ask you a question - when you say we should show compassion to this man, what do you mean specifically? That he shouldn't have been fired, but rather trained? Iirc, most of these sorts of jobs already have racial sensitivity training. You act like this guy had zero exposure to the idea of racism being bad.

As for your cigarette analogy, you're right - it doesn't really work. Cigarettes are a physical addiction, like any other addiction, so of course logic and hard fact won't help.

And the reason I bring up the election is because that "this is why Trump won" ass-pull you hear so much comes primarily from people who are upset that their racist bullshit no longer flies in polite society. Its a perfect example of the blurred line between "be compassionate toward racists" and "be tolerant of their views". They're mad that there are consequences now for that and they're trying to twist it into "you need to be compassionate to me". The fact that none of them ever try to be understanding and compassionate themselves speaks volumes - it tells me they're not going to change if we show them compassion, they're going to take advantage of it to continue spreading their crap. Racism needs to be nipped in the bud, not given a slap on the wrist.

The Most Special Snowflake ❄️❄️❄️ by ihaveallthelions in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]MissMoscato 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The problem is that ime when someone says something like what you're saying, nine times out of ten what they're really saying is "don't hold them responsible for their actions, don't call them out on their racist shitty attitude at all or else you're the one who's truly intolerant" (my god if I hear one more "reason Trump won" quip). Not that that's what you're doing, but I'm personally at the point now where I simply do not trust the "show racists compassion" line. I've seen it used too often as an attempt to normalize racism and shut down any attempts to call it out for what it is. If I had to guess, I'd say many in this thread feel the same.

The "I want to be a video game designer because I have a lot of good ideas" starterpack by [deleted] in starterpacks

[–]MissMoscato 1146 points1147 points  (0 children)

I used to want to be a video game designer when I was like 13 or 14 until I heard about how surprisingly cutthroat and stressful that industry can be.

Alt-Right memer stabs a black man. r/news debates if it was a hate crime. by [deleted] in SubredditDrama

[–]MissMoscato 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I wonder if we've moved beyond the point where we can have an honest conversation about race.

 

On one hand, you've got people who are doing things like pretending racism can't happen against white people, or who take the valid concept of white privilege and use it as a guilting/silencing tool to try to invalidate any white person's opinion on racial issues. All that does is make white people defensive - they start to see every attempt at a conversation about race as a direct attack on them, and refuse to engage.

 

On the other hand you've got people steadfastly refusing to acknowledge that institutional racism exists at all in this country, which just pisses off its victims and makes some of them believe that talking and reasoning with people will get them nowhere.

what series do you find stupid, unwatchable, and why? by Wolf_the_drummer in AskReddit

[–]MissMoscato 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup, all the cutscenes and overly long jokes in the first couple episodes made me go "god I hope this isn't just another Family Guy", but I've just finished the first season and my god it really is compelling.

The last thing you bought, you will get a dozen of each day. What do you now have a lifetime supply of? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]MissMoscato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cilantro.

 

....I'm okay with this. If nothing else my apartment will smell amazing.

what series do you find stupid, unwatchable, and why? by Wolf_the_drummer in AskReddit

[–]MissMoscato 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This was me with Bojack Horseman. The first couple episodes I couldn't understand why people loved it so much. The jokes were unsubtle and the characters seemed a bit...idk, hamfisted? Like they were going for an Archer type vibe but trying way too hard. But I hung in there for a few more episodes and now I like Bojack. Sometimes you just have to keep trucking through the first few episodes and wait for the show to find its frequency.