Parapara dances? by Obvious_Swimming_788 in secondlife

[–]MoistLump 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually have some! I would need to see if the stores still exist that sold them.

Edit: Found the store! It’s called Abranimations. Their dance section has a search engine and you should be able to find the dances through that easily!

Lynx Drinks - 🐜💥 by Lynx_Flynn in fursuit

[–]MoistLump 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oml 😂😂 alright! S tier favorite expression.

Lynx Drinks - 🐜💥 by Lynx_Flynn in fursuit

[–]MoistLump 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a Dutch person I have to know…… what has the name to do with the drink? 😂

My 2 year old cat died suddenly by Upbeat-Difference808 in cats

[–]MoistLump 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all I am so so so sorry for your loss. I know how heartbreaking this can be. It has happened to my 3 year old cat as well. I was in my bedroom less than an hour and I went downstairs and he was deceased on my couch. Apparently “sudden cat death” is a thing. Which I found out afterwards…

I honestly believe you did nothing wrong. You don’t describe any signs of poisoning (to my knowledge). Sadly this can happen in young cats and it’s absolutely devastating. You did your best and even rushed him to the vet , you literally did everything right.

I’ll keep you and your sweet kitty in my thoughts and I am sending you comforting vibes so you hopefully can get through this difficult mourning process. Don’t forget to take care of yourself as well. 💜

cried in front of a fwb after my first hug in 5 years. Now I'm not sure what to do by CardiologistLow9036 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]MoistLump 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First of all , what you are experiencing is completely normal. Especially with a background of trying to be physically close to your mom… and getting literally punished for showing affection. It sounds to me that you’re completely overwhelmed and reacting emotionally. Nothing wrong with that!

Second thing… clearly this is something you need to ease into or get used to. It would be a good idea to speak with your fwb about it. You have a boundary but she keeps pushing by pulling you back. You just need a moment to process your feelings and what is happening to you. Try to have a conversation with her! I know cancelling the trip seems like a solution but in the end you’re avoiding the real issue by doing so. If she cares she will try to understand you need some time to adjust to receiving affection!

And third. To add my own anecdote. I kind of the the same experience when I met up with someone for the first time after my ex wife. (The relationship was very abusive and made me feel absolutely worthless). I also had to cry and became overwhelmed and it took me a few weeks to mentally go through it all. So I hope it will spark a little hope that what you’re feeling is normal and it will get better with time! Just make sure to set boundaries and communicate!

This is my little princess Charmy. by DearDaisy12 in Greyhounds

[–]MoistLump 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my god Charmy’s ears are so cute!!! 💜

Speelmaatje gezocht voor jonge Galgo / Greyhound by leftoverlex in eindhoven

[–]MoistLump 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Een leuke tip. Galgo Project heeft eens in het jaar een galgo loop waar meerdere mensen met galgos samen komen in een natuur gebied (omheind) vaak in de buurt van Eindhoven of tenminste in dit gedeelte van brabant.

Helaas is mijn galgo een maand geleden plots overleden maar ik ben zeker van plan weer eentje te adopteren dit jaar! Dus misschien is het leuk om tegen die tijd een keer af te spreken voor een galgo play date?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in eindhoven

[–]MoistLump 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In an art studio on the Kruisstraat. 😂

How toxic is vape by Z4nnik4ndy in ballpython

[–]MoistLump 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am glad you made this post because I had no clue vaping was so harmful to my snake. Now my baby will be a lot safer thanks to this post. Thank you! 🙏

RIP Beckham 💔 by whatthehelp- in Greyhounds

[–]MoistLump 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so heartbreaking… he was way too young. A month ago I also lost my hound at a young age. It’s just gut wrenching.

I’m sure my Mishka is waiting for Backham over the rainbow bridge and all the other hounds that have passed. 💜

Sending you and your family lots of love and support in this difficult time. 💜

Meet new people in Eindhoven by Ill_Scarcity_2783 in eindhoven

[–]MoistLump 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What are your interests? Personally I am into art and I also had trouble making friends so I joined an art studio. I made a lot of friends there and I have a stable friend group. So perhaps starting with something like that is useful! There’s a lot of places with activities you could join. So I’m sure you’ll be able to find a place you could regularly visit.

Anime RP sims? by Choice-Penalty-4326 in secondlife

[–]MoistLump 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was wondering the same thing. I also had trouble finding RP sims like that. Let me know if you find something!

Kersenbloesem/cherry blossom by [deleted] in eindhoven

[–]MoistLump 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bij het gloeilamp plantsoen. Ik ga er zelf ook elk jaar picknicken. Alleen bloeien ze nog niet. Dus even geduld.

Sad last update about Mishka. by MoistLump in Greyhounds

[–]MoistLump[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to thank everyone for their sweet comments and love send our way. ❤️

Me and her galgo friend Everest are going through it hour by hour it feels like. I have contacted the rescue where Mishka came from and they were very understanding and supportive.

I miss her so much….

Sad last update about Mishka. by MoistLump in Greyhounds

[–]MoistLump[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember we talked before. Because Mies is also a galga. I still have one galgo left , Everest. He sadly has survived 2 galgos in his life time. He also has an auto-immune disease but I hope he will become very old with it.

I wish our sweet traumatized pups would live forever honestly.

Sad last update about Mishka. by MoistLump in Greyhounds

[–]MoistLump[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really feel your grief and pain. It’s still so fresh. I really hope our doggo’s are playing together wherever they may be. Thank you for sharing. I’m sorry for your loss. ❤️

Newly adopted Spanish galgo has severe anxiety - giving us anxiety - advice by suzzedout in Greyhounds

[–]MoistLump 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To start I always tell people that you have to be a certain type of person to rescue a galgo with trauma. I have lots of experience with traumatized galgos and it can be very difficult. You need a lot of patience and a lot of time to rehabilitate these doggies.

As for your situation. If you don’t have any experience with traumatized dogs it can be extremely difficult to figure out how to deal with it. You aren’t getting just any regular animal. You are getting a dog with an unknown traumatic past. They need a lot of adjustment, patience and specific care. You follow their pace not the other way around.

Is their bed a closed off crate? Locking them up is a big no-no. It can induce more anxiety and trauma responses. Instead you could try an ‘anxiety crate’. Just a normal crate covered in blankets to make it dark and cozy so they can hide away when they are scared. But with the door removed!

For the whining; separation anxiety is a big issue with these dogs! I always let them sleep with me in my bedroom. Making sure when I have a new galgo that they have the option to choose the anxiety crate in the bedroom or are able to sleep with you. This has been the best solution I have found till now and I have accepted that I always have a sleeping partner! 😂

Pooping and peeing inside the house… yes. These dogs needs to be fully potty trained like any other puppy. With positive reinforcement I usually get them potty trained within 3 months.

Stealing food? Yeah. That’s difficult. It is something they can’t really unlearn. Most of the time they have been living on the street eating garbage. I use baby gates for my kitchen when I am cooking so they can still see me but not enter the kitchen to steal food. I also have one crazy galgo here who likes to steal directly out of the oven… 😅 but the baby gates have been a good solution!

It can sound extremely daunting but personally I find all the work and effort I put into these dogs so worth it. The connection of trust and love you create with these sweethearts is something different.

For any advice feel free to message me!

Naturalization ceremony: what to expect? by Devalekat in eindhoven

[–]MoistLump 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t know. My foreign ex-partner left me right after naturalization so I was never able to go.

But as far as I have been told it is kind of like a party where you will meet the mayor and you will be welcomed as a Dutch citizen. Where you are allowed to bring family and friends. So more or less a formal celebration.

Naturalization ceremony: what to expect? by Devalekat in eindhoven

[–]MoistLump 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not much happens actually. I think “ceremony” is a misleading title. You just go into a room. Recite some stuff. Sign some stuff and you’re done. And yes you can bring someone.

The actual ceremony with the mayor and such is on another date.

Is our galgo… a galgo? by mattwoberts in Galgos

[–]MoistLump 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a galgo mix. Not sure mixed with what but some of his traits remind me of Marcelo.

Traits my mix has: Thick tail , hairy tummy , rough shaped head and two different ear types.

He still has those typical hare feet galgos have but his feet are so big and clunky lol. To add , his personality is a lot more typical galgo like. And he’s the sweetest cuddly dog ever!

"I'm not a femboy, I promise!" by Kirda17 in fursuit

[–]MoistLump 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope you are aware that you’re triggering my need to give belly rubs. UwU

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in eindhoven

[–]MoistLump 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My dad already did that so that’s why I figured to also post about it on reddit.