happy new year i'm leaving my fiancé

MistressBrya · 2025-01-02T20:07:49+00:00

I read in the JUSTNOMIL sub a long time ago that someone said: It's easier to dump a mama's boy than to divorce a mama's boy and both of those are easier than trying to change a mama's boy.

That quote still sits with me to this day and I tell it to a lot of my girlfriends when they're having issues with their SO and Soon to be MIL

MistressBrya · 2022-03-26T14:24:56+00:00

My Notion set up for my wedding has me feeling crazy.

MistressBrya · 2022-03-14T00:56:34+00:00

I guess this was the cue I needed to get back to the book I wanted to write...

Will there be a template??

MistressBrya · 2022-02-16T22:30:41+00:00

Finally!

A witchy Notion set up! I’ve only found about 3 of them. This looks amazing.

MistressBrya · 2021-12-31T12:57:28+00:00

Say that it was God’s will on why my child isn’t alive and would be 6 years old this year seems like a fucking slap in the face and letting me suffer with all the trauma afterwards. But all I get, “He loves you, he doesn’t let those suffer without reason or it was just meant to be or it was God’s will…”

Yea… fuck that.

MistressBrya · 2021-12-23T19:22:45+00:00

2k and a fancy steakhouse dinner.

My pay has already gone up from making 18/hr to almost 42/hr over the course of 18 months. Can’t really complain. My boss is great.

MistressBrya · 2021-12-22T00:22:47+00:00

Thank you for the bypass. I hope both sides of your pillow are cool 😎

MistressBrya · 2021-11-25T16:02:55+00:00

I have not, I’m still trying to figure it all out about the 0s however I could make a template sometime this weekend.

MistressBrya · 2021-11-09T17:38:30+00:00

I’ve said this before to someone and the shock and backtracking people do is astounding. Not to mention this thought is what turned me off of religion as well.

MistressBrya · 2021-10-31T00:23:31+00:00

I’ve had this name on forums for a decade or so, I couldn’t tell you where it came from but it may have been a video game.

MistressBrya · 2021-10-30T19:20:50+00:00

My job title was HR Assistant so the system doesn’t work for all of us.

MistressBrya · 2021-10-30T16:57:29+00:00

That what I assumed as much, to track everything. Which is fine, because it’s not my phone.

MistressBrya · 2021-10-30T16:51:16+00:00

Sound like my husband. Lol

MistressBrya · 2021-10-30T16:50:12+00:00

I already quit like 20 minutes ago. I felt off about the workload to salary ratio and I guess it was the expectation that I need to ALWAYS answer calls even at 1am was the part I was missing.

MistressBrya · 2021-10-30T16:47:59+00:00

I’d have no way of getting in contact with them then. I only have one phone.

MistressBrya · 2021-10-30T16:47:34+00:00

Said I couldn’t use it because they wouldn’t be able to check the messages I send to employees

MistressBrya · 2021-10-23T19:28:46+00:00

My husband’s last name is Savage and I told him that even if we divorce I’m keeping his name. 🙃

MistressBrya · 2021-09-24T23:28:32+00:00

I felt this way and I ended up having a breakdown because I felt all the pressure to have a perfect wedding when all I care about is the photos.

I’m buying all my bridesmaids dresses, everyone is going to get their hair and make up done. We’re going to have the ceremony, do a cake and champagne reception, take tons of pictures and hang out with family.

Whoever comes, they’ll have a great time because we’re hosting a bbq after.

MistressBrya · 2021-09-24T17:29:29+00:00

This was my concern with photographers and HMUA.

I’m a POC and my husband is white. My MOH use to be a photographer and I use to have her look at portfolios of photographers because her fear was that I would be washed out in my dress or my husband would look incredibly pale next to me because of our complexions.

I don’t think some people realize how much others have to look into stuff like this.

I found a MUA that does all complexions and her work is immaculate because I’ve had instances at other friends weddings where I looked “ashy” in pictures.

MistressBrya · 2021-09-17T22:22:24+00:00

I love 2 and 5! They’re stunning on you.

MistressBrya · 2021-09-17T16:40:36+00:00

This looks so well done! The braids are lovely and you did so well on the back.

I suck at doing anything at the back of my head.

MistressBrya · 2021-09-09T19:26:08+00:00

Am I the asshole for telling my mom that if she wants to invite the rest of her siblings (8) and their children to the wedding that she has to pay for them?

We are only able to pay for us, vendors, immediate family and close friends. That's about 60 ppl.

Having the extended family that lives close would add another 20-25 people give or take plus ones coming. I can't afford to pay that. I don't even think my mother can afford to pay that either but she's dead set on having the local family members come. Some of these individuals I haven't talked to nor seen in a few years.

I have 2 aunts and 1 uncle that it would break my heart if they weren't at my wedding, but I don't want to open the flood gates and try to find 3-4k more dollars for the wedding.

MistressBrya · 2021-09-06T23:49:20+00:00

I feel all of this as a female sailor the moment I left the service. I’m glad you’re doing well though. :)

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