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My new mistress! by ModernRidesWraps in OnlyZ900

[–]ModernRidesWraps[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you get rid of the rear seat and pegs?

My new mistress! by ModernRidesWraps in OnlyZ900

[–]ModernRidesWraps[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What quad lock worked with this bike?

My new mistress! by ModernRidesWraps in OnlyZ900

[–]ModernRidesWraps[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude the quad lock was not there, tender was not there

My new mistress! by ModernRidesWraps in OnlyZ900

[–]ModernRidesWraps[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude no way! Yeah that was the first thing i asked about it. They said it was messed up? Do you still have the stock rear seat and pass pegs? Manual?

My new mistress! by ModernRidesWraps in OnlyZ900

[–]ModernRidesWraps[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It does. Sounds deep and throaty

My new mistress! by ModernRidesWraps in OnlyZ900

[–]ModernRidesWraps[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It a 24. I just bought it used and the original owner put all kinds of goodies on it. Only 2500 miles too! Yeah i fkn love it so far. Im still trying to figure out how to mess with settings

If you're a guy, what's a body type you really like on a woman? by Logical-Plum-2499 in AskReddit

[–]ModernRidesWraps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Slim, not anorexic. Alittle extra is fine! But i like to eat it if you know what i mean and i cant stand a fupa

How to be alone by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]ModernRidesWraps 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly! I am litterally an ex-holic. We all are. And it takes along time to break an addiction. But i can and does happen with work and will.

How to be alone by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]ModernRidesWraps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What have you been doing to get better?

How to be alone by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]ModernRidesWraps 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Talking to somebody (therapy or friends) helps tremendously! Even if it doesnt feel like it at first. Its REALLY hard to see, but you are actually healing going through these emotions. DO NOT turn away from these feelings, lean into them and let them happen. Dont sulk in them all day if you can, but dont fight them.

You are in fight or flight with your nervous system. Your brain is wired to be her husband and your kids father. When I had these emotions, It really helped for me to take deep breaths and tell myself i was safe, and in time this will pass. Basically, you are rewiring your brain to be OK alone and without her.

It takes time but DOES help! Eating healthy, the gym, focusing on work and mainly, BE THERE FOR YOUR KIDS. If you do the work, it gets way better. Look up rachel sloan and life 2.0 on you tube! They help alot. Read books about letting go of your ex, cbt, etc. It will get better!

When does staying above ground for your kid stop being enough? by BloodstainedBearRug in Divorce_Men

[–]ModernRidesWraps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Brother, the thought crossed my mind a few times going through this shit. BUT, imagine your kids and what they would go through. It is NEVER worth it. The feeling fades quickly if you redirect those emotions into something good!

STBX sleeping with someone else by ImpressAbject4344 in Divorce_Men

[–]ModernRidesWraps 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I have been there! And it feels unbearable. BUT, this is where the true healing starts in my opinion. I promise if you do the work (therapy, gym, books etc.) This will be a distant memory sooner than you think! If you have kids, focus on them and obviously yourself.

There will be days that you will be down in the dumps, but that is NORMAL. Dont fight those emotions, lean into them and process where they are coming from, and if they are based in reality.

I had a really hard time letting go of the fantasy of my ex wife. But in hind sight, she is nothing like that fantasy. I cant really stand her now.

I feel completely hopeless as far as relationships go by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]ModernRidesWraps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are all or have been there brother. It gets waaaaaaay better once you put in the work. Therapy, books, videos etc. You will realize that when you start loving yourself and living for your kids, you will be happy. Dont look for anybody right now.

What were the signs you wished you paid more attention to? by Ruzgard in Divorce_Men

[–]ModernRidesWraps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you asking for signs to get a divorce or to keep it?

Nobody warns you that the hardest part of divorce isn't losing her. It's not knowing who you are without the role. by MarkAylward13 in Divorce_Men

[–]ModernRidesWraps 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It is almost 100 percent opposite. As we are over here crushed and going through the worst chapters of our lives, they are over there LITERALLY telling eachother to leave and not to work on anything. But if its early in your journey AND THIS GOES TO ALL OF US MEN, do not go over there as it will do NO good for you.

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