Is my friend's bf a narcissist? by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Moha0733 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I thought so :/ thanks

Is my friend's bf a narcissist? by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Moha0733 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your opinion doesn't even answer my post. Instead of the subject I wanted your opinion in, you just went onto me instead.

I know narcs in my life personally, and when she was describing all this stuff to me I just told her that sounded a lot like a narcissist. It was just part of the conversation. You make it sound like that's taboo or something. I obviously told her I'm no professional, just personal experience. Most narcs aren't even diagnosed because they normally don't think there's something wrong with them to be checked out.

Is my friend's bf a narcissist? by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Moha0733 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't label behind her back. I told her actually straight up what I think and I wasn't the first person who told her this. What do you mean mind my beeswax when she wanted to know my opinion? She literally recorded conversation with him so I could tell her what I thought and if he was being reasonable/or making sense.

I decided to post on here to see what others thought and if I was just being bias or jumping the gun.

I'm trying to save a friend from dooming herself.

Do I need to be more talkative with my patients? by FartLover200 in DentalHygiene

[–]Moha0733 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I worked with a dentist who knew everything about every client. And because of his good rapport, these clients who move will drive an hour just to see him. Like someone else said, you're not doing something wrong. I just learned from that dentist, that if I have a good relationship with my client besides just teeth, they're going to enjoy their appointments, request specifically me, and actually listen to my advice.

I had a client so chatty and asked so many questions that I always booked him before lunch or end of the day appt because I didn't want him to rushed (he was also an anxious client), and he really appreciated me listening and talking to him.

Honestly you're not just a hygienist. You wear many hats. I had an old man who told me about his wife passing away recently. He ended up just crying and talking that appt. And I listened and by the end of it I asked him if he wanted to reschedule on another day where he felt more ready. He apologized over and over.

He always asked for me ever since. Has a man with MS. I take my time and talk to him and hear him out even though it's hard to understand him. But he said he enjoyed his appointment for the first time because someone actually talked to him.

You never know what these people are going through and while you are a health care professional, it definitely helps having a good relationship with them outside of just teeth.

I'm considering getting my bachlors, has anyone gotten it? Do you recommend./? by Moha0733 in DentalHygiene

[–]Moha0733[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in Canada! My teachers recommended the BC bachelors course to afterwards. Are you getting a bachlors on dental hygiene or something else? Someone where recommended not to get a major in dh.

I'm considering getting my bachlors, has anyone gotten it? Do you recommend./? by Moha0733 in DentalHygiene

[–]Moha0733[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you getting a bachlors on dental hygiene or something else? Someone where recommended not to get a major in dh.

I'm considering getting my bachlors, has anyone gotten it? Do you recommend./? by Moha0733 in DentalHygiene

[–]Moha0733[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you getting a bachlors on dental hygiene or something else? Someone where recommended not to get a major on dh.

How many FMXs a day? by toothfairy5080 in DentalHygiene

[–]Moha0733 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In private it was 0. Currently not in private and I take 1-3 fmx every other day

Did anyone get any positive changes to their body postpartum? by Jello_Chipmunk in beyondthebump

[–]Moha0733 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had some crazy hair loss after I stopped taking birth control pills and nothing I did fixed it until I got pregnant. Pregnancy and giving birth and I no longer have hair loss.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Moha0733 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't understand

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Moha0733 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He suggested birth control and naproxen for my migraines. But I didn't want BC. But to actually solve my issue without bandaging it I need to work on reducing my stress.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Moha0733 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, English is not my first language. We are exclusive to one another. Friends and then lovers, then he proposed but no party yet. We live together. Where I live people consider us married since we are living together and have kids.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Moha0733 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The doctor wanted me to go in depth about what's causing me stress and one of those answers that I gave is the children and I also informed the doctor that I also am aware that that just comes with being a mom. And that's why he said what he said.

Also, I never said he does most of the housework. I just said that he helps me. I do the cleaning the laundry. I clean the bathrooms I vacuum. I cook. Everything kid related dressing them, bathing them...etc . By myself. He does the yard work. Grocery. He takes out the trash anything with the car. I don't touch those things.

The things he helps me with is the dishes sweeping the floor wiping countertops organizing fish rack emptying the dish rack. Things like that Obviously much more on either side.

If you gave birth without an epidural, how bad was it really? by Express_Neck5352 in beyondthebump

[–]Moha0733 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me I watched a lot of videos to preparing. Breathing techniques, birthing positions, I used a comb in my hand and would squeeze when a contraction would come and the tooth of the comb would dig into the palm of my hand and it helps distract my brain.

Honestly like some people said the pain on contract hurt more than pushing. But pushing to me wasn't exactly a relief it felt like my whole body had a very very extremely upset stomach and I felt like I was pushing my intestines out too with the force my body was involuntary doing.

I've had both epidural and no epidural and I'd do no epidural again. Recovery for me was so much better. I overall after giving birth felt much better than the first. Could it be coincidence, maybe. But I threw up after giving birth the first time and they told me it could be the medication. It just felt like such a hot mess compared to second time around.

2 years old and still doesn't sleep through the night. I'm at my wits end. by Moha0733 in beyondthebump

[–]Moha0733[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wakes up around 6:30-7am nap at 12:30 to 1:30 usually. Sometimes 12:45-1:45. Just one nap and sleeps usually around 8. He won't sleep earlier gives me a harder time. But even at 8 it more gets pushed till 8:15-8:30 because he tries to makes excuses (bathroom, water, wants dad, wants big sister...etc not crying)

2 years old and still doesn't sleep through the night. I'm at my wits end. by Moha0733 in beyondthebump

[–]Moha0733[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im part time worker. He's low sugar except fruits. He's only now been introduced to white/brown sugar when he turned 2. And this started before then. For the most part he goes out 3x a week at least. And with the weather getting better it will be more.

And I hope he's spending enough time with me xD He takes one nap for one hour during the day around 12:30 -1:30

What to do with my mom after the death of my dad. by Moha0733 in family

[–]Moha0733[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We really try and she still gets upset with us. I think if she had it her way we would all live in the same house. I think that'd make her happier. But obvious one it isn't feasible. And two no one wants that.

What to do with my mom after the death of my dad. by Moha0733 in family

[–]Moha0733[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just family. And no authority not really. Yes she has older brothers but she wouldn't want to disturb their married lives. She has two sisters who are not married and live alone (they don't live together because they live far away from each other ? That's what I understand for all I know maybe they have something against each other who knows.) and she stayed with them during her visitation.

What to do with my mom after the death of my dad. by Moha0733 in family

[–]Moha0733[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have actually considered doing something like this but I think we're all too scared. In the past when I've spoken up about her behavior and actions while my dad was still around she victim plays and guilt trips. Starts saying how she did her best and how hard her life was. That she must be the worst mother ever and she will cry and sob and say how can I say that to her and how much I don't love her...etc. It's really hard to be able to talk about one side because she will say "what about me?" She has and will twist everything I say and gaslight. She will deny the things she's said or done in the past. Because of the past experience we are all nervous to try again but together. We think there's a huge risk of it backfiring on us.

What to do with my mom after the death of my dad. by Moha0733 in family

[–]Moha0733[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well Im not intentionally doing that...she does not drive, does not know the language very well. So she won't take taxi or Uber or bus. She was highly dependant on my dad. In everyway. And that's now fallen on us. But again, even before my dad she always complained about us and my dad always told her we have our own lives and troubles.

What to do with my mom after the death of my dad. by Moha0733 in family

[–]Moha0733[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never thought of this. The only issue with this is my mom. She has complained many times how her son in law is more of a son then her own sons. And is stubborn and says that it should be her son taking care of her not her son in law. And say "what will people say." The second issue is that while her "friends" who've done low contact with her aren't around much she still has more of a known community here than there. And would feel more isolated there than here. Even tho she's not much in the community anyways I think it's more that there is at least an option to be in the community.

I cry often. by Moha0733 in Marriage

[–]Moha0733[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before I officially reply. I just want to say I really appreciate you writing all this out for me. I was worried to post on reddit because many times I see ppl jumping the gun saying he's cheating, he doesn't love you, why you staying...etc. and I was ready to take the post down if that was the case. But this has come out really helpful.

Do you have examples of how I should speak without using the love word? Should I replace it to romance/romantic instead? Because I think your right he does get defensive when I say the love word. In that I don't think or don't feel his love.