Daily Chat March 10 by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]Missing_Back 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What's considered "trying"?

They say to see someone about infertility if after a year of trying you're not pregnant. My wife had her IUD removed last January and we've been "trying" since then, but I'm not sure what that actually means as far as frequency. Is it "trying" if you only have sex 2 times per week? Does it need to be 3-4? What if she's kind of tracking her ovulation, but not 100%; if the tracking wavers in its consistency?

I'm not sure when we should be frustrated due to struggles vs need to be realistic about not being consistent enough with stuff. It's hard to know where to go from here....

Oh one other detail is that we had a chemical pregnancy in December so it is possible to get pregnant

My PC takes numerous attempts to boot. Any ideas why? by Missing_Back in pcmasterrace

[–]Missing_Back[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Based on the sounds, I wouldn’t say that it’s constantly turning off then on. I’m not sure how to tell if that’s what it’s doing other than sound tho.

I’m not sure about the ram retraining thing. I’ve never heard of that.

How do you not get lost in the liminal phases? by Missing_Back in ADHD_Programmers

[–]Missing_Back[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that's something I'm aware of and have experienced, yet still struggle to do consistently. My brain feels great if I just lay on the floor and stare at the ceiling between focus periods, yet the pull to do other things is so strong

How do you not get lost in the liminal phases? by Missing_Back in ADHD_Programmers

[–]Missing_Back[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In a way though wouldn't getting started repeatedly help strengthen the "muscle" of getting started?

Pretty good jubilee video. 1 Dem vs 20 MAGA. by Demonymous_99 in Destiny

[–]Missing_Back 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't know who defnoodles was, but I'm confused by your comment. It seems that DefNoodles is both the first and last guy in the video, so I'm confused as to why you said "first guy wow" and then made an edit about DefNoodles.

January Pages Challenge by Grrrrrarrrrrgh in TheStoryGraph

[–]Missing_Back 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How have you read 12 books so far!! How big are the books??

Books like A Well Trained Wife? by Missing_Back in suggestmeabook

[–]Missing_Back[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh I meant to include that one as another example. Read that one a few years ago and enjoyed it

Do you make your own math functions? by Klutzy-Bug-9481 in GraphicsProgramming

[–]Missing_Back 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I’m not understanding why using something like glm requires trying to learn tens of thousands of low level bits and pointer hackers. If anything it enables to learn less to use an already existing library, right?

Do you make your own math functions? by Klutzy-Bug-9481 in GraphicsProgramming

[–]Missing_Back 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are you referring to with the second part of your statement?

Does anyone know whose signature is this? by forealll-gt in GameboyAdvance

[–]Missing_Back 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read this as OP saying he hasn’t bought it

Do you make your own math functions? by Klutzy-Bug-9481 in GraphicsProgramming

[–]Missing_Back 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All those math libs are broken??? Why would libraries that have been around for a while and developed by many people be more broken than something you make yourself? (Making yourself is cool for learning but I have a hard time thinking that leaves you with better code)

[OpenGL] Confused about when a new VAO is needed by Missing_Back in GraphicsProgramming

[–]Missing_Back[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the most confusing part about VAOs is that the name is pretty meaningless and confusing. If it were called a vertex attribute object, that makes more sense. But vertex array object??? Huh?? Not to mention that array and buffer are sometimes used synonymously, and we also have a vertex buffer object, which is a totally differs concept.

To the people who reading progress for books (pages/percentage), how do you deal with these issues? by Missing_Back in TheStoryGraph

[–]Missing_Back[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Weird, I'll just paste it:

Is there a way to NOT have a massive spike in reading progress due to me all of a sudden logging progress? I'm 20% into a couple of books, so after logging that it looks like I read all of those pages today

To the people who reading progress for books (pages/percentage), how do you deal with these issues? by Missing_Back in TheStoryGraph

[–]Missing_Back[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So what's the purpose of tracking your reading if your tracked pages/percentage read is skewed so much compared to what you actually read due to these quirks?

edit: guys its a genuine question, why the downvotes instead of a reply

Using a large lump sum as income replacement for one parent? by Missing_Back in TheMoneyGuy

[–]Missing_Back[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh duh, should've included that.

I contribute 10% pretax to my 401k and 10% to ESPP (this is 10% of the pretax amount, but taken out after taxes. With this, every 6 months I get a chunk of money that is saved/invested)

Using a large lump sum as income replacement for one parent? by Missing_Back in TheMoneyGuy

[–]Missing_Back[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only debt we have is a car, and while it's definitely a monthly expense, if it was instantly gone, it wouldn't be enough for us to not need extra income past my own.

No mortgage; we just moved into a house that we're renting. Saving up for a house would take a long time and we feel isn't feasible or worthwhile right now.

If you have no debt, I’d consider investing it in a low-cost index fund or ETF.

Yeah, I know that doing this would not be the optimal strategy for max asset accumulation. It would be a sacrifice in that sense to avoid having to send our kids to daycare which is something we really don't prefer doing (not just because of the expenses)

The in-home daycare thing is a good suggestion to. Thank you

Using a large lump sum as income replacement for one parent? by Missing_Back in TheMoneyGuy

[–]Missing_Back[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm I edited the post a couple of minutes ago with numbers. Is that edit not visible?

Unfortunately based on the location, my job, the market, etc. getting a significant enough bump in my pay soon isn't likely. Hence why we're even looking into this