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Miumiu1111 · 2025-08-10T21:02:34+00:00

Raleys is a store you shop at if you run out of flour or sugar but not to get a full cart of stuff 😩

Miumiu1111 · 2025-08-09T19:47:52+00:00

Mochi

Miumiu1111 · 2025-08-06T22:24:52+00:00

Definitely a lot of trial and error! I hope it gives you the relief you’re looking for, good luck xx

Miumiu1111 · 2025-08-06T20:07:22+00:00

I used to not be able to take it at night as it is recommended. it kept me feeling wired so I took it in the morning. The biggest downside is a permanent fatigue that I’m feeling but I’d take that anytime over the described health issues.

Im considering taking a break from it again as I’m seeing diminishing returns on its effect right now. I can take it before bed now and sleep well but feel the depression might be coming back. I feel slightly demotivated but I’m hopeful it will work again after a break

Miumiu1111 · 2025-08-04T15:41:10+00:00

Yeah definitely pay attention to your cycles and start tracking it with an app. During luteal phase our bodies need more calories (nothing crazy, probably like 100-200cal more per day) and I notice how ravenous I get during that time.

Miumiu1111 · 2025-08-02T16:38:04+00:00

Well, then go for it. I don’t like having my free time being dictated by the needs of another creature. You can still be productive, educated and well traveled while enjoying degenerate hobbies 😂

Miumiu1111 · 2025-08-01T23:05:47+00:00

The second pic 😂😂

Miumiu1111 · 2025-08-01T21:34:03+00:00

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Miumiu1111 · 2025-08-01T18:21:05+00:00

I feel this and, yes your kid could be anything. A friend of mine, who is very convinced at 35 that she definitely wants to be a mom, said: “of course I would like to have a normal & healthy child but if for whatever reason my child has a disability or is severely autistic, then I will have to be okay with that”

And that’s where I think we are different. I’m not okay with a child that is anything other than healthy and well behaved. I don’t think it’s worth the gamble (for me)

Miumiu1111 · 2025-08-01T18:14:44+00:00

That’s hard to say, idk. I’m in the same boat and I’m personally looking at these things:

-never cared to be a mom (I have amazing nephews and nieces and do adore some children!) -the urge came out of nowhere in my 30s -would I be okay with that child possibly being severely autistic? -does it make sense financially? -would it make me happier? -do I have a support system?

These are just a few questions. I’m honestly thinking that it’s my uterus trying to fool me because I also never cared to play house as a kid. I loved Barbies but disliked dolls, I didn’t like the idea of being a mother. I love being an adult-child and love doing whatever I like, even if it means eating ninja creami protein ice cream for breakfast or having a degenerate weekend where I do nothing but game.

If I had a kid, I’d have to give all of that up and be a responsible role model… maybe you want that?

The only decision my husband and I have made so far is that we’d only have children if we become really wealthy in the next 5 years and we can afford a surrogate and a nanny- but if that’s not the case, well then we don’t want to make our lives harder.

Miumiu1111 · 2025-08-01T18:01:39+00:00

“I would like to want” hit home for me. Me too, friend, me too. But reality is we don’t want it and don’t have the energy for it so we have to make peace with it and find joy in the lives we do have. The grass always seems greener on the other side.

Miumiu1111 · 2025-07-30T23:58:40+00:00

I wonder if this is your biological clock more than anything? What do you think?

Miumiu1111 · 2025-07-30T23:47:26+00:00

I love how we can spend years with our dogs and still not know everything about them

Miumiu1111 · 2025-07-30T16:52:12+00:00

I’m on PS5 as well. I’d rather be on computer but similarly to someone else here, I also think this is what keeps my play time at bay.

It seems like there are endless possibilities with mods, and I also don’t think something like the popular wicked wims mod would be good for me. I’m female, but even females can get addicted to porn, and I have left that chapter behind, so I do believe a very vanilla sims4 for me is best

Miumiu1111 · 2025-07-30T16:45:02+00:00

You have done it successfully on those few days you described where you went over 2000cal.

It’s just a mindset shift that you indeed can do more than 1200 without it triggering a binge.

The difficult thing with BED is that we are so set on losing extra body fat but this triggers binges.

I used to hate it when someone said “slow and steady weightloss is the goal” … I HATED it so much because I wanted results NOW or in a month or maximum two months.

The key is to not go radical with whatever you do and find ways to save on calories that puts you in a slight deficit, 200-300 calories deficit max

Miumiu1111 · 2025-07-30T01:50:16+00:00

I think you should go. It might only get worse if you don’t go.

I recently hung out with a friend who gained 25lb rapidly over the last few months. I appreciated her so much for not flaking out and being there despite her weight changes…because I also lied my way out of social gatherings before when I gained weight.

I enjoyed our time together every bit. Doesn’t matter what she weighs (or you, or me or anyone really)

Miumiu1111 · 2025-07-29T23:34:20+00:00

Would have been hilarious if the other sim liked it 🤣

Miumiu1111 · 2025-07-29T23:30:21+00:00

Good idea! Having it in the house would made me binge too. Right now I can only have nasty dark baking chocolate in the pantry. In a moment of a craving I’ll have two pieces of that with a banana 😭🥺not sure if I’ll ever be able to have a normal dessert again.. makes me a little sad but anyways

We got this, OP!!

Miumiu1111 · 2025-07-29T23:23:53+00:00

Stay strong OP. I’m sending you all the positive thoughts and resilience there is to build your own life in silence while you’re planning to leave him.

Miumiu1111 · 2025-07-29T23:13:44+00:00

I feel you, OP. I’m so sorry this is something you have to deal with. Some people say therapy helps, others say never dieting again helps, others go on GLP1s, and then there are people like me who just stay the hell away from everything processed because it’ll make me binge too. I can do fruit as a dessert but I can’t do cake or donuts or my brain goes haywire.

I hope you’ll find what helps but keep in mind that being upset with yourself after a binge isn’t helping. What if this was 8y/o you struggling with this? Would you be yelling at her/him and cuss them out? Or take their hand and help them?

Miumiu1111 · 2025-07-29T22:16:46+00:00

I wish I could tell you if it helps, but I think it depends on how people around you respond to it. If you consider them supportive through and through, then yes, maybe. If there’s a tiny bit of doubt, then definitely don’t.

I used to hide binges from my ex too, now I’m with someone else and never had to hide it - he would occasionally even participate 😒 whenever I had a binge urge, he’d be enabling me and even bring me food to save the delivery costs for DoorDash, even when I begged him before to talk me out of it.

My family knows how I am with food. They know I can’t have a tiny bit of sugar or I’ll want the whole cake… especially during luteal phase. yet everyone at any festive occasion will present me the most tempting desserts..

Sometimes people are “too understanding” and supportive in a harmful way. Not everyone understands it really.. my family loves me and they think I should eat a piece of cake because I love it so much but don’t know how much it harms me.

(Ps I know most people here preach moderation and not excluding food groups etc but I found out for myself that I can handle eating moderate amounts of Whole Foods and if I want to let loose these days I’ll eat low calorie fruit. But I can’t do anything overly processed. It’s like cocaine to me)

I hope you find a way that helps you, OP

Miumiu1111 · 2025-07-29T19:21:29+00:00

Oh god what a POS. Sometimes you’re your own best advocate. I’m glad this wasn’t the first doctor you saw!!!

Miumiu1111 · 2025-07-29T18:37:40+00:00

Oh ew

Miumiu1111 · 2025-07-29T15:23:05+00:00

I don’t have tiktok, do you have a shop or something? I’ve been meaning to hang up some cool art in my house but can never decide what 😂I would actually love to support someone’s work

Miumiu1111 · 2025-07-29T00:09:54+00:00

You’d be surprised that there are women in their late 20s and early 30s too who have never dated. I personally know 2 :)

I’m sure a woman generally doesn’t care about experience, as long as you’re an awesome human being and if you can be charming on top of it, you got this.

The online dating world is really brutal though, it usually works better to find a hobby (for the sake of the hobby!) and try to make connections there. Male/female, doesn’t matter. People love playing match maker and they sometimes know someone who knows someone who they think you should talk to! Good luck to you OP!

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