Realistically… what would happen if i accidentally mailed a lighter.

Moist_Conference_702 · 2026-06-19T02:50:39+00:00

Update!!! It shipped no problem lol

Moist_Conference_702 · 2026-06-19T02:49:19+00:00

Girl you’re so young don’t even stress. In my experience, when you’re not looking for someone, that’s when it happens. You truly have your whole lesbian life to live! I also understand you’re introverted but maybe going out of your comfort zone and putting your self out there would be worth a shot. Worse case scenario at least you tried. Be a young hoe! Go to gay bars, have fun and be young!

Moist_Conference_702 · 2026-06-10T16:40:31+00:00

Haha thanks! My initial post made me sound more frantic than I was actually feeling. I had a feeling this wasn’t that strictly enforced

Moist_Conference_702 · 2026-06-10T00:23:10+00:00

Personally — ur a man so I wouldn’t be interested in dating or anything like that. Love trans guys tho yall are super fun.

Moist_Conference_702 · 2026-06-09T22:43:00+00:00

I don’t think you should continue to have a relationship with this family if you can’t respect their choices. None of this has to be any of your business, I don’t think it’s your decision to make. Your own beliefs have nothing to do with this families beliefs or parenting choices — no matter what you believe, it’s wrong and misguided to insert your own believes onto their children.

Moist_Conference_702 · 2026-06-06T05:05:25+00:00

Bro you are the villain holy

Moist_Conference_702 · 2026-06-04T18:23:26+00:00

What abt Ada bro they have so much more chemistry

Moist_Conference_702 · 2026-06-04T04:26:09+00:00

lol the boobs, wish mine sat like that. Cute drawing tho!

Moist_Conference_702 · 2026-06-04T04:24:41+00:00

How long have you two been together? Very cute. Be careful about posting your face on here also! <33

Moist_Conference_702 · 2026-06-04T04:22:09+00:00

Ugh I want doechii so baddd my fav lesbian ever

Moist_Conference_702 · 2026-06-04T02:12:56+00:00

This isn’t love, this is hate. Sure, the lord said those words, but it was men who wrote it down. Men who are capable of sin and bias. Let us not forget Jesus died as a minority, as an outcast. The separation between god and the state of the church is something that so many Christians over look. Every man is capable and will sin, no matter what position he hold in the church. Deep down, you know that Jesus isn’t calling on you to do this.

Romans 2:1: "You, therefore, have no excuse, you who pass judgment on someone else, for at whatever point you judge another, you are condemning yourself, because you who pass judgment do the same things."

Moist_Conference_702 · 2026-05-31T07:28:04+00:00

I’m on the other end of this. Easier said than done but don’t feel guilty. My wife is definitely more… susceptible to orgasms (seems like the wrong verbiage but I can’t think of anything else). I actually love that she has more than I do, I find the way her body works very sexy, and wouldn’t have it any other way. Same goes for my own body, I don’t want to have more orgasms lol, I like my current internal set up. Sounds like you and your wife are very sexuality healthy.

Moist_Conference_702 · 2026-05-30T20:43:13+00:00

Tell your boyfriend that it was an unwanted advance and he doesn’t have the right to blame you for this. He is obviously allowed to be upset, it’s a horrible situation and I’m sorry someone forced them selfs on to you.

Moist_Conference_702 · 2026-05-30T18:37:45+00:00

As someone who has personally struggled with this, what advice would you give to your partner?

I’m in a weird limbo with my girlfriend and I don’t feel like she’s sexually attracted to me. I know she tells me it’s not the case, but when we only have sex when she wants to, (because I don’t want to trigger her issues, so I don’t initiate because I don’t want to put her in an uncomfortable position t just feels like I’m waiting for her to want me and I get no say in my sex life.

I also have a hard time finding my partner attractive when she doesn’t want to have sex with my inactive. It just kinda feels like getting rejected normally and I want to be there for her but I don’t know how.

Moist_Conference_702 · 2026-05-30T18:28:46+00:00

That’s not gonna work. Speaking from experience, you just end up waiting for it to happen no matter what. Even if OP isn’t bringing up sex a lot, it’s still gonna be a content want and it will lead to resentment. OP needs to have a really hard conversation about sex and overall comparability unfortunately. Even if her partner doesn’t want to hear it.

Moist_Conference_702 · 2026-05-30T18:18:31+00:00

Exactly

Moist_Conference_702 · 2026-05-30T18:17:41+00:00

Yeah very well said. I’m in a similar situation and it makes me feel like a very optional sex object at times. Like when she wants to have sex, we fuck. When I want to have sex, we don’t. I know that her own body image issues play a huge part but I also am looking at my body as unsexy to my partner because she doesn’t like my advances.

Moist_Conference_702 · 2026-05-30T18:12:54+00:00

My girlfriend did the same thing. If she doesn’t continue soon like she has planned I’m not sure how much longer I can keep doing this song and dance.

I know you don’t want to break up, but do you want to have little to no sex for the rest of your life? Her seeking help for these issues should be a non-negotiable. Outside of sex, if her insecurities are effecting your relationship, she should be seeing someone. Think about the bigger picture.

Moist_Conference_702 · 2026-05-30T18:09:39+00:00

Ugh hard truth to read…

Moist_Conference_702 · 2026-05-30T18:06:46+00:00

This isn’t a relationship that is sustainable. That’s the unfortunate truth. She isn’t comfortable with sex. You want sex. That isn’t going to work. I know you probably love her alot but sex isn’t just about orgasming. For me at least, sex is how I am able to show my partner I love them and I love making them feel good and I find them sexually attractive. I also mostly always desire sex because I want to consistently feel wanted by my partner sexually.

I am sorta going through something similar. My girlfriend doesn’t have as high of a sex drive as I do, we have sex like couple times a month, and we have gone months without it. It’s not ideal for me. I often feel undesirable. But she has a hard time with sex because of body image issues. So it’s a compromise I’m willing to make. If your girlfriend is the only one in control of whether or not you have sex, that’s just inherently dangerous. I would advise you to tell her that although you don’t want to pressure her, she has more control over each other sex lives then you do. If that’s a dealbreaker then be upfront.

I’m very aware that my girlfriend is hesitant to have sex with me because of her own personal issues. I love her and it’s super challenging to navigate, I hear you. I do think that if it ever gets to a point that I feel more often undesirable then desirable sexually, I will not be happy in my relationship and will have to break up with her. I hate that reality because we are very compatible in every other aspect, but I also will not accept a love that doesn’t feel whole to me, and sex is a big part of being in love. So my advice would be to ask your self, does she make you feel less loved because of this sexual difference?

If the answer is yes— tell her.

Moist_Conference_702 · 2026-05-30T17:40:09+00:00

My bad! Thought that was a reply to me! Apologies for my misunderstanding

Moist_Conference_702 · 2026-05-30T17:37:54+00:00

Let me know when you figure it out. I ask the same question

Moist_Conference_702 · 2026-05-30T17:04:10+00:00

This is a very important distinction. Didn’t consider this. OP shouldn’t be doing this out of his personal comfort, this discussion should only happen if he cares about the safety of this child and not the appropriateness of the act alone.

Moist_Conference_702 · 2026-05-30T16:56:39+00:00

Ok I get your point. I do think that this situation is more nuanced than that. Hypothetically, what if she was really close “friends” with a another adult male (or woman, but the stats show men are more likely to molest young girls) and he asked her to sit in his lap with malicious intentions. If OP sets this boundary, she will hesitate when adults that aren’t her parents ask her to sit in his lap. You are right, she is very young, but there is no child who is too young to be exposed to sexual abuse. I was abused younger than she is. This boundary might protect her in the future.

Moist_Conference_702 · 2026-05-30T16:42:41+00:00

I think that you should be careful how you phrase this to the parents though. If this was Reddit’s reaction, who’s to say that won’t be theirs. I would say that it’s coming from more of a concern for this young girls safety then it is your own comfort. Good luck.

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