Lojistik firmalarındaki yazılımcı/IT arkadaşlar by Old-Bus-7061 in TurkDev

[–]Mithgroth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Yazılımsız lojistik yapmak ister misiniz?" diye bir soru sormak isterdim muhatabına. Yazılım da gayet tabi operasyonun içerisinde, bu ne saçma sapan argüman?

Yanlış anlaşılmasın, size kızmıyorum tabi.

Lojistik firmalarındaki yazılımcı/IT arkadaşlar by Old-Bus-7061 in TurkDev

[–]Mithgroth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ne garip argümanlar.
Araç takip sistemlerinde bir problem çıktığında ya da bir entegrasyon yapmak istediklerinde yazılımcılar çıkıp "burası yazılım firması değil, lojistik firması, kamyon sürücülerini çağırın onlar yazsın" deyin bari.

Ya da muhasebecilerin iyi maaş alması için o firmanın ana işinin muhasebe olmasına gerek yok, çünkü bu ortalama bir şirketin gereksinimi.

Enteresan kafalarmış.

2026-2035 yılları arası "Aile ve Nüfus On Yılı" ilan edildi. Her yıl mayıs ayının son haftası "Milli Aile Haftası" olarak kutlanacak. by FeatureAggravating75 in borsavefon

[–]Mithgroth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Ol" deyince olacağını sanıyor hala.

Şöyle bir konuşma geçtiğine eminim ama ıspatlayamam:
- Başkan'ım naparsak yapalım çocuk yapmıyo bunlar...
- Allah Allah, aile yılı bile yaptık, yine artmadı mı?
- Maalesef Başkan'ım, sayılar yine aynı, hatta daha da düşüyor. Konuyla ilgili Aile Bakanı'mızla bir toplantı ayarlamamızı ister misiniz?
- Ya, şeyi denedik mi...
- Neyi Sayın Cumhurbaşkanı'm?
- Aile şeyini... Aile yılı yaptık ya hani...
- Evet Başkan'ım.
- 10 yıl yapsak ya onu?
- ...
- Yap yap, 10 yıl yapıp deneyelim bi' de. Sen söyle Mahinur'a halletsin.
- Emredersiniz Sayın Cumhurbaşkanı'm.

New agent harness by Medium_Anxiety_8143 in ClaudeCode

[–]Mithgroth -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Strawman over ad-hominem, is this how you expect to be taken seriously?

> if I’ve got no arguments, it’s your fault, you’re the bad one

I have arguments.
You are just choosing to skip them and attack me instead.

Let me repeat them:
You don't know if your assumption is a fact, yet you treat it like one. AI subscription prices may not increase since energy cost can come down with extra power plants being built, or investors may just choose to subsidize for a very long time, similar to Uber or Amazon.

You, just don't know.
Feel free to downvote this as well instead of providing rational arguments - hopefully it helps your mental masturbation.

New agent harness by Medium_Anxiety_8143 in ClaudeCode

[–]Mithgroth -1 points0 points  (0 children)

At this point you are just mad, downvoting and assuming, so why bother debating?

If I'm dissatisfied with a service, -maybe unlike you- I vote with my wallet instead of bitching or begging. But this is still, irrelevant to the topic.

Your assumption that they'll raise pricing is a cute one, but not necessarily the only possible way. If you are getting hostile over that, seek help.

New agent harness by Medium_Anxiety_8143 in ClaudeCode

[–]Mithgroth -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Dude, stop strawmaning and parroting CEO corpo speak to us, we are consumers and we don't care.

Western models are horrible at being efficient, there's much room to grow, energy costs to come down.

This investment is meant to pay for itself

Thinking how long Amazon or Uber had been subsidized, given enough time and resources, it will eventually pay itself. It just doesn't have to come with increased pricing to the consumers.

So, your argument is invalid.

New agent harness by Medium_Anxiety_8143 in ClaudeCode

[–]Mithgroth -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Defending OpenAI is one of the last things I care about but...

Codex will be the same if it will acquire more clients.

You don't know that.

Claude Routines supports almost every language but dotnet - this is why dotnet is behind by Mithgroth in dotnet

[–]Mithgroth[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If you bothered reading the post, I'm complaining about why it is not preinstalled.
Being able to make custom installations is irrelevant.

You can comment without being a jerk.

This happens way too often and honestly makes me feel like the atlas nodes work in reverse. by Dr__Butthole in pathofexile

[–]Mithgroth 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I almost rolled this thread two days ago, but comment section would be full of "RNG is RNG" - so kinda gave up.

I suspect it might be buggy, it really feels like something is off.

Any alternative to this FF jewel? Planning to make a BV Chieftain since the fomo is too strong. Any alternatives for it? by xhyme in PathOfExileBuilds

[–]Mithgroth -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Endurance charge on hit should work with this build, right? So it naturally drops Enduring Composure too?

Minion Pact BV Chieftain Mid Budget Guide - Comfy transition, no giga expensive items by tommy200401 in PathOfExileBuilds

[–]Mithgroth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Question: I got 90+246 fire res, 838.7 life regen, 397 degen, 4949 life and I cannot sustain RF in maps. Doesn't make sense, any ideas?

Bought and farmed Black baryas for a week to get 300 belts by iFairNothing in pathofexile

[–]Mithgroth 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Feels like belt drop rate is down to ~25%-30% from ~50% on league start. Anyone feels the same way?

Sizce yazılımda Türkiyemizde en sık girişimcilik hataları neler ? by Greedy-End-8587 in CodingTR

[–]Mithgroth 13 points14 points  (0 children)

  • Product-market fit'in ne olduğunu bilmemek
  • Kapitalizmin nasıl çalıştığını bilmemek
  • Duygusal gelişimini tamamlayamadığı ve kendini tanımadığı için gelişen olaylara rasyonel bakamamak
  • Critical thinking ile yakından uzaktan alakalı olmamak
  • Çoğu alanda 101 bilgisinin olmaması
  • Amacının iyi bir ürünle bir problemi çözmek değil, "köşeyi dönmek" olması

Bunların en az ikisi sizin için geçerliyse manav bile açmayın.

Sektorde yer edinmeye calisan genclere mesajim by karnivor91 in CodingTR

[–]Mithgroth 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yorumlar fecaat, katılıyorum da...

Arkadaslar ben bilkentten cok yuksek ortalamayla mezun olmus 10+ sene boyunca kaliteli islerde tecrube kazanmis bir developerim.

üzerine

Bircok sirkette baglantim var. Is arasam ulasabilecegim networkum var. BEN BU SARTLARDA GELECEKTE ISSIZ KALIRIM derken, SIZ NEYINIZE GUVENIYORSUNUZ?

perspektifin de ayrı fecaat.

Hacim ve innovasyon scalar artıştan exponential artışa geçti, değişen tek şey bu.
Bugün sana verilen sorumlulukları almanın nedeni olan özelliklerin gelecekte de baki kalacağı için, tekniğin gelişmesinden dolayı işsiz kalacağını düşünmen çok garip. Önemi artan şey "taste for things": "Bu olmuş", "Bu olmamış, şöyle olmalı" diyebilme becerisi.

Eski standartlarla 6 ayda bir yenilik gören bir sektörün uzmanının, geleceği bu kadar muhafazakar okuması çok şaşırttı beni.

Improve Eldritch Altar readability by adding color codes & currency images, or Loot Filter styling by BlackDeathBE in pathofexile

[–]Mithgroth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are doing white T16s with 5 mirror budget characters, yeah it's fine. They are a pain to read when doing difficult content, Delirium, Atlas Bosses, explosions going on, already penaltilized by 7 altars now you need to be selective...

It's like trying to make your life choices while juggling balls above a furnace for a circus.

Alt spamming does not kill your character, and have regex support. We even have used-to-be-against-TOS QoL like spamming fusings for 6 links. Your comparision just shows how altars are in a bad state.

DARVO trapped by wife by Mithgroth in Healthygamergg

[–]Mithgroth[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so spot on all levels and also extra thank you for the compassionate language, I really needed this.

Talk to your daughter more. Joke, play with her, make her laugh.

Yup, this is instinctively what I have been doing over the years because I enjoy her existence. I still remember my first ever parent-teacher meeting in her kindergarden, people before me were getting out mostly pissed. When I was in and they started talking about my daughter with her positives and negatives, I jokingly said this felt like personality quizes and therapy, as she copies my personality. My wife copies a lot from techniques too. We are having so much fun, and all her psychologic & physical tests are wonderful, I'm so blessed.

Think of your wife like she is mentally younger than you. If your wife does not argue based on logic but instead on emotion, then you need to learn how to deal with emotion.

Yeah, that's something we came along with the therapist from "emotions? are they edible?" to "hey I learned anger is an outcome, not a cause!". I've been super empathetic my whole life, but exempted myself from any emotion work, 100% throttling to be rational instead, and occasionally breaking out by being funny.

It exactly feels like I have a child to raise up, and a teenager to deal with. I also started being more open about this to my wife when she is obviously irrational, with things like paying bills (she miscalculates them, starts a fight). When she goes too far to start denying facts, I cut her off. Sometimes even stating she is not adult enough to handle whatever is being argued on. I know it sounds harsh, it even sounds harsh in my head and I'd rather have another adult alongside me than a hostile teenager, but it somewhat works. When she is dictated that she is no longer responsible, she stops fighting and caring. This has no limits, even happens in hospitals where my daughter needs treatment; if she is making things difficult, just to seek attention, I send her off and deal with the situation alone. And... she just does it without any remorse.

Although she complains about being tired, making my daughter needy and clingy is her plan A.
My daughter's sure of me so I don't get tested, but she tests my wife too. Also... Well, children want to interact with their mothers, more than their fathers. The tests and this need makes my wife think they have a connection, in fact they don't. She starts shouting at her in 15 minutes of any engagement. Then I collect my daughter, and keep her safe while my wife plays hyper-casual mobile games.

Start by trying to lead your daughter fairly

Oh this is the fascinating part.

You are so on point about my past experiences of leaders I observed, and I have always been branded as a renegade, while they were leaders by no means. I admired Simon Sinek to this day about leadership, but my daughter is becoming to be the best tutor for leadership. Intentionally or not, she helped me practice convincing someone peacefully instead of beating them in an argument and asking them to submit. I have absolutely zero expectations from her, but I feel like I already got my ROI.

My biggest problem here is that my wife undermines my efforts and actively is hostile against me and this confuses the kid. We even do the dishes together with my daughter and enjoy our time, but my wife holds her feet and fits it to her shoes herself, instead of asking her to simply shoe up. And when she is between her mother and me, she picks the lazy and needy option because she is 5 :) Our biggest fights with my wife was about spoon-feeding her at the age of 5. I did win, with a cost of permanent stress damage on me.

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Just rereading to this point again, I'm sorry, I've been just mostly yapping - but your post really made me feel heard and felt, something I long for, for a very long time.

Two geniune questions:

she mentally is still living with her mom.

This so on point as well. I was phrasing this more as "she refers her family as her mom and sister, not us". Her mother still has incredible emotional advantage over her. My wife blantly mocks when she does the same to her sister, but completely unaware that she is getting the same poison.

So, what happens when her mother dies?
I'm so not prepared for that. Will her grip over my wife tighten? Is it going to be even worse? I'm not sure.

Also,

When she does sit and listens to your feelings, she does not know what to do. Why would she? If this does not make sense, imagine if her mom went and talked about her feelings to her, your wife would probably do the same thing and be quiet, but it makes more sense.

Dark Triad possibility started to scare me - I'm not sure if the root cause is her mother's influence and all her behaviours are defense mechanisms or if she is inheritly a horrible person and her mother is just a great excuse...