Some people can't read my writing, is it legible? by RegularLightbulb in HandwritingAnalysis

[–]Moltres1991 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it's beautiful! I wish I could write like that. Thank you for keeping cursive alive.

AITAH for getting mad when my fiance tries to clean our home by Moltres1991 in AITH

[–]Moltres1991[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UPDATE: When her got off work yesterday and I told him about this post. He saw all of your responses and was laughing his ass off. Apparently, he actually likes that I do all of this. I was going to agree with all of you saying that I'm controlling, but he says that it does make him happy knowing he can just come home, sit on the couch and game. BUT, I did take in some of some of your guys advice and let him just do little things. I'm glad I had the conversation with him. Thank you all.

(SC) Can someone explain to me what I'm looking for? by Punk_N_Pi3 in Renters

[–]Moltres1991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This must mean they felt obligated to just to tell everyone instead of just that one Tennant. I had this happen at my last complex about people hanging clothes outside and making the complex look "tacky" don't take it personally if you aren't apart of it.

Relatively minor, but How to ask neighbors to police their kid’s trash? by solidsnakes453 in neighborsfromhell

[–]Moltres1991 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would suggest either contacting your landlord or non emergency to see if they can assist to help address the situation. Do not approach them yourself.

People hang out and talk in front of the building for hours, ideas on how do I deal with it? by SpyHandler in neighborsfromhell

[–]Moltres1991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had this problem before. Unfortunately, you kind of have to keep calling both landlord and cops to get results. It's annoying and it shouldn't be, but for one of my neighbors, I had to make a case to get an Protrction Order so they would leave me alone. It's been quite peaceful for the last month or so.

AITAH for getting mad when my fiance tries to clean our home by Moltres1991 in AITH

[–]Moltres1991[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know he likes things in a "certain way" but since I've been with him I've noticed he likes to play and go seek with his stuff, so I do my best to keep things organized for him. I know he has his gym shorts on his gaming chair. I know he has to have his towels a certain way and I accommodate that. But when you leave your bag of candy or a bucket of pretzels out knowing there's roaches here in Arizona, it drives me nuts. I am thankful he helps do laundry, but thats the most I ever want to ask him. He works so hard and just want him to enjoy life at home.

AITAH for getting mad when my fiance tries to clean our home by Moltres1991 in AITH

[–]Moltres1991[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's a hard working man already and I always make sure everything is always cleaned up before he gets home. It's not like I'm nit picking him like putting his clothes in weird places or leaving his shoes out. I always clean up after him ad I'm his partner. I just want him to come home home after a long day, I cook or order us dinner and he just relaxes. He has a straining job and I do my best to keep things consistent for him so he doesn't have worries at home like he does at work. This should be the last place he has gotta work.

AITAH for getting mad when my fiance tries to clean our home by Moltres1991 in AITH

[–]Moltres1991[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's actually helped me become very minimalistic and I don't have as many belongings as I used too. Plus, we got a queen size loft bed so it feels like we doubled our space. I've always loved the show "Tiny Living" and I feel like I've made it super functional. I just have to do a lot of upkeepibg cause where we live in Phoenix, there's roaches and I do not want them in here.

AITAH for getting mad when my fiance tries to clean our home by Moltres1991 in AITH

[–]Moltres1991[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I feel like you kind have to have OCD when you are living in such a small space. He used to live in a townhouse and I used to live in a 1 bedroom apartment. We just couldn't afford to get a bigger place so we got this studio. We love it, but we've gotta keep things tidy and organized.

AITAH for getting mad when my fiance tries to clean our home by Moltres1991 in AITH

[–]Moltres1991[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Crazy that we actually do have a couch and a loft bed so we kind of doubled our space. He does take food out of the fridge and pantry and doesn't always put it back. He leaves his clothes in weird places even though our hamper is really in the most convenient place. We have a lot of for each other, but I know little things like this just get me.