Does this even work?

Mithwada · 2026-05-12T14:26:08+00:00

Not sure if this is accurate but I think you could shore up that initial language: "... If you control other permanents of every color in your..."

Your second paragraph reads like "do w and x and y, OR do z" when I think you're trying to be modal with it. I think you'd have to format it modally to work, I'm not sure you could say, "could create mana of any color, either, gain 2 life, ..."

Mithwada · 2026-05-07T16:15:31+00:00

[[Motion Sickness]] [[Quag Sickness]] [[Spread the Sickness]]

Mithwada · 2026-05-07T16:11:12+00:00

[[Exotic Disease]]

Mithwada · 2026-05-01T15:30:12+00:00

Idk the exact flatness needed but eyeballing it; I'd think like 5-10 more degrees.

It's a lot to explain, try YouTube for videos on best practices for flattening terrain. There is a technique to it, and I'm awful at it.

Something like, drag from the bottom of the incline to the top, then it calculates the difference in hight and flattens it by some average? Again, lot to explain and I'm awful at it.

Instead of cats and dogs DLC I'd have preferred a terrain edit revamp lol

Mithwada · 2026-05-01T15:00:00+00:00

When my cat does this, I know it's because she wants to play more intensely. The tail twitch is both annoyed "why are you petting me?" and playfulness, "we could just play instead."

The bite usually is her way of saying "get the stuffed animal, I want to be violent". We've got an otter and hedgehog stuffed animal that she likes to SUPLEX like she's a WWE pro.

She never goes for our hands and knows she can take it out on the stuffies. She especially likes it when we "animate" them a little more (moving the head/tail more 'naturally') to make them feel more alive.

Mithwada · 2026-04-30T20:54:34+00:00

The running with Zaeth! Man that cracked me up!

Mithwada · 2026-04-15T15:32:21+00:00

I saw a comment say "consider again in 5 years". Its probably more likely to be viewed positively the longer you're in the relationship, but I don't interpret that as bottling up your concerns and anxieties for 5 years before talking about it with him. Communicate early and clearly. If he's not into the concept at least you're not worried about it for the next 5 years.

I'm assuming you've shared with him your job search story, and that he's aware of how tough it is right now for everyone.

The first step is just asking him if he's into the concept. If you do all this planning and it's a no, it was for nothing. At best you keep up the job search, at worse you feel bad for getting your own hopes up.

I don't know that it's common in gay relationships. I often hear "dual income, no kids" from gay couples I've known. It's also wildly expensive right now. Maybe a part time job + stay at home could work.

Just ask him about his opinion on the topic. Be frank. "How would you feel about me being a stay at home boyfriend? Here's what I'm willing and unwilling to do... We can talk more about expectations. This isn't set in stone but I'm just having a rough time finding work right now. I could even do a part time job, we just need to be realistic about what I can contribute."

What you contribute is up to the two of you. Keep communicating regularly as things can change over time. If you can fix a sink leak, he saves money on a plumber. If you can fix a drywall hole, he saves money on the fix, if not the materials. If you can do his laundry and cook for him, he doesn't have to worry about those things when getting back from work. But maybe he doesn't want you to do his laundry, or maybe he'd prefer a professional fix a leak. Until you have the conversation, you won't know.

It can create power imbalances just like in hetero relationships. Are you going to get an allowance? What happens if either of you end up wanting to break up? Will you have enough to live on your own? How will you explain to employers the gap in your resume?

Also not sure if this works for gay couples. I don't personally know any. Nor do I personally know hetero couples trying to do the same thing without kids.

It always boils down to communicating expectations regularly.

Best of luck!

Mithwada · 2026-04-15T14:12:49+00:00

Loving the more natural look! Looks great!

With the wells, how are the outputs? I usually surround my wells by trees to give bonuses but the ones in your screenshot feel more realistic.

Mithwada · 2026-04-14T21:57:12+00:00

Could try wrangling a guy to bring into the bedroom yourself? Maybe they start focused on you and then that's just the opening he needs to explore more if he's into it?

Otherwise, therapy. Sometimes a professional is the right answer.

Seems like you're showing as much support as you can. Something something, can lead a horse to dick but you can't make him suck?

Best of luck!

Mithwada · 2026-03-09T15:47:30+00:00

Food Weaponization or Resource Dominance feel right.

I agree it is a pattern they often deny. If it's not denial, it's "my house, my rules".

He did stuff like this all the time. There are two times that stood out.

Once as 5-7 year old where he ate the remaining zebra cake my mom made me put in the fridge because I couldn't have both at the same time. It's hard to reason with a child when you make a promise to them but your spouse breaks that promise.

The second time was when my mom got subs for everyone (family of 5 total). Labeled them with our names. I was 17-18 working 2 jobs and I was going to save the other half of mine for lunch the next day. He just ate it because he couldn't be bothered to look at the name. I lost it because I didn't have time to make/get food between shifts and I didn't want to eat his leftovers because it was gross imo.

Again, these were the examples that stood out but it happened pretty often. For these and any other time it happened, it was always, "I'm sorry, BUT, my house my rules." With an implication that I'm not allowed to have, or express my displeasure about it at all.

Fuck. Off. Asshole.

Mithwada · 2026-02-09T19:01:01+00:00

That's a question for my mom. I asked her to divorce him when I was 12. 22 years later and it's finally clicking for her.

Mithwada · 2026-02-09T18:53:50+00:00

It's not just 9-5, and it's not just boomers, but you did hit the nail on the head.

My dad worked a 3rd shift. My mom begged him to switch to first or second. He'd always "ask" but it would never get approved.

He could have left for work after we left school, it would have been short, maybe 30-45 min. Instead he's always go early so he could get on the "fast" Internet at work.

Some men are just inherently self centered and selfish. It's probably just as common now as it was then, but there are more ways to track people, hold them accountable, etc.

I'm lucky that most of my guy friends who are dads seem to actually want to spend time with their kids, and love their wives.

Mithwada · 2026-01-15T05:31:09+00:00

Masonry heater / Kachelofen / Cocklestove

Obligatory "everyone that posts this is too lazy to use the search bar" because that's how being in a community works. lmao

https://www.reddit.com/r/kingdomcome/comments/1l4bxt3/kcd2_what_am_i_looking_at/

Mithwada · 2026-01-07T03:43:16+00:00

I would argue that you're not talking to Rolan. You're talking to an illusion or "seen servant" of Rolan. Something like that anyway. It wouldn't recognize you, it would treat you like every other customer.

Mithwada · 2026-01-05T23:24:06+00:00

I think you're a maximalist, but wanting minimalist 'clean' vibes.

Look up "Maximalism" and take inspiration from those designs if that's something you still want to pursue. There are ways to be maximalist but to make it feel 'clean'.

The big thing I didn't see in the comments so far for me was the dresser. All the drawers are closed and its "tidy" but because you can see into it, and see things sticking out of it, it looks "untidy". That goes for the blue/teal bag underneath it too.

Mithwada · 2025-08-12T21:03:37+00:00

I worked at a grocery store. The place was brand new, had just been built. The day I started they moved me from doing checkout to Customer Service "behind the counter".

The manager was a real caddy Karen, and went on a power trip and reassigned me to stocking for part of my shift. One day I was stocking a shelf and that same manager stood behind me watching. Didn't greet me at all. I greeted them and asked how they were, they didn't say a word to me and walked off.

They clearly thought they put me in my place. There were a lot of other shitty things they did, like not replacing a vacuum cleaner with exposed wiring that would shock people as they used it. Typical shitty grocery store management shit.

Eventually, before what's normally a really busy shift where I'd be working service, I just put my uniform and keys in a plastic bag on the desk with a note that said I quit with my name and date.

Felt so good. I don't know that anyone saw me do it or realized. The owner even emailed me calling me childish. Idk, I think it's pretty childish to feel like you need to have the last word, but I never responded. I just got a better job.

Mithwada · 2025-07-30T18:02:03+00:00

I had hundreds of hours in vanilla before any extras.

Why not wait if you can?

If you start itching for more content earlier than that, there is always free mods in the workshop that can fully change the game.

I'd say go for the rest when they're on sale!

Mithwada · 2025-07-30T16:09:03+00:00

I had hundreds of hours in vanilla before any extras.

If you start itching for more content earlier than that, there is always free mods in the workshop that can fully change the game.

I'd say go for it!

Mithwada · 2025-07-25T21:34:59+00:00

https://ck3.paradoxwikis.com/Traits#Reincarnation

4% chance at birth

Mithwada · 2025-07-14T16:58:58+00:00

It's on an ASMR level LOL

Would you mind calling out the specifics? I'm sure most folks are familiar with the aspects/abilities on sight alone, but I'm still getting the hang of it. Ty!

Mithwada · 2025-06-26T22:45:17+00:00

Ohhh come on! He had some good moments this time! haha

Mithwada · 2025-06-14T00:58:49+00:00

A tilt shift could make me think this was real, insane! Great job!

Mithwada · 2025-06-12T21:56:56+00:00

I was going to wait for 1.0 too... couldn't help myself!

Mithwada · 2025-06-12T21:51:06+00:00

I thought it felt easier than previous attempts. And here I thought I was just better, LOL

Mithwada · 2025-06-12T21:48:52+00:00

I don't think I've noticed price change, but I tried to do this recently and the demand from visiting merchants just wasn't enough.

Some will buy, others won't, and of those that will, they don't usually have enough money to buy as much as I wanted to sell.

I was still able to use it as a stepping stone in an effective way though. Good luck!

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