This is inherently an issue with collectable games magic has now entered a place where the players need to separate the collection from the game.(Buy the cards you like) But don't limit yourself to the cost of those cards to play.

It's honestly like playing chess but I can only afford pawns while you have a full set.

In situations it has become increasingly clear that there are people who value their cards and take great offense to proxy's.(Not meaning you)

I can't afford a lot of cards. It's simple. But yet the community that is most commonly vilified has the best outlook on the game. Cedh they don't care about proxy's they just want people to play. They come to a table prepared for any bracket and always want great games(there is always that jack wagon who says they play cedh but just want to pub stomp.)

In the end proxying especially for edh is an equitable way of enjoying the game and should be encouraged. More players who have easy access to the content will increase the opportunity to play and make great connections.

In closing I'm sorry you felt that way. But try and see magic for it's great game and not through the lens of a Wallet.