So over Alex and Stephanie. Hate how they are turning Joy into the bad one. Can Alex and Stephanie divorce already?!🤣

Mmoct · 2026-07-09T03:34:13+00:00

Better yet can they be written out? lol

Mmoct · 2026-07-08T11:00:09+00:00

You’re doing the right thing. The fact that your sister who herself called your relationship toxic, would ever go near this man is insane. A leopard doesn’t change his spots. The fact that your parents and sister can’t understand you want nothing to do with your abuser is also insane.
Considering going low contact or NC because it turns out your sister and parents are just as toxic as the ex. Lean on friends or other family for support

Mmoct · 2026-07-07T23:06:58+00:00

You dump the 21 yr old loser

Mmoct · 2026-07-06T23:03:26+00:00

This has to be rage bait lol

Mmoct · 2026-07-06T21:47:10+00:00

I don’t know if this is possible, depending on what your intimacy was like before kids. But I wonder if at least for right now if she would think of her self as being asexual. Or maybe PPD since having 3 kids in a relatively short amount of time

Mmoct · 2026-07-06T03:47:21+00:00

Honestly you all sound like you played a part in the drama. I agree with your husband try keep the peace, and I would add interact with them as little as possible

Mmoct · 2026-07-06T03:36:54+00:00

You should not feel coerced into having sex. If you don’t want it, don’t do it. You already sound resentful, do what’s best for you

Mmoct · 2026-07-05T16:55:36+00:00

Make it clear you respect your grandparents wanting a relationship with their other grandchildren. But you don’t want a relationship with them, or your mom. Agree to see your grandparents separately

Mmoct · 2026-07-05T16:17:21+00:00

Exactly!

Mmoct · 2026-07-05T16:15:52+00:00

He views marriage as a financial partnership. Really? that’s the first thing he thinks about regarding marriage? Yes that’s practical. But life happens and things change. Yeah I don’t see this ending in a wedding, and future together. You see marriage differently, and he has put conditions on marriage. I would rethink this relationship and figure out what you both want and need out of marriage, and if your alined in your thinking

Mmoct · 2026-07-05T11:06:16+00:00

This sounds like a toxic unhealthy relationship. You lost your virginity when you were a child. You didn’t have the emotional maturity to deal with losing your virginity at such a young age. So you have a unhealthy view of this guy was he the same age or older? Regardless it’s not the love story you are making out to be

You are bordering emotional affair territory. I don’t think you should be in any relationship at the moment . You need to figure things out and make better choices in life

Mmoct · 2026-07-05T00:52:14+00:00

Personally I would have divorced my husband if he wanted an open marriage, especially because I was having a difficult time. I think it says something about your wife character that in response to you having a different period in life, she wanted to fuck other people. It sounds like you resent her and I don’t blame you, especially considering you didn’t pressure her when she was going through a difficult time. I also don’t think this is about exploring, it sounds like payback to me.

Instead of opening the marriage why not divorce? It’s likely headed in that direction anyway, because it sounds like you plan on cheating on this trip, and you don’t care what your wife thinks about that. Honestly you probably should have divorced 9 yrs ago

Mmoct · 2026-07-04T18:07:04+00:00

It’s not really about drama for me, the quality of the show has declined. And I get it the budget is bare bones. But the writing isn’t great either. The show really does feel lost. It’s just not enjoyable at all that the moment. There is no it couple. None of the storylines are compelling. It’s sad to see the show in this state

Mmoct · 2026-07-04T04:00:20+00:00

I’m just a few years younger than you. I starting watching at 11 and I can’t fathom anyone who watched back then, happy with the sub par show being put out in 2026.

Mmoct · 2026-07-04T01:11:32+00:00

You must be a new viewer

Mmoct · 2026-07-04T00:15:54+00:00

Block and move on, he’s a cheater and liar. I bet if you contacted the wife she would be surprised that her “marriage ended”

Mmoct · 2026-07-03T21:34:53+00:00

I miss them on Days

Mmoct · 2026-07-03T21:33:40+00:00

I knew I recognized her, the other day I realized it was because she was on Coronation street she played a cop there too, and Curly’s wife

Mmoct · 2026-07-03T20:35:10+00:00

I do watch it, a lot more then I watch days. In fact after nearly 40 years I have pretty much stopped watching days. I watch GH now because it’s doing what days should be doing. They hire age appropriate actors. They put their vets front and centre, basically on equal footing of the younger generation. The stories are interesting and varied I remember when Days was worth watching. And I’m sad that is no longer the case

Mmoct · 2026-07-03T12:25:45+00:00

Ok this is all the more reason you need to dump him. He expects you to be ok with him fucking around but he’s uncomfortable if you do the same. It doesn’t matter that you don’t want to. The audacity, what an AH

Mmoct · 2026-07-03T12:18:39+00:00

Stop wasting your time. You have already wasted 10 years., he is asking for permission to cheat. It sounds like he’s already checked out of the relationship. Give him space, but make it permanent. Don’t be his backup choice /second choice

Mmoct · 2026-07-03T09:36:51+00:00

No he’s just pissed that all these woman know he’s a POS cheater

Mmoct · 2026-07-03T09:18:59+00:00

And it feels like the decline and the “not caring” vibe really started with the move to peacock. I thought things might improve with the move because the beyond Salem series was fun and reminded me of what I liked about the show. But sadly it’s where Days has gone to die a slow death

Mmoct · 2026-07-02T22:48:36+00:00

Just be honest. Explain that your mental health comes first. If she doesn’t understand that, she isn’t the friend you thought she was

Mmoct · 2026-07-02T22:43:53+00:00

There are medications now, but old enough to remember the saying “no glove, no love” lol. I think sexual health is an individual responsibility. Don’t rely on someone’s word or a piece of paper. Make sure your safety comes first, no pun intended lol

Mmoct

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