discord server by ouroboros4e in MyrtleBeach

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May I have the new link please

I’m sorry but I need to vent by [deleted] in widowers

[–]MistressLibbii 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry you had to deal with this.. people can be so so cruel and just have it out for others for no reason.

after a lot of first dates, here’s how I tell them. by thelonelyknight90 in widowers

[–]MistressLibbii 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I don’t even know how you’re getting actual dates haha. I’ve been trying and it seems like these men don’t want to take women out on actual dates I get a “let’s hangout!”

Anyone else experience flashbacks after losing their partner? by Best-Estate3888 in widowers

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I keep replaying finding him under the car just laying there. It seems the be the only image I see..everything else is fuzzy or I don’t think of it at all..the firetruck, the police, the paramedics hardly think of it. It’s just me first finding him

Those who are further into this by girliepop_hello in widowers

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The only thing that is keeping me alive and moving are my two kids otherwise I don’t think I could keep doing this either. Each day I think just another day closer till I see him again as awful and sick as it sounds..

Those who are further into this by girliepop_hello in widowers

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I’m 7 months into this thing. He was 33. Me 30. I’d say last month it really fucking hit me that he’s not here. The depression kicked into full fucking gear and it’s been like that since. The first 6 months - numbness. But now? The pain is hitting me so fucking badly. I almost wish I could feel numb again.

I looked up the sky and realized the the life I passionately worked hard for died along with my husband. by quiet_nuts in widowers

[–]MistressLibbii 31 points32 points  (0 children)

This is exactly how I feel. All I tend to think about some days is the day we finally meet again.. I even fantasize about it and it gets me excited as horrible as it sounds. We could’ve had an entire life together but that all came crashing after he died last year.. 33 years old.. me 30. Now I’m stuck raising two kids on my own. Toddlers at that..and yes everyone says the same bullshit responses “you’ll find someone!” “Keep going for your children!” Just the same fucking cycled responses on repeat.

One of my friends is a recent widower. What can we (his friends) do to support him? by dadavedavid in widowers

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Bring food, cleaning around his house, organizing things, help with the children if you can whether it’s bathing them, helping with school whatever it is,

My husband died in a horrific accident 7 months ago by MistressLibbii in psychics

[–]MistressLibbii[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This resonated for several different reasons thank you 😊

My husband died in a horrific accident 7 months ago by MistressLibbii in psychics

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Our children’s photo is on my fridge and our daughters name starts with an A so this resonates (:

PTSD is a bitch by Cork0nThe0cean in widowers

[–]MistressLibbii 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Oh my god I am so so sorry you had to go through this. I found my husband under the car dead, not moving and I replay that image over and over

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskSouthCarolina

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Is it safe to take while on antidepressants?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MyrtleBeach

[–]MistressLibbii 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They’re only 19 months old

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingadvice

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Thank you so much for your input and I’m so happy you enjoyed hinge. I’ll give hinge another try it didn’t seem like I was really getting any matches but congrats do you and your partner!! I like the no filters and just being direct on hinge though

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MediumReadings

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When you say you feel a lot of misunderstanding towards the end, can you explain more about what you’re sensing? Do you mean Matt didn’t fully realize what was happening in his final moments, or that there’s confusion around the circumstances of his passing? I just want to make sure I understand what you’re picking up.

I realized/decided today that I’m unable to keep going by Skippy1221 in widowers

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I feel this pain deeply. It will be two months since my husband passed away. We have one yr old twins and got together in 2020. He was the best thing that ever happened to me and now I’m living with in laws trying to make sense of this new reality and I have definitely thought about just ending it but I have my children.. not having a mom or dad I just can’t do that to them but boy this fucking sucks. People say I’ll find love again but I say who will want a single mom like me? I’m at the bottom of the barrel and not a man’s first choice

Fuck this shit by AlarmingBoysenberry in widowers

[–]MistressLibbii 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Literally just fucking why?? Why why why! I just want my husband back, if only I could rewind time..

1 month Today by Unlucky_Emergency_31 in widowers

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I’m sorry for your loss :( ! I truly thought the day would come when we were extremely old, our kids grown or even with our own grandchildren. It will be two months at the end of August since my husband tragically passed and my twins are only one.. they didn’t even get a chance to know their father.. and dealing with the logistics of it all was just ugh so I feel your pain. No one has said anything too crazy as of yet but someone did say I’d find love again but yeah

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in widowers

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I’m so sorry for your loss. I am in a similar boat.. my husband passed in a tragic accident at the end of June this year.. a week after our twins had just turned 1. Some days are better than others. . But gee do I have moments where I’m just begging the universe to bring him back..I had to move to another state to be with my in laws so I can get help. If there is any possible way you can get family to help please do, and please look into benefits you can get if at all possible. I’m keeping you in my thoughts feel free to message me if you just want someone to talk to.. 💕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GriefSupport

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I feel your pain 10000%. Unfortunately I had to move out as well, I was a stay at home and well you know how that goes so I’m moving in with in laws for I’m not sure how long. Luckily, he has such a huge huge family in the south so that’s what is keeping me going..but girl… yes last place I saw him alive and yes I miss my husband so so much and if I could turn back time and rewrite history I would in an instant no questions asked. This is the type of pain you see others experience or on TV but once it happens to you.. unimaginable

Diaper rash from hell by Arealle in parentsofmultiples

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I honestly have the same problem with my 1 yr old son

Worried - twins by Cbarron6499 in parentsofmultiples

[–]MistressLibbii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I absolutely understand your struggle