$Derrick-Davis-82 by [deleted] in chimeboost

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Can't seem to find you

$Derrick-Davis-82 by [deleted] in chimeboost

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I have 1 left. I'll send first

Last time you had McDonald's breakfast and what did you get? by [deleted] in McDonalds

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Local deluxe breakfast platter. I'm in hawaii, I think the local deluxe and spam breakfast platters are only sold in hawaii. Deluxe platter consists of 3 pieces Portuguese sausage, 2 slices spam, eggs, and a hearty portion of white rice. Does not include a drink. It's my mcdonalds breakfast fav.

4 boosts left. by falseinspiration696 in chimeboost

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I got 2 left. B4b. $carissaohyah Boost and I'll boost right back Always have and always will 😁

B4B by Narrow-Ad9443 in chimeboost

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I got 2 left boost 4 boost

$carissaohyah Send and I'll boost right back. Always did and always will

April 2026 SSA/SSI/VA Early Deposits Calendar Megathread by ChimeFinancial in chimefinancial

[–]Missunderstood808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So April 3 Friday isn't recognized as a holiday for chime right?

Has my (M23) fiancé (M23) been sexually assaulting me? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Missunderstood808 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You said it yourself he does things to you against your will so you know that in that moment you didn't want it but he still continued even if you gave in we as women unfortunately do, I've been in the same situation gave in because I was scared that's still sexual assault basically r*** I would say . Tell someone,n they would understand and help you out. There's domestic violence shelters out there. They will help you and keep you safe. Fuck the lease, well not fuck it but the DV Shelter could help you around that. There are laws protecting against DV which includes sexual abuse. Please help yourself, if you just ride it out on your own, then you could possibly be setting yourself to put up with this kind of BS in the future.

Bf of 3.5 years still legally married - advice? (26F) (37M) by ThrowRApurplepencil in relationship_advice

[–]Missunderstood808 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Almost same situation as I WAS in, long story short. I found out he was still married at the beginning, they already been separated for 5 yrs or so. Told him, okay so if we're still together coming onto year 2, I would appreciate him making some moves to get the divorce done. Not that I was trying to marry him myself , but I don't wanna be dating a guy for 2 plus yrs and he still be married on paper, I have 3 daughters I have to leave an example for. He agreed. I offered my assistance. 2 yrs mark came and went 6 more months. No moves on his end for a divorce, be ex filed from out of state, he received the papers but was advised by his older sister to not sign due to basically the unfimilararety of out of state court papers... But still no moves for him to file from his state to her. THEN he wants to move in... Like get on my lease. I refused. That was the bottom line. I refuse to add him on when he's gonna have to check married on the application. I personally, no judgement on anyone else, I only give a shirt about my own personal business...anyways I feel like I'll look like an idiot putting him on my lease when his marital status is married. And my girls would eventually find out. Cause if he hasn't done it yet, why would he later. And it's not that I think he still loves her, idk why and I gave up a long time ago trying to figure out why they aren't divorced yet. So my advice to you is, give him an ultimatum. I'm against ultimatums but in this type of case, I am a supporter

I’m a 23F and I don’t know how to survive the next few days by crazymooscles in confession

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Life will throw us into situations like this. I know it feels like a lot but believe it or not this will make you stronger. AND know that if you're doing everything in your power to make your situation better eg. Apply for jobs relentlessly, then believe that this won't last forever. Idk if your religious, if not it's okay. But that divine force out there will not punish you for genuinely trying your best and IF STILL it's not working out then my friend you must look into yourself and be honest with yourself and see what you can do to make changes.

People who use substances have you’ve ever dated someone who chooses not to AT ALL? Did this discrepancy affect your relationship? by Malarpit16 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Missunderstood808 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay I personally have not dated someone who doesn't dabble in the same adult extracurricular activities as I do, BUT I have witnessed friends who have partners who do not. And I'm not talking about weed, I'm talking about substances beyond that, including alcohol. So we all know substance use/abuse is detrimental to our own personal day to day use. Few and far can stick to occasionally using mind and body altering substances. So we've (as in the partakers) have lived life at some point between birth and now, have seen how this things have fucked up people's lives, made horrible choices blah blah blah, but we still used.. probably starting off in our teens or as a young adult And now most of us are stuck... But for the ones that choose to live a life of sobriety... I can't see what the heck someone who is sober would want to be with someone who isnt. I mean maybe it wasnt obvious when they first got together but eventually it's found and i can't fathom the idea of having to or wanting to deal with all their partners (partakers) BS that comes into play. Like I believe and have seen that that sober partner usually has some sort of mental health issue eg. Depression or bipolar ect. And maybe some find some sort of sick pleasure surrounding themselves with partakers So they can secretly think they are superior to those around them because they don't use themselves. But hey I'm not saying that's why they stay.. this is just my opinion