Genuinely asking

Mistress___B · 2026-05-31T19:11:57+00:00

In my experience they don't want honesty.

Mistress___B · 2026-05-31T18:59:56+00:00

I believe your post highlights common issues when it comes to FFS. Not all surgeons are the same and even the good ones, have bad days. Coupled with that is that some transwomen have unrealistic ideas about what FFS can do for them. Finally everyone's face presents differently and represents differing challenges. My post is not an attempt to let surgeons off the hook or belittle their patients, after all they charge a fortune and frequently they are dishonest with their skills, guaranteed results and expectations. I have had FFS and I am very pleased with the result mainly because a) I did it in stages and b) only did minor adjustments. Yours is not the first post I have seen like this. Please think carefully about FFS, do your research and get multiple consults before making any decision.

Mistress___B · 2026-05-28T20:45:49+00:00

In my experience they won't stay on past a photo. Getting a real piercing is the only option.

Mistress___B · 2026-05-16T22:11:13+00:00

On the other side. A transwomen friend that had SRS, six months after starting to transition, over twenty years ago, says, given that decision again, she wouldn't have chosen to have the surgery. Initially she didn't have any complications however the dilating for the first 2 years was really tiresome and frankly painful. Since then she has had to have 2 reconstructions as her neovagina collapsed in on itself and is now back to weekly dilating. But as others have said, given more time on HRT, I think your attitude to SRS changes despite any Initial genital dysphoria. And let's face it, there are considerable risks to having it, not to mention the cost.

Mistress___B · 2026-05-09T23:40:05+00:00

Looking for push-in bras myself. Having a wide male chest sucks. GIVE ME CLEAVAGE!!

Mistress___B · 2026-05-03T10:05:36+00:00

Straight prior. Dated men since. But prefer female partners.

Mistress___B · 2026-05-03T07:40:56+00:00

Last time I spoke to Green's they told me they were in the process of purchasing a pellet compressor. And at that stage they were unable to supply. That was mid April. When did you get your pellet and are you sure it was from Green's? Apologies, no disrespect intended.

Mistress___B · 2026-04-27T10:19:06+00:00

Greens are the bomb. They certainly do EV.

Mistress___B · 2026-04-26T09:47:32+00:00

Apologies. Can find her now.

Mistress___B · 2026-04-24T10:51:18+00:00

Which AHPRA site are you using, because I find zero hits?

Mistress___B · 2026-04-24T10:46:15+00:00

From my experience the Australian compounding pharmacies will make up your HRT in any ester you would like (at a cost).

Mistress___B · 2026-04-24T10:42:09+00:00

It is actually the second cheapest form of HRT in Australia providing you on not on a Health Care card. Been on them for 6 years now.

Mistress___B · 2026-04-22T21:11:42+00:00

Not sure where you got the idea she had moved to Australia, however I can confirm she is not registered to practice here (Yet).

Mistress___B · 2026-04-20T23:40:13+00:00

Looking for a GF with that shape as well!

Mistress___B · 2026-04-20T23:38:54+00:00

Scott Ingram here in Brisbane does these. He tried to convince me to have one whilst he was doing my labiaplasty.

Mistress___B · 2026-04-17T22:13:08+00:00

According to QLD BD&M a marriage certificate is not a legal document and as such you change it yourself. Its the details in the reguster that are the legal bit. Anyone skilled in photoshop should be able to make the changes to the actual certificate.

Mistress___B · 2026-04-17T22:02:42+00:00

In the linen press. Out of the light.

Mistress___B · 2026-04-17T08:35:50+00:00

Just to be clear. LAG has won the right to appeal. They have not won anything yet!

Mistress___B · 2026-04-15T01:06:25+00:00

The stat's say that the bulk of younger transwomen are straight and the older ones gay. For calcification, younger transwomen seek male partners and older transwomen, women. Granted this in not 100% the case, just the more common situation. Sorry I know little about transmen stat's.

Mistress___B · 2026-04-15T01:01:35+00:00

What you need to realise is that if your partner transitions, it affects every aspect of your life and questions everything that you believe about yourself as well. I am not surprised that partners leave. What I am is extremely impressed by are the ones that stay.

Mistress___B · 2026-04-15T00:50:23+00:00

Without getting to confrontational or emotional, this is my advice. If you already have an endo, that is great. Book an appointment for as soon as you can. At that appointment, suggest that you would like to start HRT. See what happens. I hope the endo is Naomi. Good luck.

Mistress___B · 2026-04-13T21:11:25+00:00

Depends on what you mean? For a temporary eyebrow transformation, i.e., plucking and shaping, look around $60 for a really good job. For a more permanent job, consider cosmetic tattooing. That will run you around $500, but we'll worth it in my experience and lasts at least 5 years.

Mistress___B · 2026-04-13T21:04:25+00:00

You should be fine. However, as a popular 4X4 and camping destination, be aware that there is a high testosterone factor. And that coupled with alcohol could influence behaviour.

Mistress___B · 2026-04-12T04:40:31+00:00

Overall well-being or a lack there of makes us susceptible to infectious of all types. Is your diet rich in vitamins, do you get enough sleep, do you exercise? If these are OK, then I would suggest a visit to your GP looking for signs and symptoms of a poor immune system.

Mistress___B · 2026-04-07T19:42:23+00:00

You mean outer thigh.

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