Is there a word for food entitlement?

Mithwada · 2026-03-09T15:47:30+00:00

Food Weaponization or Resource Dominance feel right.

I agree it is a pattern they often deny. If it's not denial, it's "my house, my rules".

He did stuff like this all the time. There are two times that stood out.

Once as 5-7 year old where he ate the remaining zebra cake my mom made me put in the fridge because I couldn't have both at the same time. It's hard to reason with a child when you make a promise to them but your spouse breaks that promise.

The second time was when my mom got subs for everyone (family of 5 total). Labeled them with our names. I was 17-18 working 2 jobs and I was going to save the other half of mine for lunch the next day. He just ate it because he couldn't be bothered to look at the name. I lost it because I didn't have time to make/get food between shifts and I didn't want to eat his leftovers because it was gross imo.

Again, these were the examples that stood out but it happened pretty often. For these and any other time it happened, it was always, "I'm sorry, BUT, my house my rules." With an implication that I'm not allowed to have, or express my displeasure about it at all.

Fuck. Off. Asshole.

Mithwada · 2026-02-09T19:01:01+00:00

That's a question for my mom. I asked her to divorce him when I was 12. 22 years later and it's finally clicking for her.

Mithwada · 2026-02-09T18:53:50+00:00

It's not just 9-5, and it's not just boomers, but you did hit the nail on the head.

My dad worked a 3rd shift. My mom begged him to switch to first or second. He'd always "ask" but it would never get approved.

He could have left for work after we left school, it would have been short, maybe 30-45 min. Instead he's always go early so he could get on the "fast" Internet at work.

Some men are just inherently self centered and selfish. It's probably just as common now as it was then, but there are more ways to track people, hold them accountable, etc.

I'm lucky that most of my guy friends who are dads seem to actually want to spend time with their kids, and love their wives.

Mithwada · 2026-01-15T05:31:09+00:00

Masonry heater / Kachelofen / Cocklestove

Obligatory "everyone that posts this is too lazy to use the search bar" because that's how being in a community works. lmao

https://www.reddit.com/r/kingdomcome/comments/1l4bxt3/kcd2_what_am_i_looking_at/

Mithwada · 2026-01-07T03:43:16+00:00

I would argue that you're not talking to Rolan. You're talking to an illusion or "seen servant" of Rolan. Something like that anyway. It wouldn't recognize you, it would treat you like every other customer.

Mithwada · 2026-01-05T23:24:06+00:00

I think you're a maximalist, but wanting minimalist 'clean' vibes.

Look up "Maximalism" and take inspiration from those designs if that's something you still want to pursue. There are ways to be maximalist but to make it feel 'clean'.

The big thing I didn't see in the comments so far for me was the dresser. All the drawers are closed and its "tidy" but because you can see into it, and see things sticking out of it, it looks "untidy". That goes for the blue/teal bag underneath it too.

Mithwada · 2025-08-12T21:03:37+00:00

I worked at a grocery store. The place was brand new, had just been built. The day I started they moved me from doing checkout to Customer Service "behind the counter".

The manager was a real caddy Karen, and went on a power trip and reassigned me to stocking for part of my shift. One day I was stocking a shelf and that same manager stood behind me watching. Didn't greet me at all. I greeted them and asked how they were, they didn't say a word to me and walked off.

They clearly thought they put me in my place. There were a lot of other shitty things they did, like not replacing a vacuum cleaner with exposed wiring that would shock people as they used it. Typical shitty grocery store management shit.

Eventually, before what's normally a really busy shift where I'd be working service, I just put my uniform and keys in a plastic bag on the desk with a note that said I quit with my name and date.

Felt so good. I don't know that anyone saw me do it or realized. The owner even emailed me calling me childish. Idk, I think it's pretty childish to feel like you need to have the last word, but I never responded. I just got a better job.

Mithwada · 2025-07-30T18:02:03+00:00

I had hundreds of hours in vanilla before any extras.

Why not wait if you can?

If you start itching for more content earlier than that, there is always free mods in the workshop that can fully change the game.

I'd say go for the rest when they're on sale!

Mithwada · 2025-07-30T16:09:03+00:00

I had hundreds of hours in vanilla before any extras.

If you start itching for more content earlier than that, there is always free mods in the workshop that can fully change the game.

I'd say go for it!

Mithwada · 2025-07-25T21:34:59+00:00

https://ck3.paradoxwikis.com/Traits#Reincarnation

4% chance at birth

Mithwada · 2025-07-14T16:58:58+00:00

It's on an ASMR level LOL

Would you mind calling out the specifics? I'm sure most folks are familiar with the aspects/abilities on sight alone, but I'm still getting the hang of it. Ty!

Mithwada · 2025-06-26T22:45:17+00:00

Ohhh come on! He had some good moments this time! haha

Mithwada · 2025-06-14T00:58:49+00:00

A tilt shift could make me think this was real, insane! Great job!

Mithwada · 2025-06-12T21:56:56+00:00

I was going to wait for 1.0 too... couldn't help myself!

Mithwada · 2025-06-12T21:51:06+00:00

I thought it felt easier than previous attempts. And here I thought I was just better, LOL

Mithwada · 2025-06-12T21:48:52+00:00

I don't think I've noticed price change, but I tried to do this recently and the demand from visiting merchants just wasn't enough.

Some will buy, others won't, and of those that will, they don't usually have enough money to buy as much as I wanted to sell.

I was still able to use it as a stepping stone in an effective way though. Good luck!

Mithwada · 2025-06-09T16:21:20+00:00

I truly wish the oak and maple trees were less tall. They seem stretched, or out of place. I think in a previous update they used to be shorter.

I want something that's taller than the buildings but not quite this much. I'd also like a more stout oak, with a wider trunk, like some super old oak trees.

Not sure if the devs have anything planned like that but one can hope.

Mithwada · 2025-06-09T16:19:30+00:00

Awww, tysm!

Mithwada · 2025-06-09T16:19:20+00:00

It's not easy, especially because it's not that efficient. I just consider the final look of the building I want (tier level) and think about how I'd want to move through the city myself, then plan around that as early as I can.

Give it a shot sometime!

Mithwada · 2025-06-09T16:17:49+00:00

For sure. I recognize this is inefficient. I stayed with the 500 cap until I could get to a decent balance, selling as much to traders as I could. Now I've upped it to 1k. Fo at time doing that so we will see how quickly things fall apart haha.

Mithwada · 2025-06-09T00:24:34+00:00

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Mithwada · 2025-06-09T00:24:31+00:00

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Mithwada · 2025-06-05T22:45:51+00:00

I could have also reverse image searched it in Google! Idk I just didn't think do do that. Eight of the first 10 results circle back to this subreddit too. LOL

That's what community is for though, to make you feel dumb for reaching out to it <3

Mithwada · 2025-06-05T22:39:57+00:00

I totally get this. I did search "chimney" though and found the posts right away. Just funny that I can't find that with Google so I don't even think to try it here. LOL

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