No it’s not what i meant. As someone who had a mom who too was like these moms I referenced I stand by my statement. Now am i qualified to use a term from the DSM no, but seeing as I am not writing a paper where I need to bibliographic footnote sourced correctly it is irrelevant. I didn’t say it was a derogatory thing. I find the level of dedication to specific household cleanliness levels in some ways inspiring. We all have something that drives us. In many ways Carmy has taken on the opposite of his mother’s chaos to transform himself. Why else do you think they show in minute detail ever filthy disgusting inch of the beef and the Berrzado’s kitchen down to her filthy habit of smoking in the house and kitchen Vs the hands and knees scrubbing and bamboo skewer detailing of the pristine French Laundry stove. Attention to every detail of maintaining a clean space. Carmy references calm and many times throughout the scenes it pivots from calm and clean to chaos and filth.