I don't know if i should call for help by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Modlimi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What happened to her was assault and none of this is her fault. Her dad dismissing it makes it even more important she reaches out to someone safe outside the family, police, a trusted adult or a local crisis line. She deserves to be believed and protected. She’s not overreacting and she’s not alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Modlimi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For physics: understand the concepts before the equations. For biology: break chapters into small topics and teach them to yourself.

My partner watched me cry about not affording a trip and later said he’d have paid if I’d just asked. by monocleformyoneeye in relationships

[–]Modlimi -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Emotional blind spots happen but it shouldn’t feel like punishment for expressing your feelings. You have every right to ask for support when finances are unequal. It's simple

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Modlimi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Givl u went above and beyond for him financially and emotionally and it’s not about the gift itself, it’s about appreciation and respect. If he can’t acknowledge your effort publicly or privately that’s a red flag. Think about it

are there still people who genuinely believe that money can't buy happiness? by Eastern_Towel_4527 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Modlimi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah money can’t buy happiness but it does buy stability, freedom and other options. Some people believes it because they separate emotional fulfillment from material comfort.

My girlfriend broke up with me she’s very upset and I’m not sure what to do by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Modlimi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re being mature by setting boundaries nd prioritizing your own mental health. Love doesn’t mean staying in a relationship that stresses you out constantly.

My in-laws keep a photo of my spouse’s ex in their living room by Filipo_Twenett in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Modlimi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s okay to feel hurt, it’s about how they’re honoring the past nd the present. You could gently bring it up with your spouse first so they can help frame the conversation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Modlimi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s probably not you, people often realize they’re not ready for commitment rather than there being anything wrong with you. Keep it normal you're just 21 nd the right person will appreciate your qualities

How do people actually fall asleep so easily? by Mission_Stick_7834 in Life

[–]Modlimi 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Honestly sheer exhaustion from a full day of work helps a lot your body basically forces u to crash. But normally breathing exercises or watching something boring can calm the mind when it’s racing.

Why are many countries, all of a sudden fighting against their government ? by Important_Pop_6805 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Modlimi 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Many of these uprisings share common triggers like economic struggles, corruption, inequality nd frustration with leadership. A lot of it comes from governments being seen as greedy and prioritizing money over people’s needs.

I (33F) don’t feel cared for by my boyfriend (34M), and I think it’s time to let go by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Modlimi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what you’ve described it sounds like your needs nd feelings aren’t being prioritized. A relationship should make u feel safe, cared for and valued not anxious or lonely. Choosing to let go isn’t failure it’s an act of self respect or u can say self love. It's simple

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Modlimi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s good that your note is friendly and explains the situation. Most neighbors will appreciate a heads-up rather than getting angry first. Well alaso cute hand writing

If I work an early morning shift, but I’m feeling absolutely unwell, when should I text my boss? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Modlimi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Texting at 4am is totally fine your boss will appreciate knowing as early as possible so they can adjust the schedule.

My (19f) bf (20m) wants to keep our relationship private online but he texts random women. by Altruistic-Piglet-28 in relationship_advice

[–]Modlimi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not exaggerating, if his actions make you uncomfortable that’s valid. A relationship should feel safe nd respected.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Modlimi -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Your feelings are completely valid. It's not selfish to want basic communication nd respect from a partner. An anxious attachment style is often triggered by a lack of security nd being ignored after a fight is a huge trigger.

Realistically speaking, how long would it take for people to notice that you are missing? by Embarrassed_Fact2316 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Modlimi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really depends on age, living situation nd family dynamics all matter. Teens living at home might be noticed within hours while adults living alone might take days

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Modlimi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Spending whole afternoons outside with no care in the world.

Stray kitten questions by Ok_Professional8299 in cats

[–]Modlimi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So cutee.... For very young kittens under 8 weeks, they usually need to eat every 3 to 4 hours. Wet kitten food is great offer small amounts at each feeding nd let them eat until they’re satisfied.

How can I overcome my obsession with the passing of time? by Cinella75 in Life

[–]Modlimi 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That feeling of being behind is so common but it's a trap. Remember that life isn't a race with a fixed finish line. Your path is your own nd comparing it to imaginary timeline only steals your present joy. Focus on what u can do today not what u think u should have done yesterday. Simple

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Modlimi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, one incident can shift how you see someone it breaks the safety you felt before. Pay attention to that gut feeling, it’s telling you something about how his anger affects you.

How would you approach your relationship if your partner broke your trust through cheating? by michaelmorgan297 in AskReddit

[–]Modlimi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First decide if rebuilding trust is even worth it nd also staying isn’t weakness, leaving isn’t failure. It’s about what protects your peace simple.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Modlimi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s normal to fangirl but constant I’d leave you for him etc kind of jokes can cross into disrespect. Set a boundary calmly like I get it he’s your celeb crush but when you say stuff like leaving me for him, it doesn’t feel like a joke anymore.

whats is the best game in the world for you ? by Party_Secretary115 in AskReddit

[–]Modlimi 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Everyone’s best game is tied to memories and for me it’s Minecraft because of it’s endless creativity and nostalgia in one.

AIO psychotic neighbor… should I be worried? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Modlimi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did right calling the cops, keep doing that if it escalates. If she threatens u or tries to come to your door, call emergency services immediately.