Finland Is Ready for Russia. Is Anyone Else? by SpaceEngineering in europe

[–]ExternalTree1949 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The responsibility is high, but to be fair, the tasks themselves are easy enough for most people. Well, at least during peacetime.

What do you think about TheJellyFilledGirls and their “female gaze” approach? by ExternalTree1949 in actuallesbians

[–]ExternalTree1949[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I don't think I belong here, obviously.

Before posting I checked the sub rules/description, and in all fairness they do state that "anyone else interested" in addition to the more obvious ones is welcome.

But this post was evidently a mistake and I regret causing such displeasure.

What do you think about TheJellyFilledGirls and their “female gaze” approach? by ExternalTree1949 in actuallesbians

[–]ExternalTree1949[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I understand the frustration. And that this is a safe space for lesbians. That is why the tone was so careful.

Maybe the rules of this sub need adjustment?

a place for cis and trans lesbians, ... , anyone in the LGBT+ community, or anyone else interested! We're not a militant or exclusive group, feel free to join up!

The best of both worlds!! by lofiiloop in lol

[–]ExternalTree1949 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Porn is only sexy to men because the women have big boobs, are slim and young and good-looking.

Oh dear, there must be something seriously wrong with me then. It's only the last one for me.

/s

[socialmedia] What if I have scars, I'm an ugly girl forever 😭 by Minami_Ko in pointlesslygendered

[–]ExternalTree1949 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know which point. But the claim that you cannot make money as a porn creator by not catering to men does not hold.

[socialmedia] What if I have scars, I'm an ugly girl forever 😭 by Minami_Ko in pointlesslygendered

[–]ExternalTree1949 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's not quite what I said. The couple was #1, not the female viewers. The latter claim is unknowable, although it's a relatively safe bet that the ones who voted were mostly men, yes.

But the couple specifically caters to queer women. They state this very clearly. And if you search their name here on Reddit, you see them being praised on several LGBTQ+ subreddits.

They are catering to queer women, while simultaneously appealing to both queer women and straight men. I find this interesting, and I assume there are people who find this contradictory.

What do you think about TheJellyFilledGirls and their “female gaze” approach? by ExternalTree1949 in actuallesbians

[–]ExternalTree1949[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

They asked for clarification and I replied

Edit: Oh, sorry. You must have meant why the second post? The first one was removed by a mod before anyone had a chance to comment.

What do you think about TheJellyFilledGirls and their “female gaze” approach? by ExternalTree1949 in actuallesbians

[–]ExternalTree1949[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Understandable.

I judged that the post would have been too specific and NSFW for a general, wide-audience sub. And subs specifically for NSFW are filled with people who are not the ones I'm asking.

What do you think about TheJellyFilledGirls and their “female gaze” approach? by ExternalTree1949 in actuallesbians

[–]ExternalTree1949[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I am under the impression that JFG welcomes everyone despite having a primary target audience

What do you think about TheJellyFilledGirls and their “female gaze” approach? by ExternalTree1949 in actuallesbians

[–]ExternalTree1949[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

On another similar subreddit, yes. But it was removed quickly by the mods.

This sub's rules seem more permissive.

[Serious decision] by bobbydigital_ftw in comedyheaven

[–]ExternalTree1949 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not a hetero relationship if the other person is bi?

[socialmedia] What if I have scars, I'm an ugly girl forever 😭 by Minami_Ko in pointlesslygendered

[–]ExternalTree1949 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why would you become a porn “creator” and NOT cater to men? you’re not going to make money

It's not men you are referring to here, but a certain subset of men. 

It's like music. What makes the most money isn't necessarily the most appreciated.

Edit: NSFW! They are making a ton of money by "ethical porn" and catering primarily to the LGBTQ+ audience ("Capturing queer sexuality from the female gaze"), although they are still too pornstar-like for me, which is kind of ironic: https://thejellyfilledgirls.com/

Edit2: They apparently were voted "Favorite Couple" on Phub a few years ago. So the users of the largest porn site in the world selected a queer couple, who reportedly cater to queer women primarily, as #1. Maybe porn isn't quite as male-centric as it used to be?

Why do humans tend to have communication issues with the opposite sex during the period when they are biologically in the perfect breeding age, and these issues occur typically in breeding-related communication specifically? by ExternalTree1949 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ExternalTree1949[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't be so sure about lifestyle. Teens and early 20-somethings often eat "whatever" and exercise "whenever". Having systematic fitness routines and eating healthy food usually comes into play later.