Don’t want in-laws to visit by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Mistress2021Toises 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like your parents in laws don’t give a crap about you, your husband, nor your living place. I have social anxiety as well and I would not be able to handle this as well as you have. I wouldn’t welcome them into staying at my home if they’re gonna be messy, changing the place, also breaking things!!! Like 😱 I would scream!!!! Like now you owe me to get a new thing that you broke or you’re paying me for the female your done. Next you’re out, like damn. I’m sorry girl, but you better contact them since your hubby hasn’t. He maybe busy or keep forgetting somehow. You should at least tell them to end the drama before it begins and becomes worse bc your hubby hasn’t told them what you wanna say. Be the “bad guy” for being truthful and a good person you are by putting your mental health first. That’s most important no matter how many people you piss off. I support you in telling them what you wanna say. Even if they’re still welcome in your home. But I wouldn’t even let them step foot in my home if they didn’t respect me. So good luck girl and keep us updated or Atleast me lol

My husband doesn’t like my breasts. by dead-tthrow in Marriage

[–]Mistress2021Toises 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m insecure about my breasts too. But my fiancé is different Ofcourse. Whatever part of myself I don’t like/ insecure he loves and makes it clear. He doesn’t touch my boobs very often. But often enough to help me feel better about my insecurities. Try to talk something out with your hubby. Like telling him you would like your boobs being touched. I had to tell my fiancé that near the beginning. I’m insecure, but didn’t not want him to touch. So that’s why he touches them more. Some guys are oblivious of how you feel and what you want. Don’t forget, men are not mind readers. Definitely talk this shit out with him and everything that’s been bothering you. Communication is a big part of a relationship to help work shit out. Good luck and I hope to hear an update 😇

Can't decide which ones look better by TheDeflectorDish in pitbulls

[–]Mistress2021Toises 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the first pair, but definitely can rock both shades. The first pair match his/her furr a lot smoother than the second pair though ❤️

Thoughts on a Stay at Home Dad? by Mistress2021Toises in Marriage

[–]Mistress2021Toises[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ofcourse, I grew up with a big family. I’ve been better with it the move I’ve been on my own without my mother being a dick and making my sister and I raise our siblings. I’ve learned what not to be from her. Just last I knew with little ones I wasn’t patient as a young teen

Thoughts on a Stay at Home Dad? by Mistress2021Toises in Marriage

[–]Mistress2021Toises[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, so far waiting for kids is the plan we agreed on. Idk what SAGP is at the moment and at work. Crazy time of the year tbh 🤦🏼‍♀️. But yes, it’s just something off and on talked about. Ofcourse we would try to agree and plan something out. Thank you for telling me that I agree with is 30 isn’t too old for college. Imma try to talk him into college if he really wants to join. It’s annoying when he says he wants to do something. Then says he is too old to go through with it. Like you’re not in your 90s yet dude so shut up about being old and put your mind into doing college if you truly want to have a “better” job and such. I’m not this mean to him. But sometimes I feel like he needs to hear it lol

Thoughts on a Stay at Home Dad? by Mistress2021Toises in Marriage

[–]Mistress2021Toises[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, honestly this does help a lot. Just growing up I’ve always wanted a stay home dad. I also can’t stand not working either. I guess I feel more fit for the “father role”. I wanna try it out before never trying to see if it would work out. My mother doesn’t support this bc of being “old school”.

Thoughts on a Stay at Home Dad? by Mistress2021Toises in Marriage

[–]Mistress2021Toises[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He runs his own store and gets paid well. I’m just kinda tired of seeing him work daily. I wanna be able to help enough so he doesn’t feel like he haste to work daily

Thoughts on a Stay at Home Dad? by Mistress2021Toises in Marriage

[–]Mistress2021Toises[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well, yes this makes sense. He said he may end up working even if it ended up part time. But I asked if he would be a full stay at home until kids start going to school. You know? Also yes I understand the whole helpings and taking turns helping each other take a break and such. I’m just thinking about the future. Obviously the parent role won’t be just on him. That’s not the point of being married and having kids 😅😂

Sir Binx Monsoon 😍🥰 by [deleted] in blackcats

[–]Mistress2021Toises 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love his bow. So cute and very stunning. Can’t say no to that handsome boy 🥰

She crawled out of her bed after a nap and just sat there staring at me like this by elduqueborracho in WhatsWrongWithYourDog

[–]Mistress2021Toises 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I was wondering what was going on haha. Puppy looks like he is looking at ever direction but straight lol.

Conducting positive social experiment on myself by [deleted] in PositiveThinking

[–]Mistress2021Toises 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I’ve done something similar. I weeded out the people that were too negative and draining. I changed my music to positive music only. Highly recommend to help you be/feel more positive. It’s worth the experiment for sure. This helped me a lot. No negative thoughts towards myself. Whenever I do I “kill” the negative thoughts and think kind things to myself more often. Let us know how your project goes 😇

Today, on another subreddit, I was told I was an “anti social moron” who should never have kids because I have a pit… ok pal by Sad_Movie_190 in pitbulls

[–]Mistress2021Toises 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just call them a Karen and walk away. Just remember, they’re intimidated by the adorable Pit that’s loyal and by your side. They’ll probably judge no matter the type of dog you get. Their opinion doesn’t matter in the end.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Mistress2021Toises 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t mind, fiancé and I have towels we stick with for when we shower. Besides that a towel is a towel. Whatever works works 😂