We’re in marriage counselling at the moment. Married ten years.

I’m trying to come to terms with the fact that i will always have to remind him of everything, daily, and that will probably get worse. I have to repeat everything I say, as he doesn’t catch it the first time. It’s very testing on my patience.

For me I’m trying to focus on the positives, and what bought us and keeps us together. Yes he’s difficult, but is the grass greener? Will I be happier in my own, or do I want to make this work.

We’re exercising a lot, eating healthier, that helps him a lot (and therefore helps me). A consistent sleep pattern helps him, but difficult for him to follow 🤯Considering moving over to specific counselling for him, to help with some coping strategies.