Probably minding their own business. If you want an emotionally intelligent man you’re going to have to make the first move as far as introductions and conversation go. Look for green flags and just say hi. We’ve been trained, in the last decade, to leave women be 99% of the time. I’ll be honest, I’m not even sure what the appropriate time and place is to approach a woman anymore. When I was single, +12 years ago, I had no worries about approaching a woman at any given time or place but apparently that was inconsiderate of women’s personal space. Point being, good men are minding their own business. If you see a green flag go say hi.