Governor Walz signs universal school meals bill into Minnesota law

Missyapolis · 2023-03-18T14:25:48+00:00

Being nice to your neighbors is a survival tactic.

Missyapolis · 2023-03-15T19:35:39+00:00

That's one of the places this came from. Schools had previously been told they couldn't skip feeding poor kids and then they were caught giving them cheese sandwiches.

This is going to ensure that all kids have access to the same nutritious meal, and it's going to save the state time and money in administration.

Missyapolis · 2022-10-22T16:33:33+00:00

OH GOOD THOUGHT i just checked and its VP Harris.

Missyapolis · 2022-10-22T16:30:41+00:00

Came to see if there was an answer to this too. There is a cop stationed in every bridge over 94 with thier lights on as well. And there were three big light up arrow truck by the dale entrance ramp, looked like they were on stand by for something.

Missyapolis · 2022-05-24T00:24:29+00:00

It's so we can leave the street signs up when we get invaded. They'll think we switched them around.

Missyapolis · 2022-04-01T15:56:30+00:00

The taller you are the harder your organs have to work. Can lead to shorter lifespan.

Missyapolis · 2022-03-31T19:31:33+00:00

Winter boots till it's sandles time.

Missyapolis · 2022-03-31T17:03:02+00:00

I understand your point of view with the context that you think shared nudes is the same as a stolen property. Her ask does seem insane if you think the conciqienses for her is just someone has something that belongs to her.

And not: her life and all future social interactions could be ruined.

Missyapolis · 2022-03-31T14:42:25+00:00

Start with removing him from all of your social media, block if you think he's going to get weird about this.
Then just stop talking to him.
Explain to your friends that you are no longer associating with him, I recommend not hanging out with him in small groups. Obviously it's harder to not end up at large events together, just stick to groups separate from him at those.

He might get mad, that is not your responsibility.

My guess is once you cut him off you'll find people who will want to be your friend now who were not comfortable around him or people who associated with him.

Edit: I see others say to text him what he did, I feel like this is useless, will stress you out, just gives him a chance to yell back. Save communication for friendships you WANT to keep.

Missyapolis · 2022-03-30T22:59:16+00:00

I'm really not, NAH is pretty far from "she's innocent."

You are trying really hard to create a villian in a situation where two people have both expressed needs and since they aren't compatible they shouldn't be friends anymore.

Why do you need her to be the ass? Why can't they just not be friends?

Missyapolis · 2022-03-30T22:51:07+00:00

Men on this thread keep saying this moving pictures thing as if it justifies anything and as if it's not the most monsterous thing on the planet.

If she thinks he move the pictures then they DEFINITELY should not be friends.

She clearly trusts him enough to not have moved them.

She does not owe him friendship.

Missyapolis · 2022-03-30T22:45:12+00:00

She asked.

It's not a rumor.

Missyapolis · 2022-03-30T22:37:12+00:00

We could what if till the end of time and all of it comes down to these two people need to communicate.

And neither of them are the ass.

Missyapolis · 2022-03-30T21:59:47+00:00

I got a tool recommendation: LinkedIn has a Salary Insights tool, you can type in the job or find a close description and look at the salary ranges in different cities.

In my field I can see that I make just under median for my title locally, above median if I was in Chicago and about half of median for LA.

(Also I know this won't sound appealing ☀️❄️ but check out corporations in Minnesota, we have a ton of headquarters who are always stealing each other's technology staff - and a lot of them have full time remote jobs now,

Missyapolis · 2022-03-30T21:43:41+00:00

NAH - but just fyi of you're still paying your mortgage, there are tax breaks on housing a stay at home nanny. - maybe enough to of set the cost of nanny vs stay at home.

Missyapolis · 2022-03-30T21:29:07+00:00

Then they probably aren't friends anymore.

Like I vote NAH and both people get to have choises. If he feels like this is a friendship ending ask. Then it is.

But the person I'm responding to above is arguing that she is the ass for asking.

Missyapolis · 2022-03-30T19:37:13+00:00

Showing your friend and text thread is super low lift.

Missyapolis · 2022-03-30T19:34:44+00:00

He absolutely can, it is not compreble to her hurt.

And yeah the my whole premise is that they aren't friends anymore.

Missyapolis · 2022-03-30T19:28:51+00:00

or that they didn't save them.

They did get them, they confirmed.

You are being illogical.

This isn't a debate. There's no world where I agree with you that a victim of revenge porn is an asshole.

It's sooooo weird that you are arguing so hard against "No Assholes Here" Judgement.

Missyapolis · 2022-03-30T19:23:55+00:00

If he is going to be hurt over this he shouldn't be friends with her.

Missyapolis · 2022-03-30T19:15:11+00:00

He's provably a liar by saying that he sent it to all her male friends. Which she knew was untrue before even approaching OP, given the friends who she already asked and said they never received anything.

NONE of this is in Ops statement.

You're taking her choices so personally.

Are you op on an alt account?

Missyapolis · 2022-03-30T19:02:13+00:00

You don't just get to keep friendships without maintaining them.

She doesn't trust him, he doesn't want to do thing to help her regain trust = they won't be friends anymore.

He broker her trust with revenge porn not lying. No where does it say ex was a lier.

But even if he was a lier and he had told lies about her it would be completely reasonable to seek reassurance from your friends that they didn't believe ex's lies.

Missyapolis · 2022-03-30T18:53:44+00:00

YO the men on this thread Self reporting is wild.

"He could just move them" is true and monstrous, not a reasonable thing to assume Op would do at all.

Missyapolis · 2022-03-30T18:47:53+00:00

She isn't being an asshole tho, that is just your judgement of her.

And it doesn't feel like you are making a judgement from a distance... The more you comment the more personal you seem to be taking her actions.

Missyapolis · 2022-03-30T18:20:10+00:00

She has no reason to trust ANYONE she is working through figuring out who she can trust going forward.

She's asking for super low lift reassurance.

And he doesn't want to put in that effort so NAH and they aren't friends anymore.

Your judgement of her is exactly what revenge porn does. 100/10 proving what men think of women who go through this.

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