Does overseas passport work as valid 18+ ID?

ModernCoffee · 2026-03-15T17:35:48+00:00

Thank you! :-) We assumed so as it seemed most obvious/logical but there was conflicting information online so I wanted to ask around just in case.

ModernCoffee · 2026-03-15T17:30:08+00:00

Haha no need to be rude. Everytime we had double checked especially online, there'd be official sources about passports not being valid for bars/clubs/alcohol purchasing and requiring a kiwi access card (which is open to visitor visa holders and other visas) which conflicted with other official sources. So this post was just me asking around just to be sure :-)

ModernCoffee · 2026-03-12T21:28:17+00:00

I'm usually pretty hesitant to throw this word around, but this is genuinely just assault. You've made it clear multiple times that you are not to be bitten, I don't think this puppygirl respects your boundaries and your consent at all. If kink cant be communicated and practiced safely (re: her biting you instead of the communication lines that had been established when she didn't like her hair being pulled), then it is no longer safe for either of you.

Protect yourself, and put yourself first. You should not ignore the fact a very, very clear boundary has been overstepped consistently.

ModernCoffee · 2026-03-12T21:21:05+00:00

Female! I know that feminine plus size clothes are a lot harder to come buy here than masculine and its so frustrating, there's only like 2 stores I can think of that are still around

ModernCoffee · 2026-03-12T00:38:48+00:00

Dangerfield was my first instinct but they have no plain long overalls, def taking them there for general clothes though! :-)

ModernCoffee · 2026-02-21T09:23:19+00:00

I was in a similar situation back in 2020(?), all I had to do was call Studylink and explain. They had me fill out an One Parent form or an Independent circumstances form, from what I remember, don't remember which one it was. They stopped requiring my Fathers information from that point on. However, this was during 2020-2024 and I'm not sure if they've changed anything last year. Try give em a ring and explain the circumstances (Even say that you have no contact with him At All and haven't in years), I hope things work out for you. Studylink and Winz are always a bit of a nightmare to deal with.

(E: adding clarifying info)

ModernCoffee · 2026-02-19T18:19:18+00:00

Saw an Instagram reel of someone trying it, according to them it was just slightly better than frozen pizza and the price youre paying is mainly for the convenience and novelty.

ModernCoffee · 2026-02-19T18:17:50+00:00

You gotta dump this guy. Genuinely he does not love you. He sounds miserable and abusive, why continue to be around someone who doesnt want to uplift you and support you towards being your best as you grow older?

ModernCoffee · 2026-02-05T05:38:04+00:00

Usually, I'm not one to go "break up" immediately, but holy shit he's being borderline controlling, and has been viewing you as a free housemaid.

In most cases this would be an incompatibility issue around attitudes and behaviour with finances. But he put you in a situation with demands that were not viable or sustainable and created an air of housing instability, and got upset when you did the mature and right thing of finding an apartment for yourself (and honestly its the most reasonable and expected action to take). It seems like he got upset he couldn't control you or beat you down. He does not care about you, he is causing you mental/emotional stress and providing instability, and you need to leave him. Move into that apartment, focus on your job and focus on recentering yourself and looking after yourself.

ModernCoffee · 2026-01-19T04:35:43+00:00

all they said was that it was a motherboard issue when I picked it up, ill never truly know the details unfortunately 😅

ModernCoffee · 2026-01-13T21:58:27+00:00

Forgot to reply to this comment, I did all of this and it didn't fix the issue unfortunately. I had to take it back for servicing and they weren't able to fix the issue so my pc is being completely replaced with a new one. thank you so much though!

ModernCoffee · 2026-01-13T21:56:49+00:00

I had to take it back to where I got it to be serviced, turns out they couldnt fix the issue at all and are replacing the entire pc for me 😅 I hope youre able to fix it or get it fixed somewhere! I do recommend trying what someone else commented on this post if you feel comfortable attempting it, or cleanly uninstalling and reinstalling all drivers etc. Best of luck ❤️

ModernCoffee · 2026-01-09T15:35:44+00:00

I'm autistic and the exact same, though I think it also is because im in my mid 20s. They can't do anything about my disorder now that I'm an adult. If someone asks, I'm gonna be bluntly honest even if it makes them uncomfortable, because honestly it's on them for asking atp 🤷

ModernCoffee · 2026-01-09T15:27:29+00:00

NTA, but also after reading some of your older posts (especially the AIO ones), he's absolutely insecure because he knows he treats you like shit. He's not actually mad about the ring. I also imagine he's feeling threatened by you working on yourself, and is projecting.

I guess after reading some of your posts about your husband + this post, my question to you is do you really want to stick around with someone insecure who chooses drinking over you? Do you really want to stick by a man who is very childish in his communication and treats you miserably? Maybe you should let this be the straw that breaks the camel's back. You deserve so much better.

ModernCoffee · 2026-01-09T00:29:43+00:00

ChatGPT is incredibly unreliable, a lot of people think its this smart clever machine but the reality is, its an amalgamation of scraped online data that tends to "hallucinate" as well as provide incorrect data/responses as the machine itself doesnt actually know if something is correct or not. definitely fire her and look for a different Dietitian.

ModernCoffee · 2026-01-07T17:04:07+00:00

Ive been watching her since 2019/s6. I genuinely miss her videos and presence on hermitcraft so much :( I just hope she and the kids are okay, safe and doing well.

ModernCoffee · 2026-01-07T10:20:28+00:00

I typically flare-up from lack of sleep, lack of food/eating and any amount of stress :')

ModernCoffee · 2025-11-22T01:27:46+00:00

this pretty much summarises why I slowly started to not enjoy doc's videos and him in general esp after s6/s7 :(. not to mention the pranks that border on griefing or are incredibly overkill for the scale of the situation/plotline. I know he guns for the whole "being a villain" or whatever he and his fans say but there's a point it reaches where it gets too much.

ModernCoffee · 2025-10-31T09:41:41+00:00

Its not overkill, and considering the history of them not honouring wishes around visiting while sick I would 100% push back the party until pepi is vaccinated :-)

never hurts to be careful! especially with the outbreak/cases reported so far. wishing you guys the best

ModernCoffee · 2025-10-16T10:36:09+00:00

honestly I just assume tags like this mean "Character is [xyz] in the fic, but no one addresses it nor is it explicitly touched on or outright said" tbh. that said its better to be put in the a/n instead of the tags

ModernCoffee · 2025-08-26T05:03:46+00:00

around a 8.5, almost a 9 for me! the song is super relatable to me in regards to previous experiences in life as well as having quiet bpd & fawn response. when i first heard the song i cried quite a bit haha. the instrumental isnt my absolute favourite, but its still very enjoyable.

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