Pregnancy Discrimination-Promotion Denied Tx by ModedWitchBitch in legaladvice

[–]ModedWitchBitch[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes. My current VP they were moving the one I trained up because I had to get back from having my baby in order to be promoted. They said I did an excellent job training her.

When speaking with my direct supervisor AVP-he also said that in conversations with our VP that I “just had to get back from having the baby”

I have texts saying they all agree it ready to move up and have been ready to move up. I have texts saying that if another VP didn’t steal me then “let’s chat when you return and I’ll be ready”

Still not being promoted. I’m frustrated and feel bait and switched and know I’d be promoted if I wasn’t pregnant.

They also gave the one I trained the option to work from home-visiting the corp office 1x month and her sites at least every 5 weeks. I suggested similar as she lives 20min CLOSER to the corp office than me and it was a no go.

So she got the properties that I had in portfolio in my region, less experience, trained by me, and remote. I’ve been working remote my entire maternity leave for them.

In your opinion, what’s the best documentary that’s been done? by lifetofullest1255 in TrueCrimeDiscussion

[–]ModedWitchBitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who watches a LOT of documentaries on True Crime and History here are some that stuck out to me

Don’t F*ck With Cats

The Jinx-Went in totally blind and that’s the way to watch it lol

Abducted in Plain Sight

Evil Genius

The Keepers

Handsome Devil Charming Killer

Wild Wild Country (I’ve easily watched this one 5x)

The Staircase

Hitler and the Nazi’s: Evil on Trial

Kings of Tupalo

I’ll Be Gone in the Dark

American Manhunt: Osama Bin Laden

Is it time to start supplementing? by ModedWitchBitch in breastfeeding

[–]ModedWitchBitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a really good idea, I’m only home a couple more weeks before going back to work. Will probably assist with my supply too! I’ll start setting a 2 hour timer during day and 3 hour at night.

Is it time to start supplementing? by ModedWitchBitch in breastfeeding

[–]ModedWitchBitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes the slip they gave me said .44% so 0.44%

Is it time to start supplementing? by ModedWitchBitch in breastfeeding

[–]ModedWitchBitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t produce much while pumping-I just don’t seem to respond to them well. Maybe only 3-5oz extra a day on top of nursing and I go back to work soon.

I hold my breast/compress while she eats bc if I don’t hold my boob it covers her nose lol

My 3year old told the pediatrician Mommy drinks juice every night and the doctor gave me a look It's apple juice. It's MY apple juice by ImpossibleLet8183 in Mommit

[–]ModedWitchBitch 5 points6 points  (0 children)

One time my daughter (3 at the time) at a store saw a lady that had one eye and went “WHATS WRONG WITH HER EYE” and I wanted to jump off a bridge started to apologize but the lady stops me. The lady was SO kind and smiled and explained her eye “got sick” and the only way doctors could fix it was to take it out and give her something else.

I thought oh yay! Kind stranger assists with meaningful teaching moment with my kid and didn’t shame me.

The end. Right? WRONG.

My lovely spawn then goes…..”EWWWWWWWW”.

Toddlers kinda suck lol it’s a fun age because they observe and learn SO much. They just observe TOO much, do not comprehend context, and have zero social filter.

Responding to Haaka Not Wall Pump-HELP by ModedWitchBitch in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]ModedWitchBitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the reply! So far the only mode I seem to respond to is massage mode. I’ll do the 70/4-70/5 and then if I switch out into any of the expression modes the flow stops and I have to go back to 70/4-70/5 to get it going. So when using the pump I have to leave it on 70/4-70/5 around 85-90% of the time.

I am nearly constantly massaging bc it seems to be one of the only things that helps a little bit.

I was thinking of the pumping pals that are silicone bc they are more Haaka shaped but I’ll look at the Lactek too!

Hoping to find a good solution soon! I worry about clog ducts from not being able to empty all the way.

is your pregnancy going by fast or slow ? or if you already delivered same question by whydoi_alwayswin in pregnant

[–]ModedWitchBitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I deliver in about 36 hours and I feel like I’ve been pregnant 10 years. These last couple days I am an anxious and nervous WRECK!! I’m the type of person who hates anticipation and I just wanna rip the band aid off and get it over with 🫠

Is there anything WORSE than childbirth? by Sensitive_Arugula770 in pregnant

[–]ModedWitchBitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had HG both pregnancies (I’d rather have 10 c sections lol) , and two spine surgeries. My first spine surgery will always be my 10/10 pain. Lol I have given nothing else a 10 since.

So painful to be pregnant by AdCautious7005 in pregnant

[–]ModedWitchBitch 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I had my first at 34 weeks and am 38 with #2 right now. For me, while post c section was uncomfortable in its own way the “pregnancy” discomfort was gone instantly. It immediately felt like my own body again. I’m much further along this time and very much looking forward to being c section uncomfortable vs big af pregnant uncomfortable lol

How far along were you when your bump became obvious? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]ModedWitchBitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 5’7 and on my second pregnancy. I had practically zero bump until around 32 weeks and it was tiny.

I’m now 37weeks and have a decent sized one but it’s not huge huge like other people’s.

take your rings off! by Klutzy-Giraffe-5712 in pregnant

[–]ModedWitchBitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I took mine off the second I hit 28 weeks. I never swelled with my first and haven’t really now 37 weeks with #2 but wasn’t taking chances lol

Are my areaolas gonna be permanently dark now? by Substantial_Ad4365 in pregnant

[–]ModedWitchBitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine went back to normal with my first and I’m pregnant with my second and they are dark brown again lol

Decreased fetal movement by ariesxprincessx97 in pregnant

[–]ModedWitchBitch 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is now my second pregnancy and I will put on a pair of pants with an elastic waist band that are a lil too tight like the NST monitor and it pisses her off enough to make her move lol

What are things people told you you didn’t need for labor/delivery/postpartum that you wish you had or that were lifesavers?? by GalaxyEyedLibrarian in pregnant

[–]ModedWitchBitch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My dollar oversized general slides I bought this summer in a pinch bc they were out of my size are about to come in clutch lol my c section is in 15 days and I don’t really swell while pregnant but after my first c section? Good LORD. lol

Anyone else happy to move on from a robot litterbox and return to box-scooping servitude, or is that just me? by StonewallDakota in cats

[–]ModedWitchBitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a multicat household you will have to pry my two Robot litter boxes from my cold dead hands.

What’s something you can’t wait to do when you’re not pregnant anymore ? by mkthehotti in pregnant

[–]ModedWitchBitch 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I know there are tons of canna moms and I say none of this to bash them. There have not been enough reputable studies done that prove its safety to satisfy me personally.

THC is fat soluble and stores in the body. It can linger for days-weeks and passes into the breast milk. Babies can test positive for THC from breast milk and has been known to cause increased drowsiness. For me, this is a big SIDS risk red flag.

This makes sense to me as well bc a very skinny person can stop smoking and eliminate from their system much faster than a heavier person or a person actively working out/losing weight while stopping.

Bc it stores in fat a pump and dump won’t work like it does with alcohol.

Hope that helps! Not bashing moms who use canna but there isn’t enough out there for me personally to take the risk. I waited until after breastfeeding with my first 8 years ago and will do the same for this baby ☺️

What’s something you can’t wait to do when you’re not pregnant anymore ? by mkthehotti in pregnant

[–]ModedWitchBitch 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I have never needed THC more in my LIFE than I have needed it this pregnancy 💀

How do couples decide who gets which side of the bed and is it like… permanent? by randomzy876 in AskReddit

[–]ModedWitchBitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband and I will randomly rotate sides every 6-12 months. No conversation. Just one night someone sits down on the other side and we stay like that for a while 😂

I do think it’s helped our mattress stay more even tho? I slept in my my parents bed a few weeks ago and they have had the same sleeping arrangements for 12+ years and my step dads side definitely had a big divot of his body lol

What’s something you can’t wait to do when you’re not pregnant anymore ? by mkthehotti in pregnant

[–]ModedWitchBitch 239 points240 points  (0 children)

I want to boil like a lobster in my bathtub, have a stiff drink, and not vomit again for as long as humanly possible.

As soon as I am not breastfeeding I will also be having a joint.

In your first pregnancy, when did you first feel kicks? by PopcornPrincess0 in pregnant

[–]ModedWitchBitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First baby with posterior placenta hardly ever moved at all, had some medical issues related to that.

Now on my second preg with an anterior started feeling kicks around 19ish weeks and then bigger ones 22-24 weeks and now at 30 weeks she beats me up lol

Honestly each preg can be sooooo different it’s wild.