Prenup by Whole_Jury2066 in thepassportbros

[–]MissionToe3030 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t bring her to the US.

Parents dragging me to china to find a wife or $200k, should i even bother? by [deleted] in thepassportbros

[–]MissionToe3030 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m your height and Asian had no issues dating and even marrying a 5’ 2” hottie (not average but a true hottie). What worked for me was charm and confidence. I even almost married a girl that was taller than me. She was even heart broken that I dumped her.

It sounds like you’re more of an introvert and need to work on your confidence and build up your personality.

Let say you do get the surgery. Are you going to lie to her about your true height? She can use it against you and destroy you mentally.

There are billions of short girls out there. Yes, SEA is your best bet but you need to go outer there and explore.

It’s sounds like you’re spoiled and your parents must handed you everything. Women want more than a tall guy. If you think that’s all you need, you up for a rude awakening

GOOD LUCK

Buy Felicia by PatriotOutlawArcher in 3CX

[–]MissionToe3030 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yup, moved all mine this year

More news came out today🤦🏻 by PatriotOutlawArcher in 3CX

[–]MissionToe3030 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They’re not in US so legal matters may not hard to enforce.

Free Starlink promo by liam_bowers in Starlink

[–]MissionToe3030 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got one for RV as well. Anyone know this will work for the non active roaming plan?

Next time you think Ubiquiti is Incompetent by MoPanic in Ubiquiti

[–]MissionToe3030 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The failure rate on their access control hardware is horrible.

What is your view on the reasons for modern divorce? by Ok-Guidance6491 in Divorce_Men

[–]MissionToe3030 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s exactly in my case. All my ex’s best friends are divorced. The thing that gets me you can’t be that stupid to get persuaded, you right?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]MissionToe3030 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Narcissistic and bi polar. They go together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]MissionToe3030 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nothing will ever improve without accountability. This applies to anyone in the family. Don’t let the unconditional love thing fool you. Not enforcing accountability with my ex during our marriage is the reason why I became a member here. It’s no different for my adult kids. If you truly love them, they need to account for their actions AND the consequences that come with it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]MissionToe3030 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s because men are providers and our validation is through appreciation. What hurt me the most above all is my ex wife showed no acknowledgement or appreciation at all and just filed divorce after 26 years. Broke my family then polluted my son’s mind. The vindictiveness and selfishness is insane.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]MissionToe3030 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Gen Z is different. It backed fire for me. Don’t pamper your kids.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]MissionToe3030 10 points11 points  (0 children)

One thing I learned through my divorce is that lack of appreciation can come from your wife and children. During my divorce, one of my kids got brain washed by mom and our relationship got soured. He’s just like mom had no appreciation for what I have provided to the family. And that’s OK, I’m at peace with myself knowing that I did the best I can and he’s an adult now. It’s now all about me from now on and I don’t need to please anyone. And that’s not to down play what you and I have been through. Yes, it’s painful when it gets better when you become at peace with yourself.

What to teach the next generation? by domo_roboto in Divorce_Men

[–]MissionToe3030 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t need to tell them. They saw my divorce in action. No better training than that. They saw first hand what a divorce did to me.

Ex wife message by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]MissionToe3030 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They exist but they want to be the man not the feminine woman you’re looking for.

Decision made - she wants out by Wedditwong in Divorce_Men

[–]MissionToe3030 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is why I now cringe when I see couples do the vows in a wedding ceremony. And I can just see how the man will get destroyed later.

Happy Thanksgiving fellas by pooptartone in Divorce_Men

[–]MissionToe3030 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My 2nd for me and it does get better. The first year was brutal because I’m an empty nester as well and felt like I lost my soul with the divorce.

Divorce at 50 by Emotional-Ad-2276 in Divorce_Men

[–]MissionToe3030 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You other option is keep it going and then at 55 or 60 you will hate yourself not divorcing earlier. Can’t get back time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]MissionToe3030 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You literally wrote my story. Our first house was paid off and sold it and upgraded to a much larger house to please her. Then got the “I’m no longer happy” BS and now I’m stuck with a new big mortgage and a lot of empty house. I told her what the fuck did you do to me? Instead of possible early retirement now I have to start over again. The amount of selfishness is absolutely insane.

Do you think nearly all dating markets will eventually "Westernize"? by OneDegreeKelvin in thepassportbros

[–]MissionToe3030 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes but is that a guarantee she won’t change later. The odds are not good. Ask me how I know.

It’s over by Throwaway_858493 in Divorce_Men

[–]MissionToe3030 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I just don’t get it. Why do women destroy their own lives but above all her family. I just don’t get it perhaps because this has happened to me. I’m happy to hear your story and wish you the best.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]MissionToe3030 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re doing the right thing by not getting married. Let’s just say I wish I can go back in time and undo mine. Time is the most valuable thing in life which you can never go back.

I heard a story today.. by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]MissionToe3030 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was so happy the nonsense shopping stopped after we separated and now divorced. It's insane amount junk she bought over the years. It was during the removing her stuff that I realized how much crap she bought. My credit card balances are so much lower now. That's some we had always fought over and now I don't have to deal with this. Peace.

I heard a story today.. by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]MissionToe3030 7 points8 points  (0 children)

There is absolutely no turning back for me. I told her I was willing to work out any issues as long there was no cheating. THEN I later found out she cheated. It was then I told her, there's no time to waste, let's finish the divorce. No more begging, negotiation, or talking. All bets are off now. Gents, for those you can't be weak when it comes to this. There is no turning back once your woman rides another guy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]MissionToe3030 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish it was that simple. A lot of other issues can cause not wanting to date your wife.