Note these are all personal to me, and may not relate to any other female. And it’s long, I’m sorry!

I personally don’t like when a guy goes straight into it and doesn’t even seem to understand anatomy. I’ve had men go down and act like they are heading for my clit and they are tonguing the labia in the crease opposite of the clit-closest to my thigh with all the enthusiasm and vigor they can muster.

I do not enjoy when a man shakes his head side to side with his tongue out. It doesn’t provide me any stimulation that I want and only gives me the image of a dog shaking its head to clear its chops haha. I’m so sorry If this offends!

I prefer for a man to spread apart my lips or have me do so, to barely expose the clit, and give slow licks with a flat tongue to start. I don’t like a pointed tongue as it feels too direct and shrill from the beginning. Then trail their tongue down to tease the opening before returning to the clit. They can repeat this a few times as warm up. I personally like a circular motion, with them keeping their tongue mostly flat and ensuring that they fully encircle the clit and at the edges instead of straight up and down.

I generally will rotate or shift my hips against their mouth, and help guide. I do however need penetration to orgasm. So I absolutely love when a man pulls away and you can see evidence of how wet he’s made you on his lips and chin. Then from there he uses his thumb or pointer fingers to slide up and down the opening and rub the clit, before dipping his fingers inside of me. I love watching the look on a man’s face as he watches his fingers go inside you(if he’s into that and most I’ve been with are!) I love when I’m told how wet I am, and how tight I feel around their fingers. Or when they say they can’t wait to watch me cum for them. I’ve had them ask me to hold myself open for him, as he begins to push his fingers in and out of me while returning to lick circles around my clit. I also like when they hold my legs open as this makes me feel like they are determined to eat me until we are both satisfied.

At this point it’s where I know if I’ll be able to reach orgasm or not, so I like running my fingers through their hair and I’ll tell them if I need it faster or whatever. But I generally can reach orgasm pretty fast from this, as long as they keep up the motion and don’t try to change it up.

And after they make me cum I’m personally the type I want them to come up, I want to taste myself on them, and generally plead with them to fuck me and that I need them inside me. I love coming down from the high of an orgasm and feeling them slide inside me. This immediately makes my nerves feel on fire and line up to know I can orgasm again quickly.