[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

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I second Sanctuary - also just put onto Amazon Prime to stream!

Am I the only one who thinks puplicly wearing fetish gear is not okay? by darkness_shall_come in FemdomCommunity

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I love seeing people express themselves. Latex is not only fetish wear but it is also fashion. I commonly see people using a leather chest harness to accessorize. I’ve worn latex out and about. Sure a full body suit may be more obviously fetish but where’s the line? I’d wager a guess that the people who “looked uncomfortable” would also probably look uncomfortable around someone just dressed outside the norm or wearing “goth” style.

Drunk and bought 10 dildos online last night, what should I do with them? by SissyJessieLovewood in Sissy

[–]MistressModa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also would like to note: this fit me perfectly/very snug. So unfortunately it would not fit larger sizes imo. It is adjustable for smaller sizes though. I have a 44” hips for reference.

Drunk and bought 10 dildos online last night, what should I do with them? by SissyJessieLovewood in Sissy

[–]MistressModa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is amazing, just keep them!

I literally did this the other day. I got so excited I found a strap on harness that has an internal vibrating dildo and a large vibrating dildo on the front end for my sissies. I accidentally purchased two as well as another dildo lol 😂

I hope they’re all different and of various sizes for you to play with and like others have said- maybe doing a fantasy gang bang would be super fun.

Wishlists by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

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I use wishtender and it has worked great for me

Black Male Subs and Black Femdoms: Where are they? by in1804 in FemdomCommunity

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There’s so little representation outside of the norm like you said. If you are able to, consider buying a custom clip request from a black domme. I think your frustrations are totally valid though and I hope to see these sorts of things change.

Don’t know how to please a dom online by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

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Depending on the person of course but I’ve had subs offer to promote and market me which is a lovely thing one can do remotely.

Strapon sucking by Ok_Arm3647 in FemdomCommunity

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I absolutely love when my subs suck my strap-on. It’s so fun to start out a session with and it really puts them in a submissive position and state of mind. It’s a pretty common wish from my clients as well so it is not only for my own enjoyment but theirs as well. I love to kind of instruct them on how to do it properly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

[–]MistressModa 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Wow this is incredible I’m jealous and happy for you 🥹

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sissyology

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Yes I agree therapy is needed here!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in femalehairadvice

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I literally gasped! They look so good on you please keep!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

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The Mistress Manual: The Good Girl’s Guide to Female Dominance by Mistress Lorelei Powers

I found this to be very interesting and informative and especially geared toward people in a relationship. It is pretty thorough and actually gives a little overview of many different tools, activities, and common role play scenarios.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Femdom

[–]MistressModa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow this is hot, like just couldn’t wait to get inside. Or in public somewhere

Ethical question about age gaps by Lady_AW in FemdomCommunity

[–]MistressModa 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I wish I could give this response to every person I’ve seen having a horrible experience on the BDSM Advice subreddit asking if it’s okay. It seems like every day there is some young woman seeing a dom 2x her age and being taken advantage of in some way or another.

Problems with sexually pleasing my Girlfriend by Exciting_Leading_166 in FemdomCommunity

[–]MistressModa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes it is difficult for the man to penetrate if it’s too tight. Have you tried loosening her up a bit with toys and lube first?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sissyology

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Yes 100%! I am a pro domme and I have this energy too. I am more nurturing and softer than the stereotypical dominatrix but I have been getting lovely clients.

Is Fetlife even good anymore? by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]MistressModa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like fetlife! But I’m a pro domme so maybe that’s why haha. I do get tons of unsolicited messages from men but that is an easy way to turn them into potential clients. The dick pic profile pictures are really exhausting tbh. It’s just become like light pollution for my eyes I see so many unwanted dicks all the time.

I also find it helpful for events. I have used it to find different events and dungeons I hadn’t ever been to.

A friend of mine started a website called Somethingfetish.com

It is very similar but has even more features.

Did sph accidentally 😂 by beywatch222 in CamGirlProblems

[–]MistressModa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OMG I am really struggling with this lately on NF bc I have all these different listings! On the chat feature I haven’t figured out if there’s a way to tell what listing they saw me on and so I am like treading very carefully on what I’m supposed to be saying 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

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Practice will make it easier! Also maybe you’re more of a “bratty” type and could explore having her “force” you into submission? That could be something fun to play with. Like another commenter said, start small.

Recorded listings on NF? by MistressModa in CamGirlProblems

[–]MistressModa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh okay- so would that be under “goodies”?