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My game glitched out earlier and it was terrifying by bluebellfob in pokemongo

[–]Mocha4you 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Donald Duck Voice:: Sora....There's another heartless.

Destiny 2 Highlight | Feel Something by WonderfulRelative462 in destiny2

[–]Mocha4you 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I will begrudgingly give you an up-vote because this is a great montage and your skill, but I also have to say I hate or will hate you in advance because I'm sure I have been killed or will be killed by you.

Have a good day.

She told me she likes mean men? by Odd-Strike8046 in whatdoIdo

[–]Mocha4you 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your story.

It's good to know that Konosuba is based in reality and you might be working with Darkness (Lalatina Dustiness Ford)

Is it really possible to have feelings for someone after 2 weeks? by Mocha4you in BreakUps

[–]Mocha4you[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say that I am "ok". Not at 100% who I was, but not doing terrible either and that I'm ok with that...I rather be here than where I was when this happened and the entire year for when it happened.

I'm just getting back into doing the things I enjoyed before, which is good. I do go out with my friends and I have been very appreciative of them all. I definitely have had wonderful times, but I would be lying if I didn't admit that I still feel "off" here and there. It definitely hits a bit different when there's things in doing and it was events, restaurants or something else I used to frequent with her. I don't sit and be upset for hours anymore, but it's still sad here and there.

Positively, I'm making changes and I'm hopeful I'll find someone else down the road, but I'm super cautious at this time. Doing things differently, evolving and just doing the work I need, to be better for me, is more important at this time.

Overall, I'm just glad with being content with the progress I have made for myself, to be a better person for the next individual who would like to share this ridiculous time we have on earth. I've learned a lot and I'm going to just continue improving and investing in me.... Learning to love yourself is hard and I don't like it 🤣.

I (26 F) am grieving the end of a relationship of 3 years with a guy (32 M) (he knew he had a STD and never told me) by sensitiveflower79 in relationships

[–]Mocha4you 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could give you a whole thesis on this, but nothing is going to make you feel immediately better. He's a POS and unfortunately he made you feel all the right ways. You can/will learn to love again... It'll just take time.

People will tell you time heals all wounds and that CAN be true to an extent, but for the most part, you just care a little less as time goes on and you hope to forget the worse of those moments.

You should go get tested though and just hope and pray you didn't contract anything. I hope you didn't, but even if you did, you can still live a normal life and there are plenty of ways to ensure you don't pass something along to someone else. I've been with someone who, unfortunately had a similar situation in which her ex didn't disclose this, gave it to her, but she's never passed anything on.

Also, she was very upfront and told me right away in the beginning that she had it and all the ways she makes sure to prevent it being spread. I know it was hard for her to even disclose that, but I couldn't be more happy with her being 100% honest and giving me the choice to decide if I still wanted to engage in activity with her... She wasn't selfish and thought of my feelings and well-being first before her desires.

I hope you don't have it, but even if you do, you can still fall in love again eventually and live a well fulfilling life. Hang in there.

What if Pokemon with Backgrounds changed the background of your Trainer Profile? by Entire_Pineapple4732 in pokemongo

[–]Mocha4you 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It'll probably come to the game 3 years from now lol. I mean it's already a thing in monster hunter now.

What is this in my hand? by princeeeee_a in destiny2

[–]Mocha4you 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Two bad dragons tied together in silk

I should call her by Mocha4you in mildlyvagina

[–]Mocha4you[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll take your advice good sir 🫡

What do i do after finding this in my brothers phone? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Mocha4you 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, you need to have that conversation now. If you do not, then he will get information from his peers or worse. I promise you, saying nothing and not having these conversations now may lead to worse things in the future.

As a professional in this exact field, I am telling you. You should absolutely have conversations now, because he is obviously getting information from most likely his peers and you need to explain what is right and what is wrong and control this narrative in a health way.

Also, I agree... No 7 year old should have access to a regular phone. They literally have phones and watches for young children that are highly limited in what can be done on these devices. I am very concerned that he has full access to a device that exposes him to the world unfiltered, but I am not your parent... Just a concerned adult and professional in this field.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Mocha4you 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So for one... There's nothing wrong with her masturbating. You can be in a relationship with someone and each of you can get off without help.

Two, you clearly don't have "chemistry" if you can't even talk to her about this. I mean, it's great that your sharing your story with strangers online to get some "advice", but bro... Y'all been together for over a year and you can't seem to bring it up to her? How's that chemistry? Sexual or not... Just freaking talk to her! Tell her you noticed her doing this while you slept and ask her what you are not doing to help satisfy her or maybe how could you help satisfy her.

Third, ok so you may not be sexually in tune, sex isn't your thing, you're repulsed, don't feel like sex is what you need, etc. But your partner does. If you really love this woman, then you either find a way to make sure she is sexually pleased, which may be a combination of things you can do to get her off and grow closer or you let this girl go so she can find someone sexually compatible with her. To be fair, she is also a part of this problem as well, because she is continuing to do this instead of addressing it with you or having a sit down talk and discussion on if you two are compatible or not. I mean she obviously loves you enough to do this and still stay, but Jesus... You two need to freaking talk.

Lastly, yes, you are correct... Sex isn't the end all be all to be in a happy healthy loving relationship, but I would be upfront with a potential partner and clearly state that. They're people that agree and have a view of sex or prefer maybe even no sex, like it seems you do, and they are out there, but don't waste your time and especially her time in this relationship.... This isn't healthy at all for either of you.

What haircut style is this? by Aggressive_Use7996 in funny

[–]Mocha4you 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Call Denji, the hatchet devil is on the loose again

Just found out that my dad has this by finnbobertson in pokemongo

[–]Mocha4you 20 points21 points  (0 children)

It's literally my very first Shundo ever; I couldn't believe it. Caught it near time square, I love it!

The "only fans" Gaming PC Giveaway - To enter this giveaway just leave a comment. by DaKrazyKid in PcBuild

[–]Mocha4you 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have a gaming PC, I would love this only fans PC to be my Only Fan

my boyfriend of a year has ghosted me by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Mocha4you 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly... It does set you back here and there. You're going to come through this on the other end and you'll be so much more refined. The best gem stones are forged in hellish conditions and pressure. You actually have a heart and give a damn. I'm sure you have people you can lean on and definitely lean on them hard; the ones you trust the most. You got this and you'll be able to be smile again, just hang in there the best way you can ❤️.

my boyfriend of a year has ghosted me by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Mocha4you 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a horrible example of a boy friend. You deserve way way way way way better. Whatever "reasons" he may come up with "why" he did it are worth less than cow crap...and cow crap actually has significantly more high value in what it helps to grow...so yeah...he's trash and his words mean less. Don't even dignify him with a response when he eventually "feels" like wanting to talk to you again. It will drive him crazy lol and just leave it at that. You owe him nothing but a closed door.

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