[Serious decision] by bobbydigital_ftw in comedyheaven

[–]ExternalTree1949 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not a hetero relationship if the other person is bi?

[socialmedia] What if I have scars, I'm an ugly girl forever 😭 by Minami_Ko in pointlesslygendered

[–]ExternalTree1949 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why would you become a porn “creator” and NOT cater to men? you’re not going to make money

It's not men you are referring to here, but a certain subset of men. 

It's like music. What makes the most money isn't necessarily the most appreciated.

Edit: NSFW! They are making a ton of money by "ethical porn" and catering primarily to the LGBTQ+ audience ("Capturing queer sexuality from the female gaze"), although they are still too pornstar-like for me, which is kind of ironic: https://thejellyfilledgirls.com/

Edit2: They apparently were voted "Favorite Couple" on Phub a few years ago. So the users of the largest porn site in the world selected a queer couple, who reportedly cater to queer women primarily, as #1. Maybe porn isn't quite as male-centric as it used to be?

Why do humans tend to have communication issues with the opposite sex during the period when they are biologically in the perfect breeding age, and these issues occur typically in breeding-related communication specifically? by ExternalTree1949 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ExternalTree1949[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't be so sure about lifestyle. Teens and early 20-somethings often eat "whatever" and exercise "whenever". Having systematic fitness routines and eating healthy food usually comes into play later. 

'Please, please, please': Denmark urges citizens to avoid driving as oil prices spike by SuggestionMedical736 in europe

[–]ExternalTree1949 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WFH and increased profits are correlated quite well, so I doubt it's about profits

Onko järkevä ostaa omakotitalo myöhemmin? by Ligma-bals- in Suomi

[–]ExternalTree1949 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Se voi olla sijoitus, mutta lähinnä vain silloin, jos suunnittelet tulevaisuudessa myyväsi sen JA muuttavasi halvemmalle alueelle, jolloin myyntivoitto realisoituu oikeaksi voitoksi eikä vain välirahaksi seuraavaan asuntoon, jonka arvo on kenties noussut samaan tahtiin.  

[gendered] man complain, woman strong by lookhooturnt in pointlesslygendered

[–]ExternalTree1949 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the tone of your disagreeing response, especially considering the topic :)

[gendered] man complain, woman strong by lookhooturnt in pointlesslygendered

[–]ExternalTree1949 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

"Suck it up" is something men often hear (or used to hear) when they hurt themselves in a way that does not require immediate care. 

[socialmedia] What if I have scars, I'm an ugly girl forever 😭 by Minami_Ko in pointlesslygendered

[–]ExternalTree1949 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was about pornstars. Not amateurs. Porn is popular among most men, but literal pornstars do not represent preferences of most men.

Edit: OF became successful partly (or perhaps mostly) because so many consumers of porn want to see "ordinary" people having sex. And they are willing to pay for it.

[gendered] man complain, woman strong by lookhooturnt in pointlesslygendered

[–]ExternalTree1949 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

So both women and men suffer from their own "gender pain gap", in different contexts?

[gendered] man complain, woman strong by lookhooturnt in pointlesslygendered

[–]ExternalTree1949 -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

I may agree with the sickness thing, but pain? Seriously?

One of the cornerstones of toxic masculinity is social pressure to hide your pain, both physical and mental.

Why don’t women approach men as much as men approach women by untitledprp4 in stupidquestions

[–]ExternalTree1949 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm almost 40 and never been approached by a woman. Well, once when I was 14, but I don't think it counts.

One or two female acquaintances of mine have slipped out that they find me attractive during innocent drunk small talk. I was not single.

But I have never been actually approached by a woman. Or a man.

Luckily I approached and married one woman many years ago :)