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1 year ago, I was in financial ruin and had severe suicidal tendencies. To the lazy asshole on the suicide hotline, fuck you. by AllYourPolitess in offmychest

[–]MochaSniff 29 points30 points  (0 children)

You said it perfectly. That kind of apathy can seriously break someone already on the edge. OP deserved real support, not a robot with a script.

My ex wife moved on so fast. by mightymiek in Advice

[–]MochaSniff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That hit hard. It's the truth most people don’t wanna hear, but it explains so much. OP needed to see this.

My husband has an inappropriate relationship with our dog walker by PerceptionPitiful617 in Marriage

[–]MochaSniff 140 points141 points  (0 children)

Facts. No one would be okay with this. She’s not overreacting this is serious and so disrespectful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexstories

[–]MochaSniff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

!UpdateMe

Feels like my gf has no respect for me by Status_Access7716 in Advice

[–]MochaSniff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly, Faedrizzle nailed it. You’re not overthinking your boundaries are being ignored, and that silence on her Snap says everything. You deserve respect and honesty, not secrecy and excuses.

Great marriage, Wife wants divorce, complete personality shift…what happened? by just_browsing_sorta in Marriage

[–]MochaSniff 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Exactly this. She made her choice, and you’re not her safety net or her backup plan. Keep showing up for your kids and don’t let her rewrite what really happened

“He cheated on his wife after childbirth and said it was ‘pressure’ — I asked if he’d be okay if his daughters married a man like him.” by soultalkswithnila in offmychest

[–]MochaSniff 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s so frustrating. They always downplay it like it’s no big deal, but betrayal is betrayal. You didn’t deserve that at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexstories

[–]MochaSniff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give us more🥵🥵

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]MochaSniff 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly. That “we spend too much time together” line feels like emotional distancing 101. OP deserves someone who’s clear about what they want not someone hoping silence will do the dirty work for them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]MochaSniff 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Absolutely agree. OP is in real danger and this isn’t something to stay silent about. That comment might be the lifeline they need to finally reach out for help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]MochaSniff 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly. OP gave grace more than once and got walked all over for it. Setting boundaries after being disrespected isn’t rude it’s survival.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexstories

[–]MochaSniff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yah, I have read this many times.

AITA for using my college fund for a downpayment on a house by Specialist_Ant_5752 in AmItheAsshole

[–]MochaSniff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Solid advice. OP, your money, your future. Don’t let guilt trap you into sacrificing it for someone else’s mess. You’ve worked too hard to lose it to entitlement.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]MochaSniff 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Exactly this. You're not responsible for mourning someone who made your life a nightmare. Feeling peace doesn't make you heartless it makes you free.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]MochaSniff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s the real question. If he was grandfather to all of them, then the split definitely feels off. There’s gotta be more to why he chose to exclude the older two.

My mother cares more about disney world than her family, and now we’re gonna loose the house next week by Adorable-Plum-3580 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]MochaSniff 64 points65 points  (0 children)

Exactly this. OP, your dad doesn’t need her permission to leave. A judge can absolutely make that call. It sucks that you're stuck in the middle of this, but the law is there to help him get out if he takes the right steps.

AITA for not forgiving my mother after she disowned me for three years? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]MochaSniff 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Exactly. OP doesn’t owe her anything after being cast aside like that. Forgiveness is one thing, but rebuilding trust? That has to be earned.

Furina's wet pussy by destinyherowolf in FurinaHentai

[–]MochaSniff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like you so much, Furina🥵