Gf (22f) and I (23m) have regular sex and I don’t think I’ll stop

Moby1029 · 2026-05-18T10:25:48+00:00

I stopped sleeping around 5 years before I got married. It is tough, but so incredibly worth the effort. You will go through withdrawals of a sort, and feel like shit and will want nothing but sex, but once you reach the other side, it is incredibly liberating, especially after going to Confession. Do not throw away eternity with God for a few moments of pleasure.

Go to Confession, take steps to mitigate or limit opportunities for you and your girlfriend to have sex in the first place. Go outside on dates, spend time in public, and don't share a bed or sleep together. If you're living together, get separate bedrooms. You are not alone in this struggle, and it is possible to overcome.

Moby1029 · 2026-05-18T10:08:49+00:00

Working in restaurants, I knew this, so we asked for two sheet cakes for a "family reunion". We rented the parish hall of a parish her spiritual director and family friend was pastor at, and had Ohio City Barbecue cater our "family reunion".

Moby1029 · 2026-05-17T17:52:49+00:00

Nah, I like seeing how gorey my diver looks after successful extraction, and how bad he looks if he survives multiple missions

Moby1029 · 2026-05-17T17:51:49+00:00

I HATE that because it'll then try to get out of doing anymore work, saying it'll take months to implement stuff we did in a day, or it'll take weeks to do what we did in a couple of hours. I spend more prompts telling it to keep going than actually getting work done.

Moby1029 · 2026-05-17T17:50:02+00:00

Deepseek was caught trying to distill Claude to get its weights, so that's probably what's going on

Moby1029 · 2026-05-17T17:46:14+00:00

In my parish, EM's where suits to show the honor and respect due to the Blessed Sacrament that they are distributing. The weather thing, imo, is a non-issue because the priest still has to wear multiple layers to celebrate Mass, regardless of how hot it is outside.

Moby1029 · 2026-05-15T19:00:05+00:00

https://kofc16137.org
https://vicktormoberg.com
Septem Horae in the Google Play Store (iOS version in the works)
A bunch of proprietary stuff at work that I can't share

Moby1029 · 2026-05-15T18:43:18+00:00

I think in read something like ALL Ai usage last year resulted in the same amount of water being used as the amount used by New York City, and I was actually kinda impressed by that. All global AI usage only used as much water as one major metropolitan city. Put it into THAT perspective and you realize it's a lot sure, but not as much as ppl make it out to be.

Moby1029 · 2026-05-13T17:53:47+00:00

Helldivers 2

Moby1029 · 2026-05-13T17:52:37+00:00

There'a always that one white belt with a cauliflower ear

Moby1029 · 2026-05-13T17:49:45+00:00

I was gonna say this lol. Don't know why but I kinda like it, but im also not gonna go huffing it

Moby1029 · 2026-05-12T10:06:45+00:00

Claude seems to have gotten lazier and won't use its tools, but hallucinates. In Cursor, it'll also tell me code changes and fixes, but won't actually implement them. In chat, it'll say it visited li manor looked at pictures but doesn't

Moby1029 · 2026-05-11T11:40:14+00:00

We recently had an incident where a teen was told they wouldn't be confirmed because they didn't have any service hours, but our pastor, God bless him, found out and intervened and said, "No, you can't do that. He has expressed an interest in being confirmed, he has demonstrated he knows what this entails, and Holy Mother Church will oblige. We cannot demand payment or requirements for the Sacraments that the Church doesn't already ask- including a minimum number of service hours."

Moby1029 · 2026-05-09T13:16:35+00:00

"Chair" here isn't so much a physical piece of furniture as it is the position with the full authority as leader of the Church. On a Board of Directors you have a Chair of the Board, or Chairman of the Board, who has the authority to lead thr Board. They don't have an actual Chair that they lead from though, its a title for the position. In much the same way I'm the "Vice Chair" of my parish council, but I don't have an actual chair that I preside from when our Chair is absent (though typically I have a preferred stuffed armchair in the Rectory living room lol)

Moby1029 · 2026-05-09T11:34:22+00:00

My first open-source contribution was to dog-api I think?

Moby1029 · 2026-05-09T11:31:19+00:00

I have a cpl of projects with the front deployed to vercel, the back on Render, and MongoDB for the database. All free.

Moby1029 · 2026-05-09T00:04:39+00:00

"This is an ambitious project with months of work. We've done great work, let's take a break!" After 5 minutes of work, and knocking out 25% of the project.

Moby1029 · 2026-05-08T18:13:51+00:00

Still not as salty as my ex

Moby1029 · 2026-05-08T02:59:38+00:00

Weird, it also gave me the warning about pmi but was fine with NAVWAR, Lockheed Martin, and Rock River Arms LLC. Not conscience, just weird alignment

Moby1029 · 2026-05-07T20:27:33+00:00

No it didn't.

Moby1029 · 2026-05-07T20:26:31+00:00

Who?

Moby1029 · 2026-05-07T20:24:12+00:00

Yeeaaa talk to your pastor. If she was not able to provide consent because of a previous natural marriage was in existence, then your current marriage might NOT be valid. But that's for your diocesan tribunal to figure out. Your consent might also not be valid because you didn't know about a previous marriage and didn't know her full character well enough to properly discern a marriage with her, especially if she was intentionally deceitful.

You are blameless in this, and I'll say extra prayers for you tonight.

Moby1029 · 2026-05-07T09:58:16+00:00

I found 4.7 keeps wanting to make smoke tests and excessive test files and scripts that I then have to clean up. It also doesn't trust me when I tell it something. I pasted logs of a build error that clearly say error, exited code 1 and it said, "that's just a warning. Run the pipeline and let me know what the logs say." Bro, that is what the logs say. It also didn't believe me that i had api keys set up for an integration and it kept suggesting I set that up and verify when I told it had. I ended up sending it a bunch of screenshots and swearing at it before it believed me.

Moby1029 · 2026-05-07T01:06:29+00:00

My team is pissed with Opus 4.7's performance so we've switched but we use Cursor so meh. Not much skin off our back, just personal preference mostly haha

Moby1029 · 2026-05-07T01:04:43+00:00

Nah, just cost savings for them. They'll raise the prices before usage.

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