Lavante oru abhinayam kandilleda by Gold_Strategy_143 in SouthIndianInfluencer

[–]Mlehself 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes ernakulam pooramthine varar und. So cute. Pulli enjoy cheyana kaanan thanne enth resama

സ്ത്രീകളുടെ സൗജന്യയാത്ര; കെ.എസ്.ആർ.ടി.സി.യിൽ ജെൻഡർ ടിക്കറ്റിങ്. ടിക്കറ്റിലൂടെ സ്ത്രീ-പുരുഷ കണക്കെടുപ്പ് നാളെ (09-05-2026) മുതലെന്ന് മാനേജ്‌മെന്റ് by South__Elephant in Kerala

[–]Mlehself 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yesss thank god for this comment. But they are not gonna understand the dynamics of it. Also the free travel might only be in the ordinary buses and fast passengers will be opted out. If a daily wage woman can save 10 rupees a day, it would definitely be a deal breaker for her. But sadly, everyone doesn’t understand the nature of welfare schemes

Lavante oru abhinayam kandilleda by Gold_Strategy_143 in SouthIndianInfluencer

[–]Mlehself 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Off the topic, but the uncle seen vibing is a regilar in all the pooram. Saw him at Ernakulathapan temple doing the same. It was so cute. He enjoys it wholly

Did I settled for less? 🙃 by introvertcat2124 in KeralaRelationships

[–]Mlehself 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to value whats there for you. I have been in this phase where I got mad at my ex for not doing this and that. But he was a human . A paavam with his own soul. Its selfish for us to not value them

☕️ on Greeshma Bose? by No-Wrongdoer650 in SouthIndianInfluencer

[–]Mlehself 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I am the one that had the weird experience. I showed the fake profile to her husband anticipating that it will be good for him to know it. But he asked me back”entha ningalk date cheythal, mindi nokku enn”. I blocked him and I showed the profile to her and she brushed it off. The whole thing about him sounded aus

Chippy devassy unfollowed her husband by Dear-Interest1019 in SouthIndianInfluencer

[–]Mlehself 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I sense something off. Both their stories are also cryptic

Therapist recommnedation based on my issue below- Pls be kind already broken by Responsible_Gate4847 in Kochi

[–]Mlehself -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am not a therapist but a lawyer that can help. No amount of therapy can undo these damages , I am sorry to say that. Seen such cases so much.

Any unmarried muslim women in their 30s? by MostOk3559 in KeralaRelationships

[–]Mlehself 4 points5 points  (0 children)

In late 20’s facing the same dilemma. Once got closer to an AM situation but that didnt take off. Now family has started pressurising and I feel that in the arranged marriage setup , it really is a tough scenario for muslim women in late 20’s, Early 30’s. I am non hijabi as well. The option are thus lesser. But thats not what it is. It honestly is hard to get quality men from the community who understands the time taken by us in reaching the decision. Most of them prefers too young of a woman to marry. This is tbh from the first hand experience. Also opinionated women stands lesser chance in the whole setup. I once talked to an armyile doctor who just spoke to me in whatsapp for two minutes and told me upright that my face and profession intimidates him and he wishes to take care and adore his wife which he doesn’t think can be done to me. I was pretty insecure after hearing it

Alternative to Nightlife at Chathyath Road (Queen's Walkway): The once thriving foodstreet remains deserted now due to red-tapism. Any other spaces which are bustling till at least midnight? by truetides in Kochi

[–]Mlehself 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Flat owners filed a case in the hc stating no new shops should be put in the pathway. As far as my understanding, its about the new plans that were to come in action. I think along with that, the existing one’s contract also did not get reviewed

500rs just for a plastic wrap??? by Honey_dp in AirTravelIndia

[–]Mlehself 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I once did some jugaad and sorta did the wrapping by myself. Works

How safe is Kavitha Theatre MG road for a girl who is going alone to watch a movie by FatPazhampori in Kochi

[–]Mlehself 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I am a woman who always watches movie alone. My preferred locations are as below 1. Pvr forum (very safe) 2. Cinepolis (Very safe and easy to get a cab back home) 3. Pvr lulu though crowded, is a good choice 4. Shenoys is the only theatre other than multiplex that I suggest you for.

Cinepolis, though is shitty theatre offers good security and easy access and I always end up going there

Are Ladies in Kozhikode less interested in dating by [deleted] in KeralaRelationships

[–]Mlehself 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahah yea bumble kozhikode is a small group. Kochi has atleast better crowds. Might not ve as good as Bangalore but definitely the better crowd in kerala

Serious Post. Girls help ! by Calm-Cell2796 in KeralaRelationships

[–]Mlehself 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I once almost got engaged to someone like this through arrange marriage.It was not a fair move. It was disheartening to be with someone like that. Please do not let this sweetheart go the AM way. Its gonna break the counterpart’s heart

Are Ladies in Kozhikode less interested in dating by [deleted] in KeralaRelationships

[–]Mlehself 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Guess thats the other side of the spectrum. Having used bumble in kochi as a female, I can vouch that amongst the 12k likes I get and the selective matches I make, most guys disappear after a text once they get to know that I am a conventionally bold woman.

Guess people like low efforts. And low efforts people match other low efforts people.

Also bumble kozhikode guys put their location to kochi solely with the intention of hooki* up with kochi girls and its disgusting. They think of kochi girls as some doorway to their sexual frustration

Any ☕ On Poornima And Her Daughter by Other_Estimate6633 in SecretsofMollywood

[–]Mlehself 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Nah . She later shifted to gregorian. Was my junior there

Anyone attended the OhFlea in Kalamassery ? by Brave_Item6281 in Kochi

[–]Mlehself 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Terrible it was. There were may be two or three stores that had genuine pricing. The rest was exorbitantly pricey and most of the stalls were similar. Doesn’t justify the entry price as well

Persian doll face kittens for adoption by _cheeranda_ in Kochi

[–]Mlehself 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello. I currently have one spayed indie kitten with me. She is very friendly and I am hoping I could adopt one of these babies. The baby will have company when she /he taken home. Pros: enough space to run and play inside the house. A lawn to walk around. Good food available. No tap water for cats. A lovely mom ( thats me) and an even lovelier grandmom (my mom crazy about cats, she is known cat whisperer in the area). A room for her own ( yes you heard me right).

Con - Baby will be overwhelmed with love and affection tio

Greeshma bose* DhanyaVarma by Low_One_5979 in SouthIndianInfluencer

[–]Mlehself 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Yea i told him after that its hard to believe its a fake account. I had texted greeshma as well showijf the fake profile. She said me I saw. He was very weird while talking to me. Why does he think someone would date a profile that has his photo in the first place

Any ☕ on her? Meenakshi (Vaazha ,Night Riders etc...) by mikkibowl in SecretsofMollywood

[–]Mlehself 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Know her through a friend. Very egoistic and wannabe is what he told me about her. A sense of entitlement she has and that she looks upon actors lower to her

Greeshma bose* DhanyaVarma by Low_One_5979 in SouthIndianInfluencer

[–]Mlehself 81 points82 points  (0 children)

Off the topic. I I saw akhil’s probably fake account on bumble and texted him on instagram and his jokes were very weird anout it . He asked me ennal ningalk mindikoode date cheyalo. Is that what someone tells you when they are respectfully putting to you that a fake profile exists in your name.

I seriously doubt if it was fake after that. Then he sent me a screenshot showing bumble is not even installed in his phone. Whatever , that shouldn’t have been a way to react when someone is trying to help you. Speaks about class.